Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers

#triangulation #narcissisticmother #narcissisticparent Does your mother often compare you to others to make you feel less than enough? Does she speak badly to you about your other parent when they are not present? Have you noticed your narcissistic mother being in the middle of every relationship you have with other family members (like siblings, cousins…)? If you’ve answered yes to any of these,...

Do you feel like you had to grow up too fast and you hardly remember having a childhood? Were you the one who took care of a lot of practicalities at home when other kids were out playing? Did your mother confide her secretes and problems to you when you were a child? Did you feel like you were the only one capable of taking care of things in your family, and that if you stopped things would fall...

Are your boundaries still not working and you are wondering where you may be going wrong? Are you worried you are never going to be able to set successful boundaries? Before you lose hope, here are the top 3 mistakes you may be making, that may be preventing your boundaries to be successful and lasting. Once you become aware of this, you can start to practice a different, more effective way to set...

Does just the thought of setting boundaries with your mother fill you with dread and anxiety? Have you gone as far as expressing a boundary only to be crushed by guilt straight away? Have you tried to set boundaries time and time again, but it never worked? If it hasn’t worked for you so far, I get it. No matter how many videos we watch, or how much we read about boundaries, setting them with your...

What is the impact of maternal narcissism in your everyday life?  How does it affect you? Does it ever get to a point where we are done with all this work?? Today's episode is a little different. I am sharing with you a real life example of how we can navigate an event when mother wounds get triggered and activated.  Related episodes: https://audioboom.com/posts/8497948-the-number-1-antidote-to-se...

Do you feel threatened or uncomfortable when someone is kind with you? Do you barely enjoy a gift before you race to find a way to give something in return? Do you hate to receive a favour because then you feel obliged to return it? Do you feel a wave of guilt when someone does something for you? All of the guilt and anxiety you are feeling around giving and receiving can very well be traced back...

Has the way you relate with your partner changed since you started on this journey of healing mother wounds? Have you found yourself wondering if you are with the right person after all? Have you found you are less tolerant to some of your partner’s behaviours? Are you feeling confused and conflicted about it all? One of the most common questions I get is: Does this mean my marriage will fall apar...

Do you feel you may have experienced spiritual abuse by your narcissistic mother, but you are not sure? Are you still experiencing it now in your present-day life? If you have, and maybe still are, you are not alone in this! Spiritual abuse is a real thing! Today we are going to go through the signs to identify and recognise this kind of manipulation and how to deal with it.  This type of manipula...

In this Special Episode with Mark Usher - Relationship Coach for husbands and host of "Be the husband she brags about" Podcast - we go deeper into the topic of narcissistic mothers-in-law, exploring the dynamics of mother/son relationship.  The purpose of this episode is to offer clarity and a safe healing space for both husbands and wives involved in this complex triangle, made even more intense...

Do you measure your healing progress in terms how able you are to manage your mother’s abusive behaviour? Do you feel you should be able to be functioning and adjusted to an abusive and dysfunctional relationship? In this episode I share the 4 phases of the journey of healing from maternal narcissism and what "Managing" truly means. Here are all the links⬇ Access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice...

Have you ever wondered if your stepmother can be as damaging as a narcissistic mother? Do you feel like you’ve lost your father or your other parent since this person came into their life? In this episode I offer an overview of the impact a narcissistic stepmother can have and how to deal with this challenge. All the link you need are here⬇ Apply for Reclaim Your Fullness Women Circles here: https...

How often do you feel completely alone? How often do you wonder if you are the only one experiencing something regarding your narcissistic mother? Are you the only one feeling constantly guilty and anxious, or ashamed, or angry? I want you to know that you are not alone! Yet most daughters of narcissistic mothers feel alone most of the time. I did too! Why? In this episode I cover why a narcissist...

How many times while growing up has your mother told you she knows best? How many times does she still use sentences like: “And that’s the truth.” “I know exactly how these things work.” “I’ve been here longer than you, don’t pretend to know more than me.”?? If you have been brought up by a narcissistic mother, chances are you have experienced some form of truth-telling by her. In this episode we...

Do you ever feel the need to call your mother to tell her your good news, only to be disappointed with her reaction? Do you feel the need to share with her what’s going on in your life even knowing she will respond in a way that’s hurtful for you? If you do, I get it. I've spent hours on the phone to my mother hoping to get from her what was never going to come, like support and validation. The re...

In this episode I'm answering the 4 questions I get asked the most about no contact. If you are no contact or if you are thinking about going no contact, you need to listen to this. All the useful links are here⬇ Access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice here https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/ Apply for he 1:1 10 Weeks Inner Transformation Healing Mother Wounds Programme here https://womenre...

Do you ever feel like you have no idea who you are? Is this happening more and more since you learnt about maternal narcissism and started your healing journey? Does this feel confusing and uncomfortable? If you are nodding right now, thinking, "Yes, this is exactly how I feel!" I get it. I’ve been there, and still am. And you are so not alone in this!  Being brought up by a narcissistic mother st...

Do you feel like you’ve tried everything with your narcissistic mother, and nothing has worked? Have you collected enough techniques to fill a book and still no results? Do you feel frustrated, defeated and on the verge of giving up? I get it, as this has been my experience too. But don't get discouraged, as there may be 1 thing you've yet to try, and I share it in this episode! Access the FREE Se...

Have you been feeling your mother-in-law's behaviour has a negative impact on you and your family life, but can't quite put the finger on it? Does she intrude in your life constantly disregarding the boundaries you set? Does everyone tell you how lucky you are with such a m0ther-in-law and you feel like the only one to see her true face? If your answer is yes, you might be dealing with a narcissis...

Are you no contact with your narcissistic mother and finding it challenging to maintain it? Are you constantly getting sucked back in? Are you battling with wanting to know how your mother is reacting to your decision but not wanting to break the no contact? And if you are thinking of going no contact, then you need to hear this now. In this episode I share the number 1 reason why no contact fails...

Does your mother ever ring you at crazy times to ask for things you know she could easily get done without you? Does she require you to do errands with her you know she could easily do by herself? Does she ever require you to sort and fix things for her, when you have no idea how to, and calling a professional was the only thing to do from the start? Is this constant stream of demands leaving you...

❓Are you in the middle of planning your wedding and your mother is driving you crazy? ❓Are you in a committed relationship but afraid to take the next step as you don’t know how you could possibly handle a wedding with your mother being involved? ❓Was planning your wedding with your mother such a nightmare that you are terrified about planning anything else? ❓Or are you wishing more than anyth...

Does your mother still treat you like a child? Does she regularly interfere with your life because she knows better? Has she resisted any signs that you were growing up, like moving out, going to college, going out with your friends, getting married etc? Do you ever have to tell her “I’m an adult now, I know what I’m doing!” only to be met with incredulity? If your answer is yes, you may have expe...

Mother’s day is coming up and it is a challenging time for daughters of narcissistic mothers, so I decided to do a special episode to address this topic before the date. At this time... Demands are going to be at unusual high. Expectations are going to be loaded. Guilt tripping will reach a new level. Social pressure is going to be as intense as ever. Bottom line is, this one day of the year has t...

Have you ever been confused by the fact that your mother fits in with a narcissistic mother description and yet she seems to have empathy?   Have you ever felt her empathy manifests somewhat out of place when directed at you?  If you felt that way, I get it! I've been confused over this for a while once finding out my mother was a narcissist, as she seemed to have some empathy at times.  In this e...

Is your cycle painful and difficult each month? Did your mother tell you not to talk about your cycle, and to just get on with it? Do you feel overwhelmed by emotions during your cycle? If your answer is yes, I truly feel you.  And I want you to know that it doesn't have to be that way! Reason why I invited our special guest, Antoinette Mc Weeney to share her expertise on the topic, and to explain...