Dating, Marriage and Divorce Conversations (DMD)

Can true strength coexist with vulnerability? Explore how men can balance emotional expression with intellectual understanding in today’s complex relational dynamics. We promise an engaging discussion where we'll tackle the often-misunderstood balance between showing emotions and maintaining resilience. Through practical insights, we’ll explore when it’s appropriate to express emotions and ho...

Have you ever paused to consider the relationship you have with yourself? In this episode, we take you through a recent mountain hike that sparked deep introspection on self-worth and the overlooked necessity of self-care. We explore the common pitfalls of getting lost in external relationships and social media distractions, stressing the importance of dedicating time to connect with our inner sel...

Can differing parenting styles really strain your romantic relationship? Join me, Igor Meystelman, as I unravel how the evolving dynamics between parents and children can impact your love life. We'll explore the stark shift in parenting challenges due to rapid technological and social changes, and why authoritarian methods often fall short. I'll share insights on fostering a strong, empa...

Ever wondered how the celestial mechanics of the sun and moon can illuminate the dynamics of your relationship? Join us as we explore the profound symbolism behind the Hebrew words for the sun ( shemesh ) and the moon ( levanah ) and how they mirror the male and female roles in a relationship. Reflecting on the moon's phases and a woman's menstrual cycle, we highlight the natural rhythms...

Can the key to overcoming relationship challenges be found in the divine? Join us for an enlightening discussion as we explore how our relationship with God can profoundly influence and elevate our interactions with others, especially during the spiritually significant month of Elul. We delve into the theme of faith and trust in the face of adversity, seeing these moments not as setbacks but as op...

Have you ever wondered what truly fuels the sparks of attraction? Join us as Rachel  Burnham (dating coach) and Leorah Elin (matchmaker) share their insights into the dynamic world of dating and relationships. In a candid conversation, we unravel how our personal histories, attitudes, and the energy we emanate deeply influence our romantic connections. Learn why positivity and self-growth aren&apo...

Embark on a journey with me, Igor Meystelman, as we unravel the complexities of relational intimacy that go far beyond the bedroom. Imagine a bond so intricate and profound, where emotional and physical closeness weave together, creating a tapestry of connection that is the bedrock of any romantic partnership. Throughout this episode, we illuminate the path to understanding and nurturing these non...

Embark on a journey to the heart of healthy relationships as we wrap up the season with an in-depth look at the pillars that support a fulfilling romantic partnership. Together, we'll explore the significance of boundaries, akin to property lines that define personal space, and dissect the complexities of enmeshment within family dynamics. Uncover the power of self-differentiation, and learn...

Have you ever stopped to consider how your self-esteem is the bedrock of your relationships? In this episode, we unearth the profound ways in which our sense of self-worth intertwines with our connections to those we cherish. We explore why self-esteem is more than just feeling good about ourselves —it's about understanding that our value doesn't hinge on others' perceptions or our...

Embark on an enlightening odyssey with me,  as we navigate the intricate web of our relational selves and the profound impact of our early attachments on our adult relationships. Ever pondered the possibility of measuring relational intelligence, akin to IQ or EQ? We delve deep into this concept, examining how our 'clean slate' at birth evolves through experiences and attachment styles,...

What if you had the power to navigate the complex world of dating and marriage, even amidst challenging times? This episode uncovers authentic ways to balance personal joy and the guilt and stress of our current reality, drawing from the wisdom of Jewish discussions and expert advice. We tackle the concept of dating and the the powerful tools that can help us hold onto seemingly opposing emotions...

What if your relationship could be transformed from a power struggle to a harmonious partnership? Join us as we unravel the complexities of marriage and relationships with Shaya Kraus, a mental health professional, and clinical supervisor at the Rambam Family Health Center. His wealth of knowledge and experience, specifically in couples counseling, and domestic violence awareness, play a pivotal r...

Are you ready to transform your parent-child relationship? Join me as I host a fascinating conversation with Miriam Campbell, founder of Skills for Connection, who enlightens us on the art of fostering robust connections. Miriam's journey from being a speech therapist to a social worker serves as the backbone of our discourse, where she generously shares her insights and tools utilized to enh...

Do you remember the flutter of excitement, the spark of connection when you first met someone special? That's the magical season of courtship that can be rekindled at any age and any stage of your relationship. Join me, Igor Meystelman, for a heartfelt exploration of the seasons of relationships. We'll journey through love and intimacy, acceptance and celebration in the context of our ol...

Do you ever find yourself resorting to emotional cutoff in relationships? Curious about what's truly driving this behavior? This thought-provoking episode dives into the complex subject of emotional cutoff, enmeshment, self-differentiation, and their impact on our ability to recognize and appreciate our own value, as well as the value of others. We share insights on why people rely on emotion...

Have you ever wondered how the strength of your spousal relationship impacts your parenting and family dynamics? In today's episode, we shed light on this crucial connection and introduce our upcoming Parent Empowerment program, a six-part series designed to fortify the foundation of your family through the relationship of the spouses. Discover the concept of Mirroring and its potential to en...

In this episode, we take a closer look at what John Gottman refers to as the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling. When any of these 4 factors exist in a relationship, they cause tremendous, and sometimes, irreversible harm to the relationship. The good news is that the more we understand how these factors exist in our relationships, the more we can...

In this episode, we took another deep dive into the challenges of the dating world.  I had an opportunity once again to sit down with Mrs. Leorah Elin (a veteran matchmaker) and Mrs. Rachel Burnham (a dating coach). Mrs. Leorah Elin, a noted shadchan, dating coach, kallah teacher, and educator from Waterbury, Connecticut, has been successfully making shidduchim for over 22 years. Leorah’s warmth a...

Rena Reiser helps women tune into their inner wisdom to create space for Hashem's shefa to flow into their lives. Download her free Tune In Journal + meditation at www.tuneinjournal.com: and find her podcast "Tune In with Rena Reiser" on your favorite podcast app. In this episode,  I had an opportunity to sit down with Rena Reiser and her husband Rabbi Yonason Reiser to discuss this...

In this episode, I had an opportunity to sit down with Mrs. Leorah Elin (a veteran matchmaker) and Mrs. Rachel Burnham (a dating coach) to a difficult and sensitive conversation and discuss the challenges facing those who are in the dating scene.  We touched on many topics and aspects of dating. Hope you enjoy! Mrs. Leorah Elin, a noted shadchan, dating coach, kallah teacher, and educator from Wat...

Couples manage to make everything else a priority in their lives, except for their relationship. This episode explores what the starting point must be to begin the transformation from passive existence to proactive ownership of our romantic relationships: Mindset. Support the show

I had the privilege to have Rabbi Dr. Yosef Lynn as a guest on my podcast.  He has been a Dean of Students at Yeshiva Machon Yaakov in Jerusalem for the last 18 years. He is also a co-author of 2 books: Not a Partnership; and Nurture their Nature. He is a sought-after speaker and workshop presenter, and he regularly runs a successful Marriage Mastermind program. I had an opportunity to take a deep...

I had the privilege to have Rabbi Dr. Yosef Lynn as a guest on my podcast.  He has been a Dean of Students at Yeshiva Machon Yaakov in Jerusalem for the last 18 years. He is also a co-author of 2 books: Not a Partnership; and Nurture their Nature. He is a sought-after speaker and workshop presenter, and he regularly runs a successful Marriage Mastermind program. I had an opportunity to take a deep...

As men, we are constantly confronted with the challenge of figuring out how to prioritize our competing responsibilities: being a husband, being a father, being a provider. Some feel confused, some feel frustrated, some misprioritize these competing roles. This episode explores  what it is like to be a man while trying to successfully perform multiple roles, and how to maintain the right mindset a...

In this episode we explore giving awareness to our levels of self-esteem. Interactions with our spouses, children and co-workers constantly provide us with an opportunity to assess whether our sense of self-esteem is defined by the outside world, or we have a healthy sense of the Self and thus can mount a good defense against external intruders (critics, nay sayers, etc.). The more we are aware, t...