Dateless in Delray

Imagine if you stop swiping for “the one” and start consciously designing the relationship that actually fits you,  In this bold and enlightening episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer chats with Dr. Joli Hamilton—research psychologist, relationship coach, author, and TEDX speaker,—about ethical non-monogamy, jealousy, and what to ask when someone’s profile says “ENM.” Dr. Jol...

What if your desire wasn’t broken—but just buried under years of shame, stress, or misinformation? In this pulse-quickening episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer gets to it with somatic sex therapist and Sex Talk Café podcast host Susan Morgan Taylor, to explore how to reignite intimacy, reconnect with your body, and rewrite the script on pleasure at any age. From her signature Pl...

What if dating isn’t about finding “the one,” but becoming more of yourself? In this soulful episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Heller Shoer sits down with Human Potential Coach Louise Walker to explore how mindset, curiosity, and inner freedom shape our dating lives. From blind spots to self-trust, from vulnerability to the Enneagram, Louise shares powerful tools for anyone ready to drop the ma...

What if the key to understanding love, lust, and infidelity lies not in your heart—but in your hormones? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Heller Shoer sits down with science writer and “Love Biologist” Dawn Maslar-Biggie to explore the biological forces behind why we fall in love, why we stray, and how spit tests might one day predict compatibility. From oxytocin and dopamine to evolut...

What do bad dating profiles and bad lighting have in common? Everything. In this eye-opening episode, host Susan Heller Shoer shines the spotlight on retired media professor Richard Lenoce (who she met on a date and thought he'd make a great guest) to dissect the disasters of online dating—from dead-fish pics to cringe-worthy bios. With their shared backgrounds in media and marketing, they address...

Maybe you should talk to someone. If you've ever heard that advice, this episode of Dateless in Delray is for you! Host Susan Heller Shoer sits down with the "Not-So-Filtered Therapist," an experienced Marriage and Family Therapist and host of the "Naked Truths" podcast. They discuss the importance of self-love in relationships, delve into the complexities of infidelity, and explore how self-estee...

In this lively episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer reconnects with fellow Sharon, Massachusetts native, Donna Star—a dynamic Executive Coach who helps corporate professionals "live their life on purpose.". Together, they delve into the nuances of dating after 50, sharing personal anecdotes and practical advice. Discover how to leverage professional skills in the dating world, em...

​In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer welcomes Dr. Janné Lomasky, a licensed psychologist, co-author of To Stay or Not To Stay?: A Self-Help Workbook for People Considering Divorce, and host of the podcast, Your Mental Highness.. Together they delve into the "love-starved" phenomenon, discussing how chronic loneliness affects mental and physical health, leading individual...

​Trying to be smart in your search for love? Join host Susan Heller Shoer in this  episode of Dateless in Delray, where we get schooled by Janet Armstrong, a retired elementary school teacher and author of Navigating Parents Through Elementary School. Five years ago, they met at a Yoga on the Beach session in Delray Beach and have been good friends ever since. Together, they explore Janet's "...

This week, Dateless in Delray goes on location to a vibrant houseboat community of Sausalito, California, where love and relationships take on unconventional forms. From Living Apart Together (LAT) to cohabiting in floating homes, this eclectic enclave redefines modern romance. Susan Heller Shoer sits down with medical researcher and pioneer Dr. Jacob “Jay” Lalezari, along with former LAT advocate...

In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer chats with the fabulous April Kirkwood, a standout from The Golden Bachelor, to dish on love, life, and reality TV. From her fascinating years-long relationship with the legendary Frankie Valli, to her career as a holistic therapist, to her experiences navigating dating after loss, April shares heartfelt stories and behind-the-scenes s...

In this inspiring episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer welcomes Nicole Chaness, the dynamic host of the 50s AF Podcast and creator of the wildly popular Bedroom Confessionals (https://50safpodcast.com/bedroom-confessionals). . Nicole shares her journey from heartbreak and loss to rediscovering herself and embracing life with humor, honesty, and resilience. As she prepares to rela...

In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer sits down with Michelle Hays, Certified Marriage Coach and host of the Monarch for Love Podcast. With decades of experience helping couples break free from loneliness and resentment, Michelle shares practical advice for building long-lasting relationships. From tips for successful dating to setting personal boundaries, Michelle’s insig...

Are you ready to get out of your comfort zone and into the world of sex, intimacy, and non-traditional relationships? On this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer is joined by Karen Bigman,, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, and host of her own podcast, Taboo to Truth.. Karen shares her insights on everything from when to get intimate in...

In “Let it Go: Attachment Styles, Trauma, and Psychological Obstacles to Finding Love,” host Susan Heller Shoer is joined by Dr. Jeffrey Segal, a licensed psychologist with over 25 years of experience in individual, couples, and family therapy. Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and the groundbreaking work of Sue Johnson’s Hold Me Tight (HMT) program, Dr. Segal shares how understanding attach...

Grab a glass of wine and eavesdrop on girl talk, with Double Trouble: Two Susans, One Wild and Crazy Dating World. Host Susan Heller Shoer teams up with her friend and fellow real estate agent Susan, to dish on navigating the dating scene after divorce, tackling money dynamics, health challenges, South Florida stereotypes, and more! Clearly, at least one of the Susans has her act together!  T...

Tired of swiping endlessly on dating apps? In Match Point: Playing to Win with  Professional Matchmaking, legendary matchmaker Julie Ferman (julieferman.com) joins host Susan Heller Shoer to uncover how matchmaking can transform your search for love. Julie, host of the Cupid’s Coach Podcast and the mastermind behind over 1,400 successful couples, shares her secrets to creating lasting connect...

In Up Your Game, Man: The Guy’s Playbook for Attracting High Quality Dates, we’re joined by Tom Lemere , creator of the innovative Tom Lemere Project (@the_tomlemereproject) designed to help men attract high-quality women and build lasting relationships. Tom, a self-proclaimed former “player,” will soon be appearing on a local South Florida TV news segment about dating. Tom and Dateless in Delray...

In Extending the Honeymoon Period: Making Happily Ever After a Reality, we explore how to keep that newly dating/still have butterflies magic alive! Gottman-certified therapist Alex Antonucci ( waxwingwellness.com ) shares the actionable and insightful Gottman Method, known for turning relationship science into practical advice (think relationship to do list!)... Studies from the Gottman Institute...

In this episode we explore the art of Conscious Coupling: Dating with Clarity and Confidence. Certified CoActive and Professional Coach Darla Beam ( darlabeam.com ; IG @darlabeamcoaching), guides us through her approach to dating with intentionality and mindfulness—what it means to know yourself fully and align your dating life with purpose. Darla’s coaching client, Michelle, a twice-divorced woma...

What really makes someone irresistible? In this episode, we study up on The Science of Sexy, with a closer look at fascinating research on how brain chemistry shapes attraction. Join us as we explore the powerful effects of dopamine, serotonin, estrogen, and testosterone and how they influence who we’re drawn to—and why. Our expert guest lineup features Dr. Marcy Dater Weiss, Psychotherapist and B...

Online dating—exciting or exhausting? In this episode, Susan Heller Shoer dives headfirst into the world of dating apps and profiles. We’re talking deceptive photos, scammers, swindlers, and those profiles with pictures from decades ago. Susan, alongside guest experts and real-life daters, unpacks the “fun” of ghosting, fake profiles, and figuring out who’s really behind that perfect profile pic....

In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer tackles one of the most critical parts of modern dating—spotting red flags and knowing when to move forward with green lights. Joined by everyday daters and experts, Susan breaks down deal breakers, non-negotiables, and those all-important must-haves that guide us on our dating journeys. Are you missing the signs? Or are you holding ou...

In the debut episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer—a writer, real estate agent, and somewhat reluctant expert on dating in Delray Beach, the heart of single life after 50—dives deep into the realities of chemistry, communication, and finding love in the modern world. Susan is joined by special guests Brian Howie, host of the wildly successful podcast The Great Love Debate, and Lau...