Dateless in Delray

The spark is undeniable. The red flags are obvious. And somehow, you still want another date. Susan welcomes psychologist and quantum coach Dr. Lynn Tress to explore why we’re drawn to people who can’t give us what we need—and how to break the cycle. From childhood patterns and emotionally unavailable partners to the difference between intuition and anxiety, they unpack why familiar doesn’t always...

One of dating’s most influential voices joins Dateless in Delray. With millions of readers and podcast downloads, renowned dating coach and Love U founder Evan Marc Katz brings candid advice and fresh hope to modern love. Susan and Evan challenge today’s dating rules, unpack chemistry versus compatibility, and explore why finding lasting love may mean rethinking your “type”—without lowering your s...

Two people can share the same first date—and leave with completely different impressions. Susan sits down with Joy Wayne, founder of Palm Beach Introduction, to reveal what happens after the date, when each person privately tells the matchmaker what they really thought. Joy shares what men and women notice, the behaviors that quietly undermine a promising connection, what “no chemistry” may actual...

Is lasting love something we find—or a skill we learn? Susan sits down with Belle Gayer, author of "Are Relationships for Suckers?", to explore the lessons she has learned from more than 55 years of marriage and thousands of relationship questions. They discuss chemistry versus compatibility, handling recurring conflict, maintaining intimacy, expressing gratitude and knowing the difference between...

Would you put a beautiful steak in the microwave? Then why do we do it to love? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer welcomes back elite Palm Beach matchmaker, entrepreneur, and mystic Rose Lambert, founder of Rose Match Inc., a nonprofit addressing loneliness through education and community. Rose explains why instant chemistry is lust rather than love, why she asks singles to give s...

“He’s a narcissist.” “She’s borderline.” “My ex is toxic.” Mental health terminology has become part of modern dating—but are we actually recognizing disorders, or simply labeling people who hurt or disappoint us? Susan Shoer talks with Frederic Bien, President of the Personality Disorders Awareness Network (PDAN), about the difference between difficult personality traits and diagnosable personali...

That irresistible spark may feel like love—but sometimes it’s your nervous system recognizing something familiar. Susan Shoer talks with Pavini Moray, PhD, somatic coach and Relational Life Therapy practitioner, about the body’s role in attraction, desire, attachment and relationship patterns. They explore why intense chemistry can sometimes be confused with compatibility, how past experiences can...

Can a marriage thrive when one partner is monogamous and the other is polyamorous? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Courtney and Nate, The MonoPoly Couple, to discuss the unconventional relationship that's captured attention online. Married for 17 years, they began navigating a mono-poly dynamic just four years ago after Courtney realized she was polyamorous while...

Why do two people who genuinely care about each other so often end up feeling misunderstood? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with relationship and intimacy specialists Naomi Jordan and Martin Pemberton, co-creators of The Space Between® Approach, to explore the invisible lessons men and women learn about love long before they ever enter a relationship. They call it "Bo...

Are dating apps on life support? After years of endless swiping, ghosting, and burnout, more singles are asking a different question: Is there a better way to meet people? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, relationship coach and dating strategist Scot MacKay joins Susan Shoer to explore why so many people are walking away from the apps—and what comes next. Together, they discuss the growing f...

Love doesn’t end when someone dies—and according to psychic medium, life coach, and author Susan Anderson, neither do the connections that matter most. In this fascinating episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan explores the idea that the loved ones we've lost may continue to guide, support, and even influence our lives from beyond. Drawing from her own experiences as a medium and the insights from h...

Many relationships struggle, not because of what we say, but because of what we fail to hear. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer welcomes author, speaker, and relationship coach Hoady Spencer to discuss his book,"Listen Baby: A Man's Guide to Better Relationships." Hoady explains why genuine listening is one of the most overlooked—and transformative—skills in love. Together, they e...

Most men aren't struggling because they're "bad at dating"—they're making mistakes they don't even realize they're making. In this eye-opening episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with human sexuality expert Suki Nefertiti to unpack the most common dating mistakes men make—and how a few simple shifts can dramatically change the way they're perceived by women. From being basic, cheap, or...

What really creates chemistry? Is the "spark" something you're lucky enough to find—or can it actually be cultivated? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Clinical Sexologist Anna Elton to unpack the psychology of attraction, desire, and lasting connection. Together, they explore why dating after 50 feels different, the bigges...

Thirty-four years after Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus changed the conversation about relationships, bestselling author John Gray returns with surprising new insights into the hidden role hormones play in modern love. In this eye-opening episode, John reveals how estrogen and testosterone shape attraction, communication, intimacy, and even conflict. He explains why certain relationship dy...

Reinvention isn’t just for brands—it’s for people, too. This week on Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Robin Fisher Roffer, one of the pioneers of personal branding and the founder of Big Fish Marketing, whose clients have included CNN, MTV, Discovery, and some of the biggest media brands in the world. Robin shares the lessons behind her bestselling books, including Make a Name for Yourself...

What if the secret to finding the right relationship starts with you — not with the right app, the right profile, or the right opener? This week, host Susan Shore sits down with two remarkable women from very different corners of the wellness world: Marla Past, full-spectrum health coach, author, hypnotherapist, and meditation teacher; and Julie Shanebrook, founder and CEO of ChillRx Med Spa in De...

A lot of men believe they're doing everything right in dating—being accommodating, avoiding conflict, and letting women take the lead. But according to relationship author Elliott Katz, some of those well-intentioned behaviors may actually be pushing women away. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan chats with Elliott, author of Being the Strong Man a Woman Wants, and How To Get Your Man to...

What if the real barrier to intimacy isn’t finding the right person—but learning how to be honest with the one you’re with? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Sara Perry for a candid, thoughtful conversation about the parts of relationships most people avoid. Sara is a somatic sex coach and founder of Haven Space Coaching. She works with individuals and couples navig...

From ghosting and mixed signals to turning matches into real relationships, author and podcast host Lopaze Lasane joins Dateless in Delray to reveal the dirty little secrets behind modern online dating. In this candid and entertaining episode, we dive into dating app frustration, attraction psychology, communication mistakes, and what it really takes to make love click in today’s swipe-right world...

Sugar dating. Luxury lifestyles. Clear expectations. Transactional romance… or just radical honesty about modern relationships? In this episode of Dateless in Delray , Susan sits down with Patrick Fletcher of Sugar Matchmaking — a premium, highly screened matchmaking service for affluent men and elite women — along with returning guest Nikki from the Secrets of a Sugar Daddy podcast, who shares he...

What really happens behind the velvet curtain of a “sugar” relationship—and why are more people quietly stepping into this world than ever before? In this provocative and eye-opening episode of Dateless in Delray, I sit down with Marcus, the voice behind the Secrets of a Sugar Daddy podcast, to pull back the curtain on modern arrangements, power dynamics, and the unspoken rules that govern them. M...

What does emotional intelligence have to do with dating? Quite a lot. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer talks with Alla Esther Levy—Certified Emotional Intelligence Strategist, Minister of Spiritual Healing, and founder of the EIEQ Institute—about how self-awareness, empathy, and emotional regulation can dramatically improve communication and connection in relationships. Alla also...

What happens when the love story you believed in turns out to be something else entirely? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Dianne Harris—coach, survivor, and author of Love Bomb: He Sold Her a Dream and Delivered a Nightmare—to unpack the emotional rollercoaster of manipulation, misplaced trust, and ultimately… reclaiming your power. Dianne shares her deeply personal sto...

What makes love last? Susan Shoer sits down with Elyse Ryan — founder of Elyse Ryan Jewelry and host of Stacked — to talk about long marriage, ambition, intimacy, and evolving partnership. They explore emotional safety, attraction over time, and why commitment can deepen rather than limit identity. A thoughtful conversation about the craftsmanship of lasting love.