Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Jake and Nathan tell us about their experience with dating apps – in SF vs. NY. We discuss how women present themselves differently, ratios playing into the dating culture, gender dynamics in each city, and making the most of dating in any city you call home. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your l...

Flo and Dylan tell us about their relationship that was anything but love at first sight when they met at a silent disco. We discuss meeting when the time is right, deviating from your “type”, giving relationships time, and how to know if there’s a connection. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your...

Don discusses changing male gender roles and being a ‘support’ male in a city filled with independent, alpha females. We talk about men’s career ambition vs being a stay-at-home dad, the recognition for a family man, and knowing the values you want. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your life where...

Eva shares what it’s like to be part of the BDSM community - specifically being into rope bondage. We discuss getting introduced to kink, what happens in a scene, how BDSM doesn’t always involve sex, and the levels of understanding/training needed. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your life where y...

Bryant tells about one of his former “festival wives” that may have gone a little crazy through text messaging. We talk about why women get the “crazy” label, how to read the signs of interest, and the importance of the context of where you meet someone WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your life wh...

Jenny walks us through her system of dating multiple people at once now that she is back in the dating scene after being married. We discuss dating strategies, how your perspective changes once you have a child, and why marriage isn’t always the ultimate goal. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your...

Stuart aka Broke-Ass Stuart tells us what it’s like to date as an ‘SF Cult hero” in a city where you’re bound to run into an ex or two. We talk about breaking up with dignity, the issues with ghosting in a city so small, and how to date when you’re broke in a place like SF. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a...

Li and Chris tell us how they met through Airbnb when Chris visited SF from Germany. We talk about their whirlwind romance that lead to marriage, the importance of timing, overcoming challenges of distance, and the power of committing to make it work. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your life wher...

Taylor tells us how she is an anomaly to modern dating - ditching apps for the real life approach. We talk about doing this in a non-aggressive way, getting over rejection, pick up lines that aren’t lines, and taking control of your dating life without apps. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your li...

Sheel tells us about what he's looking for and ideal qualities of a partner - all while we talk about the perception he may be giving off on social media. We discuss judgements made from facebook, dating apps, and other sites and how to play this in your favor. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in...

Melissa talks about her date’s ultimate disappearing act - while they were out on an actual date. We discuss the importance of communication, who should pay for the date, how your mood can impact the entire night, and being respectful even if it isn’t a match. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your...

Aaron tells us about his bold move to meet a guy through the ‘People You May Know’ section of Facebook. This leads to discussions about what it really means to define the relationship, commit, and the importance of expressing your expectations of a partner. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your lif...

Amal tells us about dating as a Muslim and Arab woman, especially during the Trump Presidency and Muslim Ban. We talk about dating outside her race and religion, the challenges it may bring, and how these troubling times have actually restored her faith. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your life w...

Harrison talks about dating as a #millennial. We talk about his facebook live dating experiment, stepping up your emoji game, and differences between the 20 something and the 30 something dater. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your life where you genuinely didn’t want a serious relationship but st...

Julie and Danny talk about their experience ‘dating in the dark’ at matchmaker OKSasha’s event. We discuss how removing physical attraction from the equation - the antithesis of online dating- gives a new perspective. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your life where you genuinely didn’t want a seri...

Kate and Boris tell us how they ditched all the dating rules - including Kate being on JDate as a non-jew - and found true love. We discuss exchanging messages to being engaged and all the defining moments along the way. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your life where you genuinely didn’t want a s...

David shares a story where things wouldn’t progress sexually with a girl he was seeing - resulting in a shocking discovery. We discuss when to disclose secrets or anything unusual and how unexpected experiences open your eyes, heart, and views on dating. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your life w...

Connie tells us about her dating history and how she just wants to make apps and babies - so much that she froze her eggs. We talk about the process, common questions from both men and women, and how it can help relieve some of the time pressure in dating. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your life...

Andrew tells us about his many dates over the last 8 years in SF, where not even one has turned into a real relationship. We talk about how technology has made us pass quicker, judge faster (thanks, google and social media), and how to thrive through it all. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your li...

Megan from Meet Foxie tells us about a guy she dated long distance with a freaky food fetish. She shares one of her letters declaring his fantasy involving her, eggs, and bacon. We discuss turn-ons and even do a beginners crash course in dirty talk. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your life where...

We teamed up with Lively, a new video dating app from Zoosk, to do a little dating profile. Our panel talks about all the do’s and don’ts of profile pics, their change of perspective with videos, and how much context matters. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your life where you genuinely didn’t wan...

Chris discusses consensual non-monogamy and how open relationships differ from polyamory. We talk about the necessity of communication and boundaries while navigating jealousy and other things that come with non-traditional relationships. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your life where you genuine...

Ariel tells us how she learned something very unexpected about her new guy...and all from her best friend matching with him on Tinder. We discuss recognizing there is a ton you don't know about someone after a couple dates and keeping an open mind. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your life whe...

Dan talks about his love for Asian women as a white male. We also have Eric, an Asian male, who prefers to date white women. We talk about why they gravitate to opposite races, cultural differences, and the impact of mixed raced relationships. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your life where you ge...

Ben and Kate talk about being polyamorous while married to one another. They talk about the differences compared to open relationships, how they got started in polyamory, and their guidelines for dating other people while still together. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your life where you genuinel...