Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

You guessed it: there’s a new quarantine dating term. Listen in as we talk to Julia, who put zumping on the map through her viral tweet after being dumped via zoom. We discuss how zumping is way better than being ghosted, if this trend could continue post-quarantine, and why the term sounds so negative despite being a respectful option right now. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website f...

Love is all you need...or is it? This week we talk to best-selling author and blogger Mark Manson about why love is not enough to make relationships work. We discuss the reasons we settle for less than situations, why it's time to ditch the fantasy, and how we can take more ownership over our love lives. Warning: F-bombs are gonna be dropped! Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website f...

Despite all that’s been going on, dating app usage continues to soar...and we got to chat with Jordana Abraham, the founder of Betches and the dating app Ship, about the future of online dating. We discuss how dating apps can start to mimic IRL, how DFH is the new DTF, and ideas about the next big dating tech craze. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show date...

So is love blind? Find out which one of the ladies Ryan asked on a date and how their date went down amidst COVID-19. We discuss their perspectives of each other once looks are revealed, if their virtual impressions matched reality, and if a connection was formed throughout this experiment. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank...

We were so obsessed with Love is Blind that we recreated our own rendition! Follow along as we hear the impressions Ryan has of Rachel, Lacy & Taylor and their feelings towards him after communicating through their own version of the pods. We’ll discuss assumptions made sight unseen, how active listening changes everything, and if love can really be blind. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out...

It’s a pandemic...but luckily we got Shallon Lester to tell it like it is about how to not murder your partner during quarantine and how to use this time to self-isolate from fuckboys. We discuss the difference between fuckboys and clueless men, changing your dating patterns to find someone that treats you right, and using this time to focus on the #1 person in your life – you. Check out Shallon&#...

From video dates to virtual sex parties, we're finding out how daters are staying connected without leaving their home during this Coronavirus pandemic. We discuss how to form deeper connections during this time, ideas to bring video dates to the next level, and the changes COVID-19 is likely to bring to our dating lives even after this passes. Buckle up, because this is one hell of a ride! Th...

From Coronavirus to coming out in your marriage – there’s no predicting what can happen! We talk to Chris about discovering his sexuality later in life and what it meant for him and his wife. We discuss adapting to unforeseen situations, navigating change, and staying true to yourself through it all. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandi...

We got a Gen Z in the house! Listen as we talk to Zoe about what it's like to date as someone who’s been using digital technology their entire life. We discuss the traditional tendencies of this generation, the different patterns with dating apps, and the challenges that don’t seem to ever go away. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchan...

Tune in as we talk to Brad about the time pressure of dating as you get older – even for men. We discuss the challenges of dating in your 30’s when everyone else is settling down, how expectations change as you age, and balancing having a life plan vs. seeing how it all plays out.  Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to ou...

Join us as we talk to Mindy about her one-sided date where it felt like the whole time she was getting mansplained. We discuss how to respond to dates that feel disrespectful, discerning between innocent misunderstandings, and how to be aware if you’re doing this type of behavior yourself. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank y...

Listen as we talk with Tommy Danger Kim about his unexpected divorce – and how it's impacting his dating life 4 years later. We discuss why communicating in relationships is so damn hard, how to assess a life partner, and learning from your past while not letting it dictate your future. Check out Tommy's podcast The Tommy Danger Experiment Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website...

Join us as we talk with Dr. Alexandra Solomon about how to own your sexuality and create the relationship you want. We discuss making sex a less shameful topic, how to navigate desire differences with a partner, and why it’s essential to explore your sexual self– especially on your own. Follow Dr. Alexandra Solomon on Instagram @dr.alexandra.solomon. Check out her book on Amazon Follow us @dateabl...

Tune in for a sneak peek into our inaugural live show in SF. We flipped the script and had Logan Ury interview us for a change! We discuss why we started Dateable, how this podcast changed the way we date, and what to do when there are controversial guests. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your lif...

Tune in as we chat with Ryan live at his bar, Mad River, in the Upper East Side of New York City. We discuss what bartenders observe on your dates, ideas for cheap dates outside of a bar, and why a good hookup can be just what the bartender ordered. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your life where...

Join us as we share a live podcast where we talk with a panel of daters across ages in their 20's, 30's and 40+. We discuss what changes (and stays the same) with age, lessons from the past that inform the future, and how to find the best parts about dating at any age. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever ha...

Listen as we talk about the trends we’re seeing in the dating world – and future predictions going into the new year. We discuss the next wave of dating apps, changes from the initial stages of dating through marriage, and how the future is pansexual. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your life wher...

Join us as we chat with Marni Battista about how she regained her own dignity when dating – and why this is essential for anyone dating right now. We discuss addressing your limiting beliefs, how to spot various manimals, and what it actually means to date with dignity. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a tim...

Tune in as we talk to Andy about the many phases of his dating life – from being new in town/ having fun to wanting more to deciding to move abroad. We discuss the ebbs and flows of dating, taking the best parts of all life stages, and staying positive throughout it all. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a ti...

Listen as we talk to Cathy about her journey from saving herself for marriage to having multiple partners – at once. We discuss why it’s so difficult to break out of heteronormative traditions, how monogamy doesn’t have to be so binary, and defining your own rules. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in...

Tune in as we talk to Amit about how he increased his testosterone levels and libido to better his sex life. We discuss how ‘not getting it up’ causes insecurities, why it’s better to remedy the situation naturally, and the results that lead to multiple orgasms. A big thank you to our sponsor, Blackwood for Men. To get 25% off your order visit blackwoodformen.com/dateable and use the code DATEABLE...

Join us as we chat with Lauren Korshak MFT about attachment styles and how they play into our adult dating patterns. We talk about the different styles, how they factor into the ups and downs of dating, and why even the most secure people feel insecure sometimes. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in yo...

Listen as we hear from Lou Cass about being a porn star in the ’80s and how porn has changed over the years. We discuss the highs and lows of being in the industry, filming sex whether you are a pro or amateur, and how porn skews the reality of sex. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Have you ever had a time in your life where...

Tune in as we talk to Logan Ury about how behavioral science –the how and why we make decisions – plays into everything in dating from profile photos to breakups. We discuss changing our defaults, learning to avoid our blindspots, and how to make better decisions in dating. A big thank you to our sponsor, Blackwood for Men. To get 25% off your order visit blackwoodformen.com/dateable and use the c...

Join us as we talk to Michel about his bachelor lifestyle and his existential debate between clubbing every weekend vs. settling down. We discuss the context of where you meet someone, the perception of age, and how our own belief systems impact our relationships. A big thank you to our sponsor, Blackwood for Men. To get 25% off your order visit blackwoodformen.com/dateable and use the code DATEAB...