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Send episode requests here I attended a business conference this weekend where one of my long-time business heroes was speaking—someone whose career I've admired for years. While everyone else focused on her business strategies, I was captivated by her personal transformation. After her divorce, she took an approach to dating that completely contradicted what most women do. In this episode, I...

Send episode requests here We celebrate women for investing in weddings, houses, businesses, therapy, and fitness coaches…but the minute a woman invests in love on the front end? She's called desperate. This viral story of a woman who paid $10K for a dating coach and got engaged a year later has sparked fierce debate, but the backlash reveals more about us than her. In this episode, I explain...

Send episode requests here The Good Girl Voice is the tone and energy we use when trying to avoid rejection, keep the peace, or be seen as nice.  You think you're being soft and polite, but you're actually being unclear, unmemorable, and unavailable.  In this episode, I'll show you exactly what this voice sounds like in different dating scenarios and how it blocks real intimacy by k...

Send episode requests here Ever had a promising conversation with a guy that just... fizzled? You're left overthinking your messages, or worse—realizing you've been carrying the entire conversation yourself. If you're tired of matches that ghost, conversations that feel like interviews, or connections that die before they begin—this episode is your wake-up call. I'm breaking do...

Send episode requests here   If flirting feels uncomfortable, confusing, or like something other women are just better at—it’s probably because you’ve been taught to either play it cool or over-perform to get a man’s attention. In this episode, I’m breaking down exactly how to flirt in a way that’s honest, direct, and clear—without feeling fake or doing the most. You’ll learn the Confident Flirtin...

Send episode requests here In this special bonus episode, I break down how the quality of your conversations with men determines your dating outcomes. Learn how to transform boring, go-nowhere exchanges into meaningful connections that inspire pursuit and commitment through my proven B.O.M.B framework. Workshop Details: What: Conversations That Inspire Commitment - 2-Day Virtual Workshop When: Apr...

Send episode requests here Ashlee is three months into our coaching together—and her love life looks completely different. When we started, she had just left a nine-month relationship where she was building up a man who couldn’t meet her needs. She believed quality men didn’t exist in her city, and she wasn’t sure she was “enough” for the men she actually wanted. Now? She’s dating multiple high-qu...

Send episode requests here You’ve followed the advice, applied the strategies, and done everything you’re “supposed” to do in dating—but the results still aren’t there. You’re meeting men, going on dates, and putting yourself out there, yet nothing is moving forward the way you expected. It’s frustrating, and at this point, you might be wondering if something is missing. In this episode, I break d...

Send episode requests here You’ve gone to therapy, read the books, taken the courses, and done everything you thought would lead to a better dating experience. But instead of attracting high-quality men, you feel like you’re growing, but the men around you aren’t.  That’s because doing the work doesn’t attract better men…being the work does. In this episode, I break down why checking all the self-...

Send episode requests here Sephra walked into dating tired—...tired of feeling like she had to modify herself to keep a man, tired of settling for broke men, and tired of repeating the same cycle over and over again. But that all changed when she decided to take control of her love life. Now? She’s dating men who check every box…attractive, financially generous, and emotionally available. She’s no...

Send episode requests here Dating multiple men isn’t just about having options…it’s about knowing how to manage those options. But what happens when things don’t go as planned? In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on some unexpected lessons I learned while dating multiple men deeply. Some lessons I saw coming, others took me by surprise….but every single one changed how I move in my love...

Send episode requests here Joan had it all—degrees, a successful career, and a full life. But when it came to dating, she was exhausted. She was tired of the wrong men, the dating pressure, and the struggle to find something real. In this episode, Joan shares how she shifted from burnout to attracting high-quality men with ease. She explains how she stopped shrinking herself, started clearly stati...

Send episode requests here If your dating profile isn’t doing the heavy lifting for you, you’re working way too hard on these apps. In this episode, I’m walking you through exactly how to build a profile that attracts men who match your standards…without you having to waste time filtering through the ones who don’t.  Most women make the mistake of writing profiles that sound good but don’t actuall...

Send episode requests here Online dating wasn’t always smooth for me. In fact, I struggled a lot in the beginning…frustrating matches, boring conversations, and men who only wanted one thing.  If you’ve ever felt like dating apps just don’t work, I get it. But what if the problem isn’t the apps? What if it’s how you’re approaching them? In this 3rd episode of my Online Dating series, I’m sharing m...

Send episode requests here This is the second episode of my Online Dating series, and today we’re tackling why mindset matters more than strategy.  If you think it’s all about swiping the right way or crafting the perfect profile, think again. Yes, you need a great online dating strategy, but how you show up mentally shapes your results more than any tactic ever will. We’ll explore how your belief...

Send episode requests here Are you tired of swiping through dating apps and feeling like you're wasting your time?  In this episode, we’re kicking off a special online dating series designed to help you transform how you approach apps in 2025. If you’ve ever felt frustrated, burned out, or like you’re stuck connecting with men who aren’t worth your energy, this episode will show you why—and h...

Send episode requests here Do you ever feel like getting men to step up and invest in you takes too much effort?  In this episode, I’m breaking down three habits that women who effortlessly inspire men to give their time, energy, and resources use every day.  These aren’t tricks or games—they’re practical, real-life ways to show up with confidence and set the tone for how you want to be treated. Y...

Send episode requests here Do you feel stuck in your dating life, like nothing is going the way you hoped?  In this episode, I talk about how your mindset shapes your dating experience and why shifting your thoughts can make a huge difference. We’ll cover the common mindset mistakes women make and I’ll show you how changing the way you think about dating can help you attract better men, enjoy the...

Send episode requests here As the new year gets closer, it’s time to look back on your dating life in 2024 and think about what you want in 2025.  In this episode, I’ll help you reflect on your wins, lessons, and the vision you want to create for your love life. We’ll talk about how to define what “dating deliciously” means for you, what skills can make dating feel easier, and how to get the suppo...

Send episode requests here I want to invite you to come on a journey with me to the land of fulfilled desires.  Here the women are satisfied, excited and extremely pleased by the men they are dating. These men show up ready to serve these women and putting big smiles on their faces.   Sounds unrealistic? Think again.  It may sound far-fetched, but it’s easier than you think to live this kind of li...

Send episode requests here Does dating feel like one more thing on your already packed to-do list?  As a high-achieving woman, you have enough responsibilities without adding the stress of doing all the work in your relationships.  But what if dating could feel fun and easy again? In this episode, I share how to shift the dynamic so men step up and support you. You’ll hear about five key areas whe...

Send episode requests here Do you feel like you’re always settling in your love life? Maybe the men you date seem great at first, but they never step up in the way you need them to. You might even wonder if you’re asking for too much…or if the kind of relationship you want is even possible. In this episode, I break down exactly how to stop settling and start getting what you want in dating.  We’ll...

Send episode requests here You got questions, I have answers.  Tune into this week’s episode to dive into some Q&A where I cover insightful topics like how to get over your ex, knowing how to build a rotation of men, how to stop being afraid to get back out in the dating world , and how to attract men who cater to you.  We also talk about how to post the best pics for your dating profile….and...

Send episode requests here If weight gain has left you feeling self-conscious about dating, this episode is for you.  Whether you've gained a few pounds over the years or have struggled with body image your whole life, I’m sharing a way to feel confident and attract quality men just as you are—while also helping you reach those weight goals. In this episode, you’ll discover why waiting to los...

Send episode requests here Most women feel like they’ve found “the one” as soon as a man starts treating them well. But what if just being supportive and loving isn’t enough?  In this episode, I share why being well-loved is just the starting point—and why it takes so much more to qualify for a serious relationship with me. I’ll walk you through my personal vetting process, from spotting core valu...