Dads On Tap

Most dads spend a lot of energy thinking about what they need to do for their families—but rarely slow down long enough to notice what’s happening within them. In this episode, Scott explores how a dad’s hidden inner world—his fears, wounds, reactions, desires, and relationship with God—quietly shapes the atmosphere of his home.  He also introduces the free Dad Connection Assessment, a practical t...

Where is God when the future we hoped for disappears?  In this episode, Scott explores the road to Emmaus, where two discouraged disciples discover that Jesus has been walking beside them long before they recognize Him. Through their honest words—“We had hoped”—and a deeply personal reflection on disappointment, grief, and companionship, this episode offers a hopeful reminder: the absence of an ex...

We all carry hopes and dreams around with us. Sometimes we even believe they will make our lives feel more complete. But what happens when those good hopes and dreams begin to carry the weight of proving our value, securing our future, or telling us who we are?  In this deeply personal episode, Scott shares what happened when a dream he had carried for nearly two decades suddenly seemed possible—a...

Most of us have made promises we don’t remember making: “I won’t need anyone,” “I won’t get my hopes up,” or “I’ll handle life on my own.” These hidden vows often begin as intelligent ways of surviving pain, disappointment, or loneliness—but over time, they can keep us from the connection, hope, and trust we genuinely desire. In this episode, Scott explores how these quiet agreements shape our rel...

What happens when you pray, believe, and God still doesn’t give you the outcome you desperately hoped for?  In this deeply personal episode, Scott reflects on the loss of a good friend and the painful tension of trusting God when healing doesn’t come and the story remains unresolved. Through Jesus’ prayer in Gethsemane and His grief at Lazarus’s grave, Scott explores what it means to move beyond f...

When someone close to you is struggling, your instinct is often to jump in with advice, correct the problem, or move the conversation toward a quick resolution. But sometimes the most loving thing you can do is simply stay, listen, and help the other person feel seen.  In this episode, Scott explores what Jesus teaches us about remaining present in uncomfortable and unresolved conversations—and sh...

Most of us don’t think our possessions own us—but what does it mean when a cracked windshield, an unexpected expense, or the pressure to be successful begins to quietly control us? In this episode, Scott shares what he learned from an interaction Jesus had with a wealthy man, a Lent experiment in buying nothing new and an embarrassing reaction to a crack in his Volvo windshield. It’s an honest loo...

The busier Jesus became, the more He withdrew—but most of us do the opposite. When life accelerates, we work harder, react faster, and leave less room to notice what’s happening inside us. In this episode, Scott explores how the hidden places of silence and attentiveness can shape our reactions in life’s loudest moments. Through an honest story about nearly blowing up at his son, he shows how crea...

Most of us quietly believe that God is most pleased with us after we've had a good quiet time, served faithfully, shared our faith, or lived out a really good day. But what if that's not the story the Bible tells? In this episode of The Dads on Tap Podcast, Scott explores one of the most surprising moments in the life of Jesus—when the Father declared His love and pleasure over His Son before Jesu...

What's in the Gap? Have you ever found yourself reacting to a situation in a way that seemed bigger than the moment called for? Maybe it was frustration with your spouse, impatience with your kids, or anger over something relatively small. In this episode of the Dads on Tap Podcast, Scott shares the most important question he's ever been asked. It was a simple question a mentor asked him that beca...

Have you ever felt spiritually stuck? Not because you've stopped believing, praying, or going to a local church—but because something just feels off. In this episode of Dads on Tap, Scott explores the frustrating experience of doing all the "right" spiritual things while still feeling restless, disconnected, or unable to find the soul-deep peace Jesus promised. Drawing from his own journey, Scott...

When it comes to being a great dad, we often think we need to create big moments, big memories, and big experiences. But what if the things that matter most are actually much smaller? In this Quick Sip Scott shares five small habits that have made a big impact on his relationship with his kids. If you're looking for practical ways to strengthen your connection with your children, this episode is a...

 This Father's Day, instead of focusing on what dads need to do better, we're taking a moment to recognize the men who keep showing up day after day for their families. In this special episode, Scott Mawdesley raises a glass to the dads who are working hard, carrying responsibility, learning as they go, and loving their families the best way they know how. Whether you're raising toddlers, teenager...

How many times have you told yourself, "Once I get through this week, things will finally slow down"? In this 3 1/2-minute Quick Sip episode, Scott explores the myth that we're ever going to be completely caught up. The emails keep coming, the to-do list keeps growing, and life never seems to stop moving. But what if the goal isn't to finish everything—what if the goal is to stop missing the momen...

It's never been easier for dads to compare themselves to other families, other fathers, and other versions of success. But comparison has a way of stealing our joy, distorting our perspective, and making us forget the good things right in front of us. In this episode of the Dads on Tap podcast, Scott explores why so many dads feel like they're falling behind, what Jesus' conversation with Peter te...

It's easy to point fingers, assume motives, and become the self-appointed judge of everyone around us. In this week's Quick Sip episode, Scott explores why the temptation to judge others goes all the way back to the Garden of Eden—and why humility, curiosity, and grace may be the better path. If you've ever caught yourself criticizing someone else out loud or even in your head, this short episode...

As dads, it's easy to spend our energy worrying about the wrong things—whether we're providing enough, succeeding enough, or getting everything right. But years from now, your kids probably won't remember your job title, your income, or how busy you were. They'll remember how it felt to be with you and whether or not they truly mattered to you.  In this episode of The Dads on Tap Podcast, Scott ex...

The Quick Sip is a weekly 3–5-minute short episode where Scott shares a simple thought for dads. Today's episode is about those times when you're not ok and what to do about it. 

It's easy to focus on where we're falling short as dads, but what if we're growing more than we realize? In this episode, Scott explores why the best dads don't go big—they go small. Through everyday choices like being present, apologizing quickly, listening well, and showing up consistently, real transformation takes place over time. Drawing from both personal experience and biblical wisdom, Scot...

A weekly 3–5-minute quick sip of practical wisdom to help you become a better dad!

A quick 3-5 minute thought to help you get better as a dad this week. 

Every dad has moments he regrets — yelling at a child, shutting down emotionally, or reacting out of stress instead of love. But what happens after we blow it matters far more than the mistake itself. In this episode, Scott explores the power of repair, humility, and reconnection in fatherhood. Through practical insights and the restoration story of Peter in John 18 and 21, dads are reminded that...

Welcome to the Dads on Tap Weekly Quick-Sip episode. For the next several weeks, Scott will record a new 3-5 minute Quick-Sip episode to give you a small sip of wisdom along with our regularly scheduled Friday episodes. The Quick Sip will be an in-the-moment thought meant to give you a quick infusion of encouragement for the day. Enjoy!

Why do good dads sometimes become reactive, angry, distant, or emotionally shut down? In this episode, Scott explores the deeper reasons dads get emotionally hijacked and why our reactions are often symptoms of exhaustion, stress, and overloaded souls rather than simply “anger problems.” Drawing from the lives of Elijah and Jesus, this episode offers practical thoughts on slowing down, resetting e...

Most dads don’t struggle because they don’t care—they struggle because they’re exhausted, distracted, and constantly reacting. In this episode, we take a step beyond slowing down and answer the question: What actually changes when a dad begins to live from a place of rest?   You’ll discover four powerful ways a rested soul transforms your home—from becoming less reactive and more present, to leadi...