DadMode: God, Grit, Goals

Many dads aren’t drifting. They’re gripping. In this episode of DadMode, Mike Tobias reflects on the quiet exhaustion many men carry while still trying to do the right thing—at work, at home, and in their walk with God. This isn’t about burnout or rebellion. It’s about alignment, effort, and the unseen stories that quietly shape how we live under pressure. If you’re a dad who’s still showing up—bu...

If your marriage feels like it suddenly shifted… if your wife is changing, you’re changing, and nothing feels as stable as it used to—this episode is for you. In this powerful conversation, Mike Tobias sits down with executive leadership coach Cory Dunham to talk honestly about the emotional, spiritual, and relational realities men face in midlife. From the shock of menopause to the weight of lead...

Join Mike Tobias on Dad Mode: God, Grit, Goals, as he welcomes Devin Wilbourn – a dad of three, street preacher, and former skeptic who has amassed over 50,000 followers on TikTok by speaking about Jesus in raw, real, and powerful ways. In this profound conversation, Devin shares his unique intellectual journey to faith, beginning with a radical re-evaluation of truth itself. He explains how he mo...

Join us on Dad Mode: God, Grit & Goals as we dive deep into an incredibly powerful story of transformation with special guest Zach Garza. This episode, titled Fatherless to Fathering, explores Zach's profound journey from the deep pain of growing up without a father to becoming a “father of many” through dedicated mentorship. Zach shares the raw, emotional truth of his childhood after his fath...

Are you a dad who feels like you're doing everything "right"—but still feel lost, disconnected, or worn out? You’re not alone. In this episode of Dad Mode , Mike Tobias shares a powerful, practical roadmap to help you rediscover your God-given identity, reclaim your purpose, and lead your family with clarity and courage. 🔥 Learn how to overcome emotional exhaustion 📖 Explore a bibl...

In this heartfelt episode of Dad Mode: God, Grit, and Goals , host Mike Tobias sits with Jay Erwin to share his story of losing his daughter, Audrey, at eight months of pregnancy. Discover how Jay and Carolyn found Christian grief support and healing through faith, leaning on God to navigate the pain of stillbirth. From planting a magnolia tree to honor Audrey to finding hope after loss, this epis...

Built for the Fight isn’t just another men’s book. It’s a wake-up call for every man who feels stuck—and for the women who love them. In this episode, Mike Tobias unpacks why most men are silently drifting, how biblical masculinity offers a better path, and what it really means to fight for your identity, family, and legacy. 💥 Kindle edition launches May 22 📬 Get updates + free preview: BuiltFor...

In this special reading from my upcoming book The Paradox of Biblical Manhood , I dive into Chapter 9: Living the Paradox: The Strong Yet Humble Man . This episode is a heartfelt exploration of what it truly means to be a man in today's world—one rooted in both strength and surrender. Join me as I unpack the tension between cultural expectations and biblical truth, and how we as men, fathers,...

As Easter approaches, we’re looking at the final seven statements Jesus made on the cross—words that reveal what true strength, humility, and legacy really look like. In this special Dad Mode episode, Mike Tobias unpacks how each of these last words connects to the paradox of biblical manhood: power restrained, purpose fulfilled, and trust fully surrendered. Whether you're a dad, husband, lead...

What happens when comfort becomes a man’s highest goal? In this raw and revealing episode, Mike Tobias shares a deeply personal story of financial collapse, identity loss, and the painful process of rebuilding strength from the ground up. Drawing from a pivotal chapter in his upcoming book The Paradox of Biblical Manhood , Mike unpacks why our culture’s obsession with ease is weakening a generatio...

When life hits hard—you won’t rise to the occasion. You’ll default to your training. In this episode of DadMode , Mike Tobias unpacks why motivation isn’t enough for men serious about faith, fatherhood, and legacy. Drawing from his upcoming book The Paradox of Biblical Manhood , Mike shares personal stories, Biblical wisdom, and neuroscience-backed truths to challenge and equip you to train your b...

What does it really mean to be a man? Society offers two extremes: Either you’re the tough, emotionless "alpha male," or the passive "nice guy" who avoids conflict. But neither of those are biblical. In this episode of DadMode: God, Grit, Goals , I break down The Paradox of Biblical Manhood —how real strength comes from humility, leadership, and discipline. 📖 What You'll L...

Join me, Mike, on this eye-opening episode of DadMode: God, Grit, Goals as I share my recent trip to India. I went expecting to teach and ended up learning—from navigating strict conversion laws to embracing new insights about faith and work ethic. Discover how recognizing my own unconscious bias led me to a deeper understanding of my pro-life, Christian values—and how being ‘too nice’ can sometim...

In this debut episode of the Oh My God! series, I dive into the heart of my book, starting with the preface and the first two chapters. Together, we’ll explore the transformative journey of embracing doubt, rediscovering awe, and uncovering your God-given identity and purpose. From the foundational truths of God's goodness and grace to the challenges of doubt that deepen faith, this reading sets t...

In this episode of the DadMode Podcast, I share something special—a short story called The Archer’s Journey , inspired by the themes in my upcoming book, Oh My God! Rediscovering Awe, Identity, and Purpose in a World of Doubt . This story is a creative teaser, capturing the heart of the book in a fresh way. We explore themes of grace, identity, community, and finding purpose in everyday life. It’s...

Welcome to Season 2 of the Dadmode Podcast! In this new season, I’ll be sharing readings from my upcoming book, Help My Unbelief . Today’s episode covers the Table of Contents, Preface, Introduction, and Chapter 1: The Honest Baseline . In Chapter 1, I reflect on wrestling with doubt, trusting God in moments of uncertainty, and discovering what it means to take small steps of faith when you don’t...

In this episode of Dad Mode: God, Grit, and Goals , host Mike Tobias dives into the crucial elements of building a safe and nurturing family environment—what he calls Home Turf . From infancy to young adulthood, discover how to create a home that supports each stage of your child’s growth, fosters independence, and aligns with your family’s core values. We’ll cover practical tips for every age, in...

In today’s episode of Dad Mode: God, Grit, and Goals , we’re diving into practical ways to build strong, lasting family values. In a world full of distractions and constant demands, creating a foundation for your family rooted in faith, purpose, and unity can feel challenging. That’s where the Family Compass framework comes in. Join host Mike Tobias as he shares simple, actionable habits you can s...

Today is Election Day—a day filled with tension, hope, and uncertainty. As the nation waits for results, it’s easy to let fear take the wheel. But as Christians, we are called to navigate days like today differently. In this special episode, we explore how to choose faith over fear, how to love our neighbors despite our differences, and how to stay anchored in God’s promises no matter the outcome....

In this episode of Dad Mode: God, Grit, and Goals , host Mike Tobias shares the story behind the Family Compass, a powerful tool for guiding your family with purpose and unity. Inspired by conversations with leaders like David Green and years of consulting experience, Mike explains how to define your True North and align your family’s choices with core values. Tune in to learn how this framework c...

In this episode of Dad Mode , Mike Tobias shares how fathers and family leaders can rise above the noise of today’s divided world. Inspired by insights from Jordan Peterson and Greg Hurwitz, Mike dives into breaking free from the victim-oppressor mindset, practicing gratitude, and protecting our kids from social media manipulation. Plus, how to balance creativity and stability to create a strong f...

Welcome back to Dad Mode: God, Grit, Goals! In this episode, Mike dives into the fascinating parallels between raising children and developing artificial intelligence. Drawing inspiration from Proverbs 22:6—“Train up a child in the way they should go, and when they are old, they will not depart from it”—we explore how timeless biblical wisdom can shape the moral compass of both our kids and the ra...

In today’s episode, I’m sharing a personal confession about my recent struggle to keep the Sabbath. As I’ve been trying to practice this sacred day of rest, I’ve found myself stressed and scrambling, which shows just how much I need it. We’ll explore the biblical foundations of the Sabbath, discuss why it’s more than just a rule—it’s a gift—and share practical steps for preparing your week to hono...

In this episode, I share my personal story of surviving a life-threatening pulmonary embolism and the lesson I learned the hard way: motivation alone isn’t enough. We dive deep into why motivation fades and how building momentum—through small, sustainable habits—can lead to lasting change in your health, faith, and life. We’ll also explore how comparing yourself to others can demotivate you and de...

In this episode of Dad Mode: God, Grit, and Goals, we explore the deeper spiritual connection between our faith and our health. Drawing from 1 Corinthians 6:19-20, we’ll dive into what it means to treat our bodies as temples of the Holy Spirit, and how this perspective can transform our daily choices in profound ways. Discover practical, faith-based practices you can start applying today, such as...