Daddy Issues with Violet Benson

Thinking about starting that business, becoming an influencer, or finally posting that video?? If the only thing standing between you and your dreams is worrying what people might think.. then this episode is about to set you FREE. Truth is, other people’s opinions are keeping you Broke & boring babe .. which is why today, we’re unpacking Mel Robbins’ Let Them Think Bad Thoughts . And onc...

Welcome to our  Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode , dropping the third week of every month! This September, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Libra man obsessed with YOU. Get ready to discover: 🔥 How to charm the ultimate romantic and keep him captivated by you. 🔥 Foolproof ways to balance his love for beauty, harmony, and connection. 🔥 What he values most in a relationship (and w...

Think you’ve had the worst date ever? Try going out with a musician… WORST. DATE. FINAL. BOSS. From men wearing my Skims to guys with kids my age, the dating pool isn’t just in hell… it’s swimming in piss and UTIs.  Welcome to Part 5, besties. Buckle up because this episode is UNHINGED and will have you laughing your socks off.  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and Califor...

Welcome to the narcissist playbook Think you’ve never dated a narcissist? Think again. From love bombing to gaslighting to the classic “I’m sorry you feel that way” non-apology—these are the Top 5 Mind Games Narcissists Play that’ll have you questioning your reality, your group chat, and maybe even your sanity. On today's episode, Violetta is breaking down their playbook, exposing every trick, and...

No intro. No filter. Just me crashing out mid-coffee jitters, questioning a man’s job, his five passports, and whether I just met my future husband or the next Tinder Swindler. The dating pool is in hell. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .

Welcome to our  Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode , dropping the third week of every month! This August, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to getting a Virgo man obsessed with YOU. Get ready to discover: 🔥 The secrets to understanding his perfectionist tendencies—and how to meet his high standards. 🔥 Foolproof ways to earn his trust and keep his attention. 🔥 What he values most in a partner (...

Okay besties… it begins. I’m officially back in the dating game - I'm talking Hinge, matchmakers, awkward dates I already regret, and I’m taking you with me. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .

Think getting ahead is about luck? Think again. In this episode of  Almost Adulting , I’m giving you my unfiltered playbook for turning every 'no' into a 'hell yes,' getting hired when you’re underqualified, nailing interviews, and beating the competition for the promotion you deserve. Today you’ll learn how to: • Get a YES (even when you’re not the obvious choice) through manipulation • Turn...

Why Women Are Choosing Younger Men This week on Almost Adulting , I’m joined by the power couple that broke the internet—and probably a few age-gap double standards. Caroline Stanbury (yes, that Caroline from Ladies of London and Real Housewives of Dubai ) and her hot husband Sergio (ex-pro footballer, full-time golden retriever energy) are here to prove that age is just a number—and chemistry is...

Do you ever feel weirdly lonely  in  your relationships? Like you’re the one always doing the work—overthinking, overgiving, overfunctioning—and you still feel...empty? You’re not crazy. You might just have grown up with an emotionally immature parent. In this special Benson Book Club episode, I break down the first chapter of  Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents  an...

If you're in your twenties then listen to this. Your 20s are all about embracing mistakes, growth, and becoming the person you’re meant to be. In today's short episode, I’m sharing 20 things your 20s are too short for—like staying in toxic relationships, letting others define your worth, and holding back from living your best life. Plus, stick around for a powerful manifesting mantra at the end to...

Welcome to our  Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode , dropping the third week of every month! This July, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Leo man obsessed with YOU. Get ready to discover: 🔥 What he craves in a partner—and how to become his ultimate desire. 🔥 Foolproof ways to grab his attention and keep his spotlight on you. 🔥 Subtle signs he’s losing interest—and how to win back h...

Ring ring… hellllllo?  It’s your big sis Violetta coming to your rescue! Hi besties!! It’s the second week of the month, and you know what that means: a brand new episode of  Ask Violetta . But today, we’re doing things a little differently... We’re answering just  one  question. But not just any question—the one that haunts your group chat at 2am: “What if they’re your soulmat...

Why are we so f*cking mean to ourselves? This week, we’re diving deep into that nonstop voice in your head that tells you you’re not good enough, smart enough, hot enough, just... not  enough . You’ll find out why it exists, how it got there, and how to finally shut it the hell up. We’re talking: · The  real  science behind your inner critic (yes, it’s a thing - it’s called the&nbsp...

Think you’re low-maintenance until they stop texting back? Can’t breathe unless you’re together 24/7? Sounds like you’ve got a ‘Quality Time’ love language. But don’t panic... needing time isn’t the problem, ignoring it is. Hi besties!! Today we’re breaking down everything you need to know about the  second most common love language: Quality Time. So before you call it quits, LISTEN UP. If yo...

What if I told you the reason you don’t have your summer body… is because of your situationship? This week I’m joined by  Sarah Perl , aka  The Hot High Priestess , and we’re unpacking why your anxiety, trauma, and bad taste in men are literally showing up on your body. We go deep on: Why your nervous system is hoarding fat like it’s hoarding toxic men What it  really  takes to...

Welcome to our  Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode , dropping the third week of every month! This June, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to getting a Cancer man obsessed with YOU . Get ready to learn: 🔥 What makes him the ultimate romantic—and how to use it to your advantage. 🔥 Foolproof ways to connect with his sensitive side and make him feel safe with you. 🔥 What he craves in a relationshi...

You’re not single because you’re broken—maybe you’re just asking the wrong questions. In this deeply personal and hilariously honest solo episode, I share 30 questions you need to ask yourself if you’re serious about finding real love—not the situationship, not the trauma-bond, not the 2-week high followed by ghosting. We're talking love that lasts . I also open up for the first time about being d...

Today I’m joined by viral creator MJ Gray to break down everything from the Wizard Liz drama, delusional men who want “traditional women” but can’t even lead… to why the 50/50 dating fantasy is officially dead. We’re talking cheating, bill-paying boyfriends, men who secretly resent powerful women, and why you should think twice who you have a baby with. If you’ve ever wondered why the guy who chas...

One random act of kindness, a stranger on the freeway, and a moment that changed everything. Listen to this to restore your faith in humanity and discover how a split-second decision can reveal the goodness still left in the world Wanna listen to this episode AD FREE?? Go to my ad free subscription at - almostadulting.supercast.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Pri...

Welcome back to Benson Book Club ! Today we’re diving into Chapter 4 of Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay Gibson—aka the one that explains why you can’t trust, love, or text back without spiraling. Think your mom’s a narcissist? You might be onto something. Convinced your dad’s emotional unavailability ruined your love life? You’re not wrong. This episode is your Roman Empi...

Welcome to our  Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode , dropping the third week of every month! This May, we’re giving you  the ultimate guide to making a Gemini man obsessed with YOU . Get ready to uncover: 🔥 The secrets behind his charm and dual nature—and how to make them work in your favor. 🔥 Proven tips to spark his curiosity and keep him endlessly intrigued by you. 🔥 What excites hi...

Ever lost four teeth and exposed your tampon string on a first date? Chloe has. But guess what hurts even more? Friendship breakups. Today, joined by Alexa & Chloe from the Unbothered Podcast, we’re getting real about the friends who ghosted us, the emotional vampires, moving on without closure, and the painful truth that sometimes friendships end because someone stopped pretending. At what po...

Wanna get spoiled  and  stay in charge? This week, I’m breaking down how to play the game like a princess with a PhD in power. You’ll learn how to make him  think  he’s leading—while you’re actually driving the damn car. Tap for the cheat code to his ego. The secret sauce? Tune in. I’m not giving it all away here, babe. Wanna listen to this episode AD FREE?? Go to my ad free su...

Listen bestie, you know that tight feeling in your chest, the unexplained fatigue, the random headaches and sleepless nights? That’s your body screaming:  this relationship is toxic!! RUN. (We're talking, romantic, platonic, or family—no one gets a free pass.) Today, Violetta reveals the science-backed truth about how emotional stress from toxic relationships physically destroys your health—t...