DAD Talks

In this episode, JT explores the concept of avoiding the trap of worrying about tomorrow by focusing on today as a teacher. Drawing from personal experiences and a book by Ryan Wekenman, the discussion emphasizes sitting with feelings, asking why, and taking actionable steps in the present moment.

JT shares his personal reflections on navigating the challenges of co-parenting after divorce, emphasizing the importance of personal responsibility, love, and autonomy in relationships.

In this episode, JT explores the difference between being alone and feeling lonely, sharing personal insights and practical ways to find connection and contentment in solitude.

In this episode, JT explores the concept of rebuilding a life after significant setbacks like divorce or job loss, emphasizing the importance of a strong foundation rooted in faith and self-worth. JT shares personal insights and practical steps for navigating the process with trust in God and practical wisdom.

In this episode, JT explores three main paths of work and purpose—freedom, domination, and escape—and how they apply to dads planning their future. JT discusses how understanding these paths can help you align your work with your family and spiritual life.

In this episode, the JT explores the complex question of purpose, sharing personal struggles and insights from faith, psychology, and life experiences. The discussion emphasizes that purpose is a journey, not a destination, and highlights the importance of trusting God's plan and seeking contentment in the present moment.

In this episode, JT shares a personal journey of wrestling with God through life's challenges, including divorce and personal growth. He explores the biblical stories of Job and Jacob to illustrate how wrestling with God can lead to humility, deeper relationship, and transformation.

In this episode, JT explores the complex question of what success truly means, especially in the context of personal life, finances, and balancing responsibilities as a single dad. He shares personal reflections and invites listeners to define success on their own terms.

In this episode, JT explores the powerful principles of never complaining, never explaining, and how these can positively influence leadership and parenting. He shares personal insights and practical advice on modeling resilience and humility for our kids.

In this episode, JT shares personal insights on navigating life's uncertainties, especially when plans change unexpectedly. He discusses how to help young adults find their path by focusing on who they want to become rather than what they do, emphasizing the importance of resilience, adaptability, and intentionality.

In this episode, JT reflects on the importance of small moments in creating lasting memories with children, emphasizing the value of presence and intentionality over grand gestures. Inspired by the book 'The Power of Moments,' he explores how everyday interactions can leave a meaningful impact.

In this episode, JT explores the meaning of 'passing the buck' through historical stories and personal reflections, emphasizing the importance of taking responsibility as leaders, especially as dads. He shares practical insights on owning mistakes, leading with integrity, and teaching responsibility to children.

In this episode, JT explores the reasons he loves America, despite its flaws, and discusses how love for country parallels family relationships. He emphasizes the importance of grace, reconciliation, and living a life of integrity as a foundation for building a better future for our children.

In this episode, I explore the true meaning of integrity, sharing my personal journey with struggles and how understanding the 'gap' between belief and action can lead to a more authentic life. I offer practical insights on overcoming addiction and living holistically. keywords integrity, personal growth, addiction, honesty, self-improvement, faith, authenticity, mental health, vulnerabili...

Summary In this episode, I explore the true cost of spiritual leadership and influence, emphasizing that authentic influence is forged in private through prayer, humility, and perseverance. I share insights from spiritual leaders and biblical stories, encouraging dads to embrace the process of formation to leave a lasting legacy.

In this episode, I share personal stories and life lessons inspired by soccer, fatherhood, and everyday moments. I emphasize the importance of intentionality, presence, and patience in raising kids and building meaningful relationships. fatherhood, intentional parenting, life lessons, soccer, everyday moments, parenting tips, building trust, presence, long-term planning

In this episode, I explore the challenges dads face when their children's growth challenges their pride. I share personal stories, insights from leadership principles, and practical ways to celebrate and support kids' development while managing parental pride.

Have you ever wondered if you missed God's will for your life? In this episode, JT shares lessons from The Will of God as a Way of Life by Gerald Sittser and challenges the idea that God's will is a hidden plan we have to discover. Instead, God's focus may be less about finding the perfect path and more about becoming the right kind of person. If you're facing a big decision, carry...

In this episode, I explore the concept of friction in overcoming sin and building better habits. I share personal insights on how small obstacles can disrupt automatic behaviors, especially in the context of addiction and self-improvement.

In this episode, I explore the importance of taking responsibility after life's setbacks, especially for divorced dads. I talk about the fact that nobody is coming to save you, and real change begins with personal accountability, action, and resilience.

Every divorced dad is living through his own version of Friday, Saturday, and Sunday… whether he realizes it or not. In this episode, we break down the stages of loss, the waiting, and the rebuild using the story of Jesus’ final days… and what it actually looks like to come out the other side stronger.

Stop trying to do it all on your own strength—it’s a losing game. Today, I’m breaking down the Feeding of the 5,000 to show you how divine power picks up exactly where our ‘man-power’ runs out. Real talk for dads on staying connected to the only energy source that doesn't redline. Chapters 00:00 Introduction: The Struggles of Fatherhood 03:05 The Miracle of Feeding the 5,000 08:56 Lessons on A...

Why are we stuck? It’s often because we’re afraid to admit what’s over. Let’s talk about moving forward. Admitting reality can be daunting. It forces us to confront the end of a chapter, whether it's a job, a relationship, or a dream. I was there, holding onto the past, petrified of change. But true growth comes when we acknowledge loss and allow ourselves to grieve.

In this episode of Dad Talks, I talk of how men often build protective systems that hide their weaknesses, leading to stagnation and regret. I share personal stories of struggle, the importance of vulnerability, and practical steps for men to rebuild their lives, lead better, and live with purpose. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Dad Talks 00:35 The Struggles of Being Stuck 03:52 Building Systems t...

You didn’t just “end up here.” Your life has patterns. And if you don’t deal with them, your kids will. I had to learn that the hard way. In this episode, I walk through how unresolved pain showed up in my life, my marriage, and eventually my kids… and what I’m doing now to break it.