Heather aka Nookie
Curiouser + Curiouser Daily Podcast
Welcome to Curiouser + Curiouser , the daily podcast where love, sex, romance, and kink get real. I’m Heather aka Nookie—author, educator, relationship coach, and professional truth-teller. Every day, I send a message to my community: part story, part confession, part “holy hell, that’s exactly what I needed to hear today.” Now, I’m bringing those daily messages to your ears. Each episode is 3–10 minutes long—short enough for your morning coffee, deep enough to shift how you think about connection. I talk about the conversations I’ve had, the questions people ask, the mistakes we all make, and...
Where to listen?
Podcasts in the app Replaio Radio Coming soonPodcasts are coming to the app soon. Install now and be the first to see a whole new take on podcasts
Episodes
January 17: Sweet or suspicious? That second-date moment... 17.01.2026 3:18
Some gestures are manipulative. Some are magic. Here’s how to tell the difference. https://my.curiouser.life/post/asparagoose
January 16: What if you're accidentally filtering for the wrong people? 16.01.2026 3:38
You're not imagining the pattern... but you might be reinforcing it. Here's how to shift it. https://my.curiouser.life/post/ras
January 15: More relationships = more breakups? Let’s talk. 15.01.2026 3:58
The internet was arguing again... so I did some actual research. https://my.curiouser.life/post/95-percent
January 14: Money isn't the reason you're single (but nice try). 14.01.2026 4:38
Dating isn't pay-to-play. But the internet wants you to think it is. https://my.curiouser.life/post/daterminism
January 13: You said you were “fine”... but were you? 13.01.2026 3:38
Turns out, most of the time? You’re the one crossing your own line. https://my.curiouser.life/post/self-stomp
January 12: 49% of coaches are below average 😬 12.01.2026 3:49
Helping people is not the same as relating to their confusion. https://my.curiouser.life/post/49-percent
January 10: He said, “What is going on between us??” 10.01.2026 2:41
This is what happens when you’re a good man in a broken dating world. https://my.curiouser.life/post/gender-wars
January 8: Foreplay starts when...? 08.01.2026 4:27
Foreplay isn’t a moment. It’s a mindset. https://my.curiouser.life/post/everything-is-sex
January 7: What if the person you desire… is your enemy? 07.01.2026 3:45
No one wins a war of the genders—NO ONE. https://my.curiouser.life/post/haterosexual
January 6: Alpha Bros vs. Simps? Wrong Fight. Here’s the Real Problem. 06.01.2026 3:41
Strategic self-erasure isn’t a personality. https://my.curiouser.life/post/twins
January 5: They said: “I wouldn’t take the relationship seriously” 05.01.2026 3:26
My take is a little different—and you don’t have to agree. https://my.curiouser.life/post/they-said
December 31: You don’t need another resolution. You need need a wrecking ball. 31.12.2025 1:19
Forget manifesting. Let’s start by breaking sh*t.
December 30: This one belief wrecks more relationships than cheating does. 30.12.2025 4:02
Love ≠ Mind Reading (sorry, fairy tales) https://my.curiouser.life/post/miss-them
December 29: If you don’t set boundaries, you’re giving yourself away. 29.12.2025 4:14
Everyone I interviewed said the same unexpected thing. https://my.curiouser.life/post/give-yourself-away
December 28: Why it was never enough (no matter what you did)… 28.12.2025 3:08
Because they were never going to be satisfied. https://my.curiouser.life/post/never-enough
December 27: What if 2026 is the year you stop doing relationships “right”? 27.12.2025 6:12
Obligation isn’t the same thing as love—and 2026 is a chance to choose differently. https://my.curiouser.life/post/do-what-you-want
December 26: This is how you stop tolerating bull 💩. 26.12.2025 4:24
You see it in relationships, work, family—and now you can’t unsee it. https://my.curiouser.life/post/toxitesting
December 24: A gift you don’t have to wrap… 24.12.2025 4:15
Being present beats being perfect. https://my.curiouser.life/post/a-gift-you-dont-have-to-wrap
December 23: “I had no idea anything was wrong.” 24.12.2025 3:47
Not knowing isn’t innocent. It’s just another form of not caring. https://my.curiouser.life/post/i-had-no-idea
December 22: I’m closing out 2025… 22.12.2025 3:08
…by looking back, feeling forward, and staying soft. https://my.curiouser.life/post/yearly-rituals
December 20: “I didn’t mean to hurt you…” 20.12.2025 3:53
This is how impact beats effort—every time. https://my.curiouser.life/post/impact-vs-effort
December 19: The truth about “transactional” love… 19.12.2025 4:52
Scorekeeping ruins love. But mutual benefit? That’s how it thrives. https://my.curiouser.life/post/transactional-truth
December 18: The contract they never signed (but you’re still mad about). 18.12.2025 3:36
You didn't ask for what you wanted. You expected them to just know. Oof. https://my.curiouser.life/post/covert-contract
December 17: Let’s NOT normalize this, actually. 17.12.2025 4:13
Hot take: Autonomy > someone else’s idea of virtue. Every time. https://my.curiouser.life/post/normalize
December 16: Why she thinks you’re sweet... but not sexy. 16.12.2025 3:15
The difference? It’s not luck. It’s action. https://my.curiouser.life/post/do-you-ask
Similar podcasts
Replaio is not a podcast publisher; show names, artwork and audio belong to their authors and are distributed through public RSS feeds.