Heather aka Nookie
Curiouser + Curiouser Daily Podcast
Welcome to Curiouser + Curiouser , the daily podcast where love, sex, romance, and kink get real. I’m Heather aka Nookie—author, educator, relationship coach, and professional truth-teller. Every day, I send a message to my community: part story, part confession, part “holy hell, that’s exactly what I needed to hear today.” Now, I’m bringing those daily messages to your ears. Each episode is 3–10 minutes long—short enough for your morning coffee, deep enough to shift how you think about connection. I talk about the conversations I’ve had, the questions people ask, the mistakes we all make, and...
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Episodes
May 11; "Women want experience." Sure, babe. Sure. 11.05.2026 3:01
Two men proved my point better than I ever could. https://my.curiouser.life/post/051126-experience -- This episode contains AI voices. Here is my statement on how I use AI in my business: https://my.curiouser.life/post/041526-ai
May 8: The “clean slate” fantasy… 08.05.2026 8:15
Picasso painted over his canvases. So did Rembrandt. Turns out, that's where the masterpieces came from. https://my.curiouser.life/post/050826-canvas
May 7: Does setting boundaries help men or help relationships? 07.05.2026 3:52
The honest answer? Both. And also: it depends. https://my.curiouser.life/post/050726-boundaries
May 6: Feminism, SELF-ish love, and the one question that actually matters in dating 06.05.2026 4:23
It's not about their list. It's about yours. https://my.curiouser.life/post/050626-selfish
May 5th: Fantasy vs. The Real Thing 05.05.2026 4:15
It’s grounded in inspiration, not intimidation. https://my.curiouser.life/post/050526-inspiration
May 1: The holiday you didn't know you needed. 01.05.2026 2:41
May is for self-love. The literal kind. https://my.curiouser.life/post/050126-may
April 30: Let’s play! Truth or Trauma 30.04.2026 3:51
Same feeling, different person? That's not a coincidence. https://my.curiouser.life/post/043026-game
April 29: The question nobody's asking about cheating. 29.04.2026 5:23
There are two kinds of monogamy. Most people are only one of them. https://my.curiouser.life/post/042926-nomono
April 27: I followed my joy. It led me here. 27.04.2026 3:43
How a play party reminded me about what that really matters. https://my.curiouser.life/post/042726-wild-things
April 24: It's not your fault. (And I'll die on this hill.) 24.04.2026 3:12
CW: Abuse Blame the victim? I have thoughts. https://my.curiouser.life/post/042426-herd
April 23: The buffet is YOU (and some people don't deserve a plate). 23.04.2026 3:52
Yes, you attract the wrong sort. No, it's not your fault. Both things are true. https://my.curiouser.life/post/042326-eat-you
April 22: You are what you eat (intellectually, emotionally). 22.04.2026 3:53
Your brain is running other people's software without your permission. https://my.curiouser.life/post/042226-eat
April 15: My AI confession (it's less dramatic than it sounds)… 15.04.2026 5:23
I blocked him. Here's why—and here's what I actually use. https://my.curiouser.life/post/041526-ai
April 14: The difference between a boundary, a rule, and an ultimatum 14.04.2026 3:50
(Hint: one of them is about you. The other two... aren't.) https://my.curiouser.life/post/041426-rules
April 13: Is it a boundary... or an ultimatum? Here's how to tell. 13.04.2026 3:25
You control two of the three. The third one? Good luck. https://my.curiouser.life/post/041326-ultimatum
April 10: “Real love” isn't the point. This is. 10.04.2026 4:28
CW: Abuse I've been called cynical for this. Hear me out. https://my.curiouser.life/post/041026-real-love-2
April 9: 20 people. 27 definitions. One big problem. 09.04.2026 5:55
(And you thought you were speaking the same language.) https://my.curiouser.life/post/040926-real-love
April 8: Someone called me a grifter yesterday… 08.04.2026 4:03
He's been reading my emails for a year. Still single. Still not talking to me. https://my.curiouser.life/post/040826-grift
April 7: I followed someone else’s rules. Here's what happened. 07.04.2026 4:56
Turns out, someone else's blueprint doesn't fit everyone (DUH). https://my.curiouser.life/post/040726-ch-ch-ch-changes
April 6: They feel everything. You think everything. Now what? 06.04.2026 3:58
A real question from a real person—and my very personal answer. https://my.curiouser.life/post/040626-depth
April 3: He called me "actually coherent." 🤣🤣🤣 03.04.2026 3:36
Spoiler: it revealed more about him than he intended. https://my.curiouser.life/post/040326-simps
April 1: The April Fool's joke that never ends (and it's not funny) 01.04.2026 4:51
The measurement obsession that is absolutely not the point. https://my.curiouser.life/post/040126-april-fool
Are they a monster? Or are they a Death's Cap? 31.03.2026 5:19
The mushroom metaphor that could change how you see toxic relationships. https://my.curiouser.life/post/033126-toxic2 Take No Sh*t! Build better relationships through discovering, creating and maintaining healthy boundaries in three (sometimes five) simple steps. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CGSZ78NL
March 30: "The good ones don't believe sh*t like this." 30.03.2026 4:39
You've met this guy. Maybe in the comments. Maybe in the mirror.
March 27: What happens after the hard work actually works? 27.03.2026 3:10
A check-in message I didn't expect and the update that made my whole day. https://my.curiouser.life/post/032726-couples
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