Curious Fox

Figuring out the right relationship design for you and your partner(s) is key to thriving. If that design falls outside the status quo, how do you communicate it to other people in your life? Do you talk about your husband’s boyfriend at work? Do you include your girlfriend in the family christmas card? Do you ask for another plus one for partnered events? Effy and Jacqueline sit down with a live...

What is relationship hierarchy? Effy and Jacqueline lead this lively discussion where Foxes shared from the heart as always. Unlike our usual panel discussion, we tried out a different format where we held a discussion group focusing on hierarchy in open and polyamorous relationships.  Support the show Connect with us on IG and more: Curious Fox @wearecuriousfoxes Effy Blue @coacheffyblue Jacqueli...

Who is Curious Fox? Effy and Jacqueline call a family meeting to discuss the vision for Curious Fox and invite you to be a part of the mission.  Support the show Connect with us on IG and more: Curious Fox @wearecuriousfoxes Effy Blue @coacheffyblue Jacqueline Misla @jacquelinemisla Email us or send a voice memo: listening@wearecuriousfoxes.com Join the conversation: fb.com/WeAreCuriousFoxes

From budding romantic relationships, to long term partnerships, to connections with metamours and friends; we are interested in how to build and maintain connections that meet our needs, bring us joy, and help us feel seen. Effy and Jacqueline discuss making new connections in the world of polyamory and open relationships when it comes to dating with a brave Fox, Ben, who had a very interesting st...

The first step towards a healthy and thriving relationship of any kind is to know yourself. When people talk about trying to find themselves, have you ever wonder what the hell that means. Or more specifically, how does one go about actually “finding” themselves. From sexual or relational orientation to the way we show and receive love, knowing who we are and how we show up in the world is key to...

What are the love languages and how are they connected? Effy  collaborated with our friends at Grown Up Questions, a podcast about the life long process of becoming adults. The hosts Ben and Hannah, a brother and sister, explore the love languages with us to make sense of the way they connect to one another. You can listen to more episodes of Grown Up Questions here. Support the show Connect with...

If you are practicing non-monogamy, you likely have had to think about what kind of relationship you would like to have with your partner’s partner(s). Metamour is the term used to describe the partner of one’s partner. While you may not have a romantic or loving relationship with your metamour(s), they can play an important role in your life. Whether you want to build a strong friendship with you...

What is compersion? Why doesn't spellcheck detect it as a real word?  Well, It's the feeling of joy that one gets when watching someone else experience joy.  Effy draws out stories of how people moved from established rules that protected them, to establishing freedom that liberated them in the spirit of joy and compersion from a diverse set of Foxes on this live panel. Support the show...

Are you curious about relationship anarchy (RA)? First coined by Andie Nordgren, RA has roots in political ideology and calls for relationships not to be bound by rules aside from what the people involved mutually agree upon. It rejects a formal distinction between sexual, romantic, or platonic relationships. So what does that look like day to day? Can you practice RA and sustain long term relatio...

People change. Relationships change. How can you navigate through those changes in a way that honors everyone involved? How can you and your partner(s) create an environment that supports evolution and growth? From monogamous to open, a couple to a triad, a partner to solo poly, to conscious uncoupling - what can you learn from other people’s experiences around transition?  Effy addresses relation...