Culture Vs. Purpose

In today’s episode, I’m joined by two of my close friends for a conversation that’s been heavy on my heart lately: Godly friendship and iron sharpening iron. Since coming to Christ, the friendships that truly challenge me and keep me accountable have radically transformed my walk. We talk about how the people you surround yourself with can either pull you toward God or push you away — and how to k...

In this episode, we dive into the reality of walking with a dream that doesn’t seem to be moving, at least not in the way or timing you thought it would. I build on a previous episode about dreams and share what it’s looked like to carry a promise from God, only to find myself in a season of waiting, pruning, and quiet transformation. This episode is for the ones who are still waiting. The ones wh...

Welcome to Culture Vs Purpose. In this episode, I open up about a season of unexpected challenges—one that has tested my faith, stretched my obedience, and revealed the deeper work God is doing in my life. Recently, I made the unexpected decision to move back home, a choice I never imagined making but one that God placed on my heart. What I anticipated as a season of purpose quickly became a seaso...

In this heartfelt and transparent episode, your host Fatiha reflects on the transformative power of surrendering pride, anger, and bitterness to God. Kicking off the new year with optimism and faith, she shares personal stories of past struggles, spiritual immaturity, and the lessons she learned through conflict and suffering. Drawing from her own experiences—family conflicts, betrayal, and moment...

In this heartfelt episode of Culture vs. Purpose , your host Fatiha Alam shares a deeply personal testimony about how she and her partner overcame obstacles in their relationship through the grace and faithfulness of God. From periods of doubt and spiritual warfare to divine confirmations (both encountering God's voice) and miraculous breakthroughs, this testimony reveals the power of obedience an...

Welcome back, beautiful people! After some reflection and time off, I'm excited to reconnect and dive into Culture Vs. Purpose. In this episode, we reflect on re-centering our identity in Christ, especially during seasons of change and uncertainty. I open up about my struggle with finding purpose after college, the challenges of placing my worth in worldly achievements, and the freedom that comes...

This episode, your host Fatiha, talks about her perspective on intentional relationships and what setting intention looks like. She goes over some background of what dating in her culture looks like and what she now knows it to be. We discuss some unpopular opinions of dating and relationships. Fatiha emphasizes how love is so powerful, but in order for us to truly know what it is, we have to know...

In this episode, we delve into the concept of growing pains, building on discussions from previous episodes. Your host, Fatiha Alam, shares a personal experience of facing a harsh reality check when her structured life plan didn't unfold as expected. We reflect on the common societal script of milestones—graduating, getting a job, starting a family—and the pressure to adhere to these norms. Ho...

This episode starts with our host, Fatiha, sharing their recent struggles with depression and a feeling of being lost after finishing school. She expresses feeling overwhelmed by her big dreams and goals, feeling impatient about achieving them, and doubting if they're realistic. She reflects on how she started to give up on her dreams before trying and how this negativity consumed her. Fatiha...

This episode, your host Fatiha talks about how important it is to value yourself by keeping the promises you make. We have all fallen short by not making it to the gym, not waking up early like we said, not cutting off that toxic person, etc. It's normal! Nonetheless, it can be detrimental when we don't show up for ourselves one too many times. Your host Fatiha discusses how following thro...

In this episode, we delve into the intricate skill of not over-explaining, a challenge many people-pleasers face. Your host, Fatiha, acknowledges her own tendency to disclose excessive information to ensure others' contentment and explores the root of this behavior – the constant need for external validation. Listeners are encouraged to recognize and break free from the pattern of seeking vali...

Ever felt stuck in stagnancy, navigating life without a clear sense of purpose? In this transformative episode, we dissect the aspects of your life that might be hindering your journey towards your calling and vision. It's time for a comprehensive audit of your job, goals, habits, and people in your space. Join Fatiha as we delve into the profound connection between your surroundings and your...

Today, I have the absolute pleasure of hosting a friend I've known since childhood, the incredible Amitoj Kaur. Amitoj has been on a roll lately, and we're going to unpack it all in this conversation. She recently got invited to the Forbes 30 under 30 event, scored a new job, snagged a fantastic apartment, and to top it off, she's launched her own podcast and has been creating some ste...

In this empowering episode, I dive deep into the concept of becoming your own biggest fan, even when the cheers from your closest circle are in short supply. Join me as we explore the journey of self-empowerment and resilience in the face of familial skepticism. Sometimes, the people closest to us may not fully understand or support our dreams and aspirations. Especially in a culture that is fixat...

Are you constantly feeling like you're emotionally and physically overwhelmed? You're probably not taking time to breathe from being addicted to carrying your weight as well as everyone else's. This episode, we talk about processing your emotions and how it does not make you any less strong if you cannot handle it all at once. Its okay to fall apart, breathe, or take a step back so you...

This episode, we will be getting into mental health with my first guest speaker and long time mentor. He is also a therapist and has some gems to drop as seasonal depression is right around the corner and can make hard times even worse. Listen to different questions you may have ranging from general to specific. As always, please use any takeaways to continue to take care of yourself. Enjoy!

Let's talk about how hard it is when you have to face the things that you have to let go in order to continue to stay devoted and disciplined. Obedience brings so many fruitful rewards, but we also have to face the hurt and pain we feel every time a piece of our old spirit dies to our new one. I talk about the different situations we may face and how it is a grieving process every time. Noneth...

This episode we are talking about my thoughts on marriage within ethnic cultures and the insane amount of stress that comes with it. I will talk about why its okay to disagree with the ideals put in place and to choose something unfamiliar to your family in order for you to achieve a lifetime of happiness. I talk about the emotions you go through to make such a big choice, but how I believe it wil...

This episode we will talk about taking the measures to address your mental health and boost it by cultivating a space that will water and pour into you. It's time to remove yourself from spaces that aren't leading you to your purpose!

In this episode we'll be discussing how to start showing up as your true self! Sometimes it can be really scary to stand up for yourself and what you want because you dont know how it will be received. I will be giving tips on how to go about doing that and why it is important to unapologetically claim the things you want in life. Never forget that you dont need permission to be you. You'l...

This episode we are going to be talking about the much needed inner work we all have to do. Often times we harbor negative energy in our bodies because of what we've been through at the hands of others because of their lack of understanding, but harboring that is only going to be poison in your body. I am going to discuss the true reason why people act the way they do and how you can still cho...

This intro episode goes over a little bit about who I am and my reasoning behind why I created this podcast. I am here to impact and give a voice to those who might be struggling with the hardships within their culture. It is not easy overcoming the obstacles we have to face, but you're not alone! Overtime, I hope this becomes a community where you find the strength to use your voice and fight...