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CRUDE #21 On this episode, Elle and Effie in London are joined by a special guest Maya to talk about how and who sex workers date and the many complications that arise from it. Crude Podcast: Seggsual healing *What we were consuming* [Podcast] Eva Oh [Berlin exhibition] With Legs Wide Open [Activism] Hackling // Hustling [Article] Boomtown [Article] Whorearchy [Theory] Madonna–Wh0re complex

CRUDE #20 Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to talk about their breakup experiences. Did they end things or stay friends, and why not just burn their sh* and move on? What about post-break-up seggs? Is it a good idea? Or have they lost the privilege? In the catch-up, Effie talks about her holidays in the French nudist and swinger paradise in Cap d'Agde. *Crudie break up songs...

CRUDE #19 Misty in Berlin and Effie in London are joined by their special guest Kėkė to talk all about sex and music. The Crudies kick off with a discussion of how therapeutic gangbangs can be and Effie gives more tips on how to organise them. Berlin-based un-disciplined artist, researching the intersections of sound, film, performance and somatic research. Kėkė's artworks are a space to explore h...

CRUDE #18 In this (yummy) episode, Effie in London is joined by Frank, Misty and special guest Clara from WeFeast to chew the fat on all things food and seggs. After discussing how the food-fun plays out at Berlin's unique WeFeast play parties, the crud(ité) crew discuss their own experiences related to food and sex. Ever sploshed in a bath in a dress suit? What about remote zucchini seggs from Me...

CRUDE #17 Misty, and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to talk all about the joys and methods of making love to your very special own self. The team talks about the moral panics and history of shame surrounding a theme that is still very much taboo for many people. Did King Onan pull out or spill the seed? How often does the Crude team beat the meat, and why? Why don't we all talk abou...

CRUDE #16 Special guest Lisa from Cybrothel.com talks us through the fascinating range of love dolls they have on offer, as well as VR experiences and other seggs tech services you can find at this unique house of pleasure in Berlin Elle, Frank and Lisa look deeper into how love dolls will develop in the future and Lisa talks about how Cybrothel is actively looking to market dolls to a broader que...

CRUDE #15 On this podcast, Effie in London is joined by Misty and Frank in Berlin to talk about raw dogging and bareback riding AKA completely irresponsible but occasionally hot seggs. The discussion begins with a catchup on the team's news, the latest fivesomes, sevensomes and other some-somes. Including the perils of dating tall men and generic tech-bot guys ... The crew then discuss raw dogging...

CRUDE #14 After a catch-up where the team swipe themselves into a flurry talking about some of the mishaps, traps and jackpots they've hit while burning precious life energy on dating apps. How is it hooking up with couples on dating apps? Is it easy for couples to meet unicorns or single boys and girls for fun? How is dating for bisexual boys and girls? What can go wrong when looking for hook-ups...

CRUDE #13 After a catch-up where the team discuss the opening of Elle's With Legs Wide Open exhibition at the Schwules Museum Berlin and the topic of sex work prohibition in Europe, the Crude crew dive deep into how they deal with jealousy in their relationships and situationships in the past and in the present. Is jealousy sometimes good? Can it be avoided? What should you do if you are jealous?...

CRUDE #12 After a catch-up where Elle discusses an exhibition she is curated in Berlin ( With Legs Wide Open ) in 2024, the Crude crew talk about all things ass, anal, butts and bums. Everything from rimming to fingers to plugs and willies and all the other stuff too. Is it worth it for people with pussies? Does everyone like it? Can you cum from it? Bottoms up! *What we were reading* [Book] Juno...

CRUDE #11 Elle, Misty, Effie and Frank are back and catching up on their recent lives from the past weeks. There are diggs that won't come down, blood from Empress Wu, peaches full of man jam and lots and lots and about Poor (Terrible?) Things. *What we were reading* [Book] Emily Nagoski. Come as You Are (2015) [Book] Peter Brook. Ch. 7 "Frankenstein" in What is a Monster? (1993) [Essay] Laura Mu...

CRUDE #10 In this episode, the Crude team get all wet as they dive deep into the fluid shallows of the world of squirting. So, what is it? How does it work? Can everyone do it? And, most importantly ... is it pee? [It's not :) ] Misty and Frank in Berlin, Effie and Elle in London are joined by G in the studio to go over the myths and science as well as all the other sloshy details you need to know...

CRUDE #9 Elle, Misty, Frank, and special guest Becka in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to talk about the different types of help people turn to to become better lovers or to enhance their own sexual experiences. With a huge surge in interest in sexual learning in the past years, the Crude team discuss if sex can be coached at all and why people believe it can. Rebecca is a coach, workshop, a...

CRUDE #8 On this podcast, the Crude team are chatting with two special guests about why they cheat. Effie in London joins Elle, Misty, and Frank to get all down and Crudey about a subject everyone has strong opinions about but rarely discusses. Why do people cheat? If so many people cheat, then why do people get so upset about it? Statistics generally estimate that around 30% – 50% of the humans i...

CRUDE #7 In this episode, the Crude team gets all infectious with a whole show dedicated to STIs. Why can't people be more honest about their STI status? Why do so many people not get tested? Are people in sex-positive scenes more or less trustworthy when it comes to sexually transmitted infections? Elle, Misty, and Frank in Berlin are joined by the evergorge Effie in London to talk about the stig...

CRUDE #6 In this episode, the Crude team talks candidly about the hedonist excesses of s3x-positive lifestyle and how various substances and booze can enhance or even ruin playtime. Misty, Frank, and special guest Visar, are in Berlin, while Effie is back in London. The four chat about their experiences with dr8gs and sex and how this can affect giving or receiving consent. Sober parties and dark...

CRUDE #5 When is a gangbang not a gangbang? We think it all depends on the perspective. Elle, Misty, Effie and Frank give you the lowdown on banging gangs. If this has been a fantasy of yours or if you want to hear how others experience it, join the Crude conversation. Amanda Kerri: (quote in Substackú, Growing up Transgender ): "I had body issues. For me, gang bang porn has a strong element of bo...

CRUDE #4 Half of the Crude team have had their tubes tied or snipped. Which is why we're talking about sterilization today. We'll focus on how understanding agency and bodily autonomy is key to this decision, and not what governments or society thinks about it. Along with special guest Anna, Elle and Effie in London are joined by Frank and Misty in Berlin to talk you through some of the issues, fa...

CRUDE #3 WARNING! You may not want to be eating while listening to parts of this podcast. On this podcast, the Crude team is talking about scat in all its stinky, dirty, and erotic glory. Is this the dirtiest kink or the most intimate? And why is it so funny? Along with the history of poop and some partner fart stories, Elle, Misty, Frank in Berlin, and Effie in London laugh as they wade through t...

CRUDE #2 In this episode, Elle, Misty and Frank in Berlin are joined by Effie in London to explore the topic of consent in s3x-positive contexts and beyond. Does yes always mean yes in the same way no always means no? What kind of situations blur the lines between consent and kinky stuff? Through the muse of their personal experiences, the four discuss how consent has evolved in these scenes over...

CRUDE#1 On our first podcast, the Crude team discusses the topic of "Big dicks and feminism." Can you be a feminist – male or female – and still be ok about liking or not liking big dicks? Does wanting to have sex with men with big aubergines mean you are upholding the patriarchy? Is it a problem if the only sex you like involves you reducing your male partner to the size of his member? This...