Crowned & Cancelled

This week we’re talking to a Shalligator dealing with a perfect-on-paper-life… But a whole bunch of moody malaise. And another chickadee is trying to turn the tide and get out of the booty call category. Is it possible? We’ll break it all down! 💜JOIN THE BOOK CLUB 💜https://www.amazon.com/shop/shallonlester 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review t...

Is there magic in moderation? Is the middle path the key to happiness? This week I’ll help identify the warning signs that a guy is using you as his own emotional getaway car, and how to get things back on track. Plus, will break down what it really means when a guy is sarcastic – is it a sign of gaslighting, or are you just being too sensitive? 💜JOIN THE BOOK CLUB 💜https://www.amazon.com/shop/s...

This week, we’re exploring the life changing power of: I am not afraid to leave. Plus, I’ll break down the classic f*ckboy trajectory and why ICE COLD is the only way to get a guy back! 💜JOIN THE BOOK CLUB 💜https://www.amazon.com/shop/shallonlester 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week https://www.you...

This week, our mantra is: “Do what works for ME.” We’re talking to three chicks struggling to put themselves first and are instead listening to their panic-based “Snooki brain” about everything from blow jobs to broke boys. 💜JOIN THE BOOK CLUB 💜https://www.amazon.com/shop/shallonlester 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜BINGE...

This week, we continue to read from our Shalliterature book club selection, “Why Men Love Bitches” and get tips on how to handle ghosting, how to turn the tables on a guy trying to make you jealous, and why being humble is a very bad idea. Pick up the book at the link below and head to the Shalligator reddit thread to chat about what you’re learning! 💜JOIN THE BOOK CLUB 💜 https://www.amazon.com/...

Last week we kicked off the Shalliterature book club selection, “Why Men Love Bitches” and today I’m reading the first chapter, plus telling a Tinder tale that WMLB helped me navigate in a way I probably wouldn’t have. Pick up the book at the link below and head to the Shalligator reddit thread to chat about what you’re learning! 💜JOIN THE BOOK CLUB 💜 https://www.amazon.com/shop/shallonlester 💜...

It’s time for a new book club selection and what better read than my own personal bible, “Why Men Love Bitches” by Sherry Argov! We’ll also talk to two girls in “Fliratationships” who can’t untangle their emotions.  💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜F...

This week we’re helping a girl who got dumped out of nowhere figure out the best course of action. And, I’m taking you through the highs and lows of stating your standards, setting boundaries, and letting the chips fall where they may! 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user...

This week we’re focusing on doing what’s best for US—not making things easy breezy for everyone else. I’ll help you set boundaries with guilt trippin family, toxic roommates and guys who stop pursuing you! 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW 💜 I...

When will I stop talking about boundaries? When we all have them perfectly under control—A.k.a., never. I’ll help two girls dealing with friends who want too much, and one chickadee that can’t shake a creepy guy! 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLL...

This week we’re tackling just one topic: the lunatics in our lives. If you’re afraid to drop someone because of the potential fall out, I’ll give you a blueprint on exactly how to leave, and a big ol’ peptalk on why you need to! 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallo...

Is it normal for an FWB situation to include dates and endless texts? Is a guy one month post divorce fit to date? Is mom going to lose her mind when I tell her I’m switching careers? I’ll unravel these riddles and more! 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester...

This week, I’ll help a too-flirty chick undo a sticky situation, help another see what her boyfriend means when he says he needs to sow his wild oats, and talk about the perfect time to have sex when you’re dating someone new!  💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallon...

With all of us battling some form of 'Rona related existential dread, I'll talk four Shalloners off the cliffs of insanity, whether they're dealing with their parents' divorce, a fantasy flirtation, the worry that they "owe" their mom a grandchild! 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week https://www.you...

This week, we’ll help two lovelorn Shalloners get over the trauma of losing their virginity to, well, losers, and give advice to another who flirted herself into a corner with a married man...and now has an unhinged wife on her tail!  💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/...

This week two Shalloners find themselves needing to issue major apologies to their boyfriends, but another is demanding an explanation for her man’s female “friend” who can’t keep her trashy hands to herself! 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW...

This week we’re helping Shalloners stuck in lockdown with family situations that are...less than ideal, shall we say. From a literal list of things to change for a suddenly-super religious father, I’ll tell you how to navigate sticky family situations without losing your mind—or all the progress you’ve made on yourself!  💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please ra...

Sanity is unraveling at a rapid pace, and that means parental feuds and snarky roommates. I’ll help you channel your anxiety into something productive, and help two other Shalloners who can’t fathom why guys stick with lackluster rebounds and deadbeat chicks!  💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week htt...

This week I’ll help a Shalloner wanting to knock an ex’s socks off when she sees him post-lockdown, tell another one how to set the pace for online chit-chat with a guy she just started talking to, and help another recognize a predator in her midst!  💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week https://www.y...

Is a heartbroken guy serious about you or just using you as a free therapist? I’ll read the writing on the wall for a confused Shalloner, help another who can’t seem to make friends, and give tall answer to a girl dating a short boy! 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/s...

This episode, we’ll boss up a babe who needs help crushing an uprising, sort out a soul-crushing ghosting, and talk to a guy who’s boytoy isn’t ready to come out of the closet! 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW 💜 Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO  Lear...

This episode, I’ll start by sharing my quarantine mantra to stave off coronavirus, then deal with two young ladies struggling to find their career path, and help another caught in a friends-with-benefits spiral differentiate between eating skittles and salads!  💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜SHOP 💜 My new collection of ho...

This week I’ll help a Shalloner in a tizzy over where to take her creative career, and another who isn’t exactly feeling warm and fuzzy about her new workmates. We’ll also help a doting daughter set up boundaries for her boozy mom, and give a friend with benefits a big dose of reality—whether she likes it or not!  💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and...

What’s worse than being stuck near your ex? Being stuck near your ex while studying abroad in Italy and he’s hooking up with your detested roommate! I’ll tell this molto triste student how to not feel so Veni, Vidi, Vicious, help another trust again after hurt, and help a seething Shalloner sort out her plans for vengeance.  💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 pleas...

It’s easy to tell someone to listen to their gut instinct…but it’s a lot harder to hear it inside of ourselves. I’ll give you actionable clear-cut steps to picking up what your intuition is trying to put down, help another Shalloner fix her friends fractured self-esteem, and lay down the law for one scheming to date a hip-hop star! 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT?...