Creating Her Best Life

We all have dreams—those big, exciting, deep-in-your-soul desires. But if that's true, why do so many of us stay stuck, watching from the sidelines instead of going after what we really want? In this episode, we're getting real about what's actually holding you back (hint: it's probably not what you think). Joining us this episode is BFLY Coach Kelly, who's here to help you uncover the fears, doub...

Ever feel like you're living on autopilot, checking all the right boxes, keeping everyone else happy—but somehow, you're the one running on empty? You're not alone. So many of us get stuck in the cycle of people-pleasing, saying yes when we mean no, and shaping our lives around what others expect instead of what actually makes us happy. But here's the truth: you can't pour from an empty cup. In th...

Ever felt like you're doing something wrong because you're not happy all the time? But what if feeling  all the emotions—good, bad, and everything in between—is actually the whole point? In this episode, I'm unpacking why negative emotions aren't problems to fix but part of the deal. Life is a mix, not a constant high, and that's okay . Let's talk about it. Feeling stuck? Overwhelmed? Ready for mo...

Ever feel like you're just going through the motions—wake up, get things done, repeat—without really feeling present in your own life? That's what I call Robot Mode , and trust me, you're not alone. In this episode, we're talking about why we slip into auto-pilot (spoiler: your nervous system is doing its job, but maybe a little too well). We'll break down the fight, flight, or freeze response and...

Emotions aren't just random waves of chaos trying to ruin your day—they're messengers, trying to tell you something important. But are you actually listening? In this episode, we're diving into the truth about emotions, why we feel them so intensely, and how to stop drowning in what I call "puddle emotions." These are the feelings that keep us stuck, spiraling, or overwhelmed—like guilt, fear, or...

Growth isn't just a trendy concept—it's a fundamental part of becoming who we're meant to be. In this episode of the Creating Your Best Life podcast, I dive into what growth really means, why it matters, and how it shapes the way we navigate life. From the challenges that push us forward to the mindset shifts that make all the difference, I break down the power of growth in a way that's real, rela...

Ever feel like you're running on empty, but life keeps demanding more? Burnout is real, and it doesn't just happen from overworking—it sneaks in when we ignore our own needs, push past our limits, and forget to refill our own cup. I'm breaking down the signs of burnout, why it happens, and the best ways to prevent it before you hit a wall. From setting boundaries to prioritizing rest without guilt...

Life coaching isn't about someone telling you what to do—it's about having a trusted guide who helps you uncover your own answers, break through mental roadblocks, and step into the life you truly want. Think of it like having a personal strategist for your growth, someone who sees your potential even when you don't, and gives you the tools to tap into your own power. Whether you're feeling stuck,...

Your brain is wired to seek out evidence that confirms what you already believe, whether it's "I'm not good enough," "Success isn't for me," or "Mondays are the worst." And guess what? It'll find proof everywhere. But here's the kicker—just because you believe it doesn't mean it's true. This week on Creating Her Best Life Now , we're diving deep into how this sneaky mental habit could be holding y...

Ever feel like you're living the same day over and over again? Like you're stuck in some weird, soul-sucking loop of "meh" and "whatever"? Yeah, we've all been there. Indifference and complacency sneak in like uninvited houseguests, making themselves comfortable while you're too exhausted to kick them out. In this episode, we're getting real about that numbing autopilot mode—why we fall into it, h...

You know those sneaky little thoughts that tell you, "You're not good enough," "You'll never figure it out," or "Who do you think you are?" Yeah, we're calling those out today. In this episode, we're breaking down how to stop letting those limiting beliefs run the show. It's not about magically thinking positive—it's about proving to yourself that those thoughts are flat-out wrong. We'll talk abou...

Life is full of challenges, but not all "hard" is created equal. In this episode of Creating Her Best Life Now , we're redefining what hard truly means and exploring the power of choosing the hard that aligns with your long-term goals and purpose. Do you find yourself stuck in cycles of short-term gratification that leave you feeling unfulfilled? It's time to flip the script. We'll dive into the d...

In this episode, I'm sharing how to begin right where you are, even if you don't have it all figured out. It's about taking the next step, rewriting your story, and understanding how your thoughts shape your beliefs—and ultimately your actions (or lack of them). Let's talk about creating your best life, one bold move at a time.

Welcome to Creating Her Best Life, the podcast where women are empowered to embrace fresh starts and step into their future with confidence. Hosted by a seasoned life coach with five years of experience, this episode dives into reframing fear as fuel for growth and taking small, intentional steps toward big changes in 2025. We'll explore the power of visualization, tackle the challenges of startin...

Over the past five years, this podcast has been such a special space where I've shared my personal experiences with weight loss and the emotional ups and downs of the diet roller coaster. It's been my mission to help women transform their lives, embrace their bodies, and live their best lives—and it's been one of the greatest gifts of my life. In this episode, I reflect on the incredible successes...

It's time to stop waiting and start living boldly! In this episode, we're diving into what it means to embrace your one big, beautiful, bold life—unapologetically. No more waiting for "someday." Today is the day to step into your best self and live with purpose, passion, and courage. Whether it's taking that first scary step, owning your story, or simply giving yourself permission to dream bigger,...

Let's talk about managing holiday overwhelm and making this season truly special without all the pressure. You don't need a perfect holiday to have a wonderful one. Set realistic expectations, simplify where you can, and remember to take care of yourself through it all. Focus on what really matters—time with family, making memories, and finding joy in the simple moments. Let's make this holiday se...

People-pleasing might feel like keeping the peace, but it can quietly drain our energy, time, and self-worth. This episode dives into the roots of people-pleasing, why we crave approval, and the hidden toll it takes on our well-being. Discover practical steps to set healthy boundaries, nurture self-respect, and reclaim your energy for what truly matters. Tune in and learn how to break free from th...

Comparison has a sneaky way of robbing us of joy, making us feel like we're always falling short. It's easy to get caught up in what others are doing, but that mindset keeps us stuck and unfulfilled. By shifting our focus to our own progress and celebrating our personal milestones, we can reclaim our happiness. Life becomes richer when we stop measuring ourselves against others and embrace our uni...

  In this episode, I dive into the often-overlooked aspect of weight loss: dealing with disappointment. We'll explore the emotional challenges that can arise when progress feels slow or when goals aren't met as planned. You'll learn practical strategies for managing these feelings, reframing setbacks, and staying motivated on your journey. Whether you're facing a plateau, feeling frustrated, or si...

The real change happens in our mindset and emotional life.  If you want off the diet roller coaster part of the work is shifting your weight identity. This identity is strong and can lead you to sabotage your results.  Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/250 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Relationships are foundational to our lives.  They matter and can also cause a lot of stress. You may have been taught that if the other person changes then the relationship will get better. In this episode Coach Jenn and I discuss how to have better relationships and it is not what you think.    Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/249 Follow me on Instagram: @shanna...

Relationships are the foundation of our lives including the one with yourself.  Do you have a lot of negative self talk, trouble reaching your goals, finding that you feel a lot of doubt and worry, then you want to listen to this episode.   Learning how to develop and nurture the relationship with yourself is the beginning of living a life you love.  You deserve it, you deserve everything you desi...

Is stress why you are struggling losing and maintaining your weight loss?  In this episode, Coach Jenn & I talk about stress and what to do about it so you can get off the diet and mental roller coaster.  Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/247 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen

Dopamine is a powerful part of the diet roller coaster.  In this episode, Coach Jenn and I talk through how it is hurting your weight loss success.  You will get tips on what to do.  Get more information and show notes here: https://bflycoaching.com/246 Follow me on Instagram: @shannanchristiansen