Create The Best Me

Taking care of your aging parents can feel overwhelming, but why caring for aging parents doesn’t have to suck the life out of you is at the heart of this week’s Create the Best Me episode. I’m joined by Howard Miller, a bestselling author and seasoned caregiver who has navigated the path of balancing work, family, and the growing needs of elderly parents, all while finding moments of laughter and...

In “5 Signs You’re Not Living in the Present,” I explore the everyday habits and thought patterns that keep so many of us stuck in autopilot constantly multitasking, fixated on regrets, or worrying about the future. If you feel like your days are passing in a blur or the happiest moments slip by unnoticed, this episode is for you. I break down the five biggest indicators that you’re not living in...

What does starting over after divorce truly look like, especially when you’re navigating midlife, menopause, and a world that says your best days are behind you? Today, I sit down with artist, yogi, and author Chrystal Rae for an honest conversation about picking up the pieces, finding love again (for yourself and others), and embracing every new beginning. In Starting Over After Divorce (What YOU...

Is it possible to master a career change after 50, even if you haven’t touched your resume or LinkedIn in years? In this week’s episode, I sit down with executive career coach Lorraine Rise to explore exactly that. It’s a conversation designed for anyone who feels stuck or irrelevant in midlife but still wants work that lights them up. “How Successful People Master Career Changes After 50” feature...

Have you ever stared at the ceiling, dreading another day at a job that just isn’t working for you anymore? You’re not alone! In this week’s episode, “How to Successfully Change Careers After 40 (Even If You're Scared),” we’re diving deep into what it really takes to break free from a career that’s lost its spark, especially when you’re in midlife. I sat down with business strategist (and for...

Have you ever wondered why saying “no” can feel so uncomfortable, or why enforcing boundaries sometimes makes you feel like the bad guy? In this episode, we’re digging into “How to Say No Without Feeling Bad.” I sit down with emotional resilience coach, retreat leader, and author Jen Febel to uncover why people pleasing is so common, why “being nice” isn’t always so nice, and, most importantly, ho...

Are you tired of feeling shackled by student loans, credit card debt, or the endless cycle of living paycheck to paycheck? In this episode, I dive deep with U.S Army Veteran, financial coach, fintech manager, and opera singer Veronica Deraleau to reveal real-world strategies to crush debt and stop living paycheck to paycheck, no matter your starting point. Veronica’s story is proof that massive ch...

Are you ready to go beyond your inner critic? In “How to Listen to Your Intuition and Trust Yourself,” I sit down with executive coach and author Jules Kuroda to explore the often-misunderstood voice of intuition and the powerful journey back to the deeper self, Jules calls your “N8 Self.” If you’ve ever wondered whether there’s more to life than your daily routine, felt uncertain after a big tran...

Ever find yourself thinking, “Isn’t midlife supposed to be more fun?” You’re not alone, and that’s exactly why today’s episode, “How You Reclaim Pleasure in Midlife,” is such an important listen. I’m joined by the fabulous “pleasure queen,” Natty Frasca, a coach for midlife women dedicated to helping us rekindle joy, purpose, and playfulness as we navigate this pivotal chapter of life. In this con...

Are you still believing menopause means the end of vibrancy or that hormone therapy is just too risky? In "Menopause Myths Busted: The Truth About Hormones," I sit down with renowned hormone expert Dr. Prudence Hall, who has over 40 years of experience, to unravel everything you thought you knew about menopause, hormones, and aging. This episode digs deep into menopause myths, the truth...

The Hidden Effects of Unresolved Sexual Trauma is something most people hope never to face, yet countless survivors find that trauma they thought was buried resurfaces in unexpected, and often disruptive, ways. In this episode, I sit down with somatic psychotherapist and author Erika Shershun, who specializes in helping survivors understand and heal from the hidden effects of unresolved sexual tra...

Are you feeling lost in midlife, wondering, “Now what?” In “Not Stuck—Growing: Find YOUR Midlife Purpose,” I explore what happens when old milestones no longer bring fulfillment and why that sense of restlessness isn’t failure; it’s a powerful call to grow. If you’ve ever felt like you’re stuck after 50, I want to show you how this can be the start of your most meaningful chapter yet.  In “Not Stu...

In this episode, I dive into a topic we rarely talk about but need to—hidden mold and mycotoxins in our homes—with special guest Seth Jones. Once a globe-trotting DJ and music producer, Seth’s own encounter with building-related illness led him to found Superstratum and dedicate his life to protecting people from the invisible (and often misunderstood) dangers lurking in “perfect” homes. Together,...

Have you ever promised yourself that change would start “tomorrow”—whether that’s working out, tackling spring cleaning, or finally building a good habit? In “Transform Your Life Today: Small Steps, Big Results,” I’m sharing my proven, step-by-step approach to stop procrastinating and create the transformation you deserve—starting right now. This episode is all about making change simple, sustaina...

On this week’s episode, I’m joined by the inspiring Rhiah Kujat—environmentalist, actor, trauma therapist, and the author behind Life’s Poetic Glossary . Our conversation is all about how to “Free Yourself from Family Patterns & Embrace Sacred Intimacy.” We dig into the roots of family and cultural conditioning that shape who we think we’re supposed to be and discover why the most sacred act o...

Ever felt stuck right on the edge of a big change—whether it’s a new career, a dream adventure, or chasing something you’ve always wanted, but just couldn’t move forward? In this episode of Create The Best Me , I, Carmen Hecox, get real about the hidden reasons we hold ourselves back and the simple truths that can finally set us free. I share my own story of hitting a life-altering setback while w...

In this episode, I chat with Dr. Lenka Schulze to explore the transformative power of intuition during midlife changes. We delve into understanding intuition as the language of our soul and how it reignites in midlife. Dr. Schulze highlights the cosmic influences we encounter around age 50, like Saturn’s return and Chiron’s return, and how these astrological events can cue significant personal ref...

In this episode, I'm thrilled to sit down with Jennifer Robin Wilson—a leadership coach, business consultant, and former CEO—to uncover her unique journey to overcoming burnout. While many might dream of a long vacation as a remedy, Jennifer shares why that wasn't her solution and offers insight into a path you might not have considered. Whether you're a woman in midlife contemplati...

What drives someone to transform their darkest moments into a beacon of hope for others? In this enlightening episode of "Create The Best Me," I, Carmen Hecox, sit down with the inspiring Judy Henderson. After spending thirty-six years in prison for a crime she didn't commit, Judy emerged not only free but also determined to champion the battered women's syndrome defense. Her n...

Join me and Neelam Kaur as we dive into the world of makeup artistry with tips and tricks that can transform your beauty routine. It's all about glowing skin, expertly selected shades, and making you feel fabulous. We’re cutting through the clutter and tackling common beauty challenges with easy solutions. Ever struggled with raccoon eyes or cakey concealer? Neelam’s got you covered. And if y...

In this episode, Carin Luna-Ostaseski takes us through her inspiring story of identifying a gap in support and resources for women experiencing perimenopause and menopause. We discuss natural strategies and products that have helped Carin and many others to ease symptoms and embrace this life stage. From cooling wearable fans to mindful meditation practices, we cover practical advice to help you c...

Join me as I share a personal and emotional account of losing our beloved family pet, Foxy. I'll walk you through the journey from her vibrant life to the endearing bond she shared with my daughter, Jasmine, and her transition alongside my father's memory. This episode acknowledges the profound impact of losing a pet and offers solace to those who have experienced or are experiencing sim...

Join us as Evalee Gertz shares her journey from the competitive world of dance to creating a product that truly makes a difference. We'll explore the life-changing benefits of quality sleep and how a silk sleep mask can elevate your nighttime routine, improve recovery, regulate hormones, and help you wake up feeling truly refreshed. Whether you're a light sleeper, a chronic migraine suff...

In this episode, I explore the intricate world of menopausal depression. We'll discuss the physiological changes, the psychological impacts, and the proactive steps one can take to regain control. By sharing personal anecdotes and referencing the wisdom shared by previous guests like Jennifer Hill and Dr. Val Cacho, I aim to equip you with tools to better manage and understand your experience...

Have you ever been on the go, hustling hard day after day, only to find yourself stuck at the same professional ceiling? In this conversation with Amy Kemp, we explore the impact of subconscious habits on our success and well-being, especially for women in midlife. We discuss why traditional hustling may not always be the answer and how embracing rest can open new doors. Tune in to discover innova...