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In this episode, we discuss disorganized attachment - what it is, what it feels like, how it affects a person's relationships, and how to heal.  Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign  Explore the Temple: Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, rituals, and inspiration to support your journey Free Challe...

In this episode, we discuss avoidantly attached people and who they date- the avoidant/anxious pairing and the avoidant/avoidant pairing. We discuss why avoidants choose insecurely attached partners and how both avoidants and anxious partners can heal.  Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign  Explore th...

In this episode, we discuss what happens when we aren't only grateful for the good things that happen to us in our lives, but also the challenging times. The obstacles. The frustrations and difficulties. We discuss what happens when we begin to see obstacles as opportunities, and how it transforms our capacity to accept, love and be grateful for our self-healing journey.  Welcome to Create Lo...

In this episode, we discuss the abandonment wound - where it comes from, it's connection to attaching insecurely as children, it's effect on our adult relationships, and how to heal.  Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign  Explore the Temple: Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, rituals, and ins...

In this episode we discuss people with avoidant attachment in relationships and their need for space in intimate relationships, their self-doubts and negative thinking, and the reason why they avoid conversations that lead to deeper bonding and intimacy with their partner.  Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising...

In this episode, we discuss becoming hyper-independent as a defense mechanism due to negative experiences in childhood and as adults. We discuss how to heal from hyper-independence and how to support someone who is.  Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign  Explore the Temple: Website & Pinterest — W...

In this episode, we discuss the fantasy bonds we can create in childhood and transfer into or adult romantic relationships. We also discuss how a critical inner voice can be part of our fantasy bonding.  Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign  Explore the Temple: Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, ritual...

In this episode, we continue or discussion on people with avoidant attachment in relationships by discussing the avoidant's difficulty responding to their partners signals for reassurance and why this is so critical in healthy, secure relationships. We also discuss the deactivating strategies an avoidant will use to push their partner away and why avoidants feel the need to use these deactiva...

In this episode, we discuss Machiavellianism personality trait - the colleagues who are cunning, manipulative, and are driven to use whatever means necessary to gain power and success in the workplace.  Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign  Explore the Temple: Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, rituals...

In this episode, we discuss the differences and similarities between someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). There are several common characteristics of both maladaptive behavioral patterns that come from different root causes.  Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing...

In this episode, we discuss avoidants in relationships and their push-pull behaviors, their difficulty committing in relationships, and their need for secrecy in relationships to protect themselves.  Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign  Explore the Temple: Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, rituals, a...

In this episode we discuss the connection between our patterns of self-sabotage and our mother wound.  Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign  Explore the Temple: Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, rituals, and inspiration to support your journey Free Challenges — [Ignite Your Feminine 30-Day Challenge]...

In this episode we discuss defense mechanisms - why we developed them, why we use them, several common defense mechanisms, and how to heal.  Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign  Explore the Temple: Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, rituals, and inspiration to support your journey Free Challenges — [I...

In this episode, we discuss people with avoidant attachment in relationships and seek to understand the avoidant's need for disconnection and their behaviors of non-reciprocity. Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign  Explore the Temple: Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, rituals, and inspiration to...

In this episode, we discuss the myth of Psyche & Eros, and what women can learn from Psyched about a woman's quest for love and personal power in a male-dominated society.  We look at the relationship of Psyche and Eros and the four tasks Aphrodite gives to Psyche which leads her on a journey that gives her abilities that she uses in relationships and the world that she did not previously...

In this episode, we discuss the difference between soul mate relationships and trauma bonded relationships. We also discuss the signs of trauma bonding in relationships.  Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign  Explore the Temple: Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, rituals, and inspiration to support you...

In this episode we discuss avoidant attachment and who they date. We discuss avoidants pairing with other insecurely attached partners, avoidant partners with securely attached partners, and the limitations of partner choice.  Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign  Explore the Temple: Website & Pin...

In this episode we discuss why women mother their men and why certain men allow it.  Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign  Explore the Temple: Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, rituals, and inspiration to support your journey Free Challenges — [Ignite Your Feminine 30-Day Challenge] + [ Unleash Your D...

In this episode we discuss how emotional vampire's effect empaths and highly sensitive people, and what to do if you have an emotional vampire in your life.  Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign  Explore the Temple: Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, rituals, and inspiration to support your journe...

In this episode, we discuss avoidant attachment and dating, specifically an avoidant's proclivity towards creating unhealthy stories in their relationships around the phantom ex and the perfect partner.  Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign  Explore the Temple: Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, r...

In this episode we discuss power dynamics in intimate relationships, the importance of letting you partner influence you in order to create a healthy relationship dynamic, signs of an unhealthy power dynamic, and how to manage power dynamics in your relationships.  Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign...

In this episode, we discuss how trauma impacts our relationships - with our intimate partners, our families, our children, our friends, and our work relationships. We discuss the four types of trauma responses and how to handle our past trauma in our current relationships.  Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising...

In this episode, we discuss the connection and effect of attachment style on your sex life. We dive into each attachment style and how to create more sexual satisfaction through healing old wounds and trauma.  Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign  Explore the Temple: Website & Pinterest — Wisdom,...

In this episode, we discuss avoidant attachment and its connection to narcissism. We also discuss how the avoidant/narcissist behavior affects your relationship.  Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign  Explore the Temple: Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, rituals, and inspiration to support your journe...

In this episode, we discuss what to expect from a borderline parent, effects of being raised by a parent with BPD - early childhood, adolescents and young adulthood, and how to heal from a borderline parent.  Welcome to Create Love Freedom — A living temple for women reclaiming their feminine essence, healing old wounds, and rising sovereign  Explore the Temple: Website & Pinterest — Wisdom, r...