Crazy Love or Nothing Podcast

One of my clients thought she asked a guy "Do you want kids?" but actually sent "Do you want me to have your kids?" 💀 I'm dying. She was ready to write him off thinking they weren't aligned... but it was just a typo that almost ruined everything. My Point PROOFREAD YOUR MESSAGES. The universe wants to help you find your person, but you've got to show up present and...

You're staring at your phone after another mediocre date, wondering why you feel more empty than excited. Here's what I realized after helping 85+ women find their forever person: We've been doing this whole dating thing backwards. Stop Leading with Your Body. Start Leading with Your Heart. Physical chemistry cannot be forced. It takes time. Emotional connection? That's where the r...

This episode is all about how alcohol is quietly sabotaging your path to C.R.A.Z.Y. love - and you don't even realize it's happening. You're missing your person because you're not present enough to recognize him. That's it. That's the episode. Every time you show up tipsy to a date, you're essentially putting a "closed for business" sign on your heart. Your future husband could be sitting right ac...

My client got stood up after a week and a half of deep connection. If this has happened to you, listen up. Do NOT make it mean anything about you. Stop spiraling into "What's wrong with me? Am I not pretty enough?" My client is an incredible light. She's so lovable. She didn't do anything wrong. When someone doesn't show up, it's a revelation— they weren't aligned to you. This person is not your p...

Today we're diving deep into something that's keeping SO many of you stuck in dating purgatory. And I'm going to be real with you because you have no time to waste. Listen, I get it. That person you loved? They had their moments. But here's what I need you to understand... Those breadcrumbs you're still tasting? They're not a Michelin nine-course meal that you deserve. I se...

If you're spiraling at 2 AM wondering if you've missed your shot at love, this episode will slap you back to reality. I'm addressing the question that haunts women at every age - from 29 to 50 and beyond.  Spoiler: It's not about your age, it's about your mindset. Your negative beliefs are blocking your soulmate, and I'm showing you exactly how to get out of your own damn w...

Look, I've watched relationships crash and burn because of this one thing nobody talks about with love languages. Don't ask "What's your love language?" on dating apps. Most people don't even know what that means. Instead, ask: "How do you show up in a relationship?" You'll get way more authentic answers. Here's where most women mess up – they expect the...

This weekend at Imagine Dragons with Will - watching him fist pump with pure joy, carrying his nephew, completely lost in the music... I fell in love all over again after 17 years. On our first date, I asked Will about music. If he'd said "I'm not into it," that would've been a BYE-BYE moment. Music is my soul. He lit up talking about concerts, especially Smashing Pumpkins (w...

Your dating profile is sabotaging your love life, and I'm about to call you out with some tough love. After helping 36 women find their forever person (literally half online, half in real life), I know exactly what's keeping you invisible on the apps. In This Episode, I Reveal: ✨ Quick Fix #1: Why your photos are giving zero energy (and the one thing that changes everything) 🎯 Quick Fix...

Welcome back to Crazy Love or Nothing! Today my husband, Will, joined the podcast to celebrate our 18 year anniversary since the day he proposed! We dive into why he proposed on our 6-month anniversary and how you can know that quickly if someone is your forever person. What We're Covering 🔥 Alignment is Non-Negotiable - Stop explaining yourself to the wrong person 💭 Deep Conversations = Dee...

Picture this: You're scrolling through dating apps, and you see someone who makes your heart skip a beat. But then you notice it—they live 500 miles away. Or they mention a recent breakup. Or their faith is different from yours. Your brain immediately screams "RED FLAG!" and you swipe left faster than you can say "next." But what if I told you that some of these so-called r...

You're talking to someone who seems promising, but something feels surface level. Here's what changes everything: The quality of your questions determines the quality of your love life. Ask them: "What did you learn about yourself from your last relationship?" This isn't small talk. This is your emotional intelligence detector. It reveals emotional availability instantly. Can...

You're scrolling at 11 PM wondering why another guy just said he's "not ready for anything serious." This isn't bad luck. This is a pattern. You're unconsciously choosing men who feel familiar - the ones who keep you anxious and guessing. Your subconscious is picking the same emotionally unavailable type over and over. Stop making excuses for mixed signals. That 2 AM text...

You're not single because you're picky. You're single because you're not emotionally available. I've seen this pattern over and over - we choose unavailable guys because it's SAFE. No risk of getting our hearts crushed. But when a secure man shows up? Suddenly he's "not good enough" because being with someone who could actually see all of you is terrifying. Th...

If you don't have this, you won't find your forever person. Period. UNWAVERING FAITH. Faith that your person actually exists. Stop right now. Ask yourself: Do I truly believe my person is out there? If you hesitated... we need to talk. Without faith, you'll settle for scraps. The guy who doesn't text back. The one who's "not ready for commitment." The one who makes yo...

Scrolling through Instagram and seeing another engagement ring while you're eating takeout alone? Yeah, that stings. Anyone who tells you it shouldn't is lying. But here's the twist: You can be genuinely happy for someone AND still feel that pang of "when is it my turn?" What You'll Learn in This Episode: The difference between jealousy and envy (and why it matters for yo...

Picture this... You wake up in the morning and despite knowing you shouldn't, you grab your phone to see if he's texted you. You feel anxious wondering why he hasn't responded since last night. Sound familiar? Today we're diving into why that phone-checking habit is actually a red flag—and what it reveals about how you're showing up in your love life. Key Takeaways: Your Anxiet...

The Hard Truth Nobody Wants to Hear If you're not attracting quality people, look in the mirror first. I'll never forget looking around a crowded bar and realizing: These are not my people. The energy felt off. Everyone was performing instead of being real. That's when it hit me—I was going to places that didn't align with who I was becoming. How could I expect to meet someone alig...

Listen, I need to tell you something... Right before I met my husband Will, I was stuck in a cycle of soul-draining situationships. The red flags I'm sharing in today's episode? They're STILL showing up for my clients today. This episode will save you months of wasted energy on men who were never going to choose you anyway. What You'll Learn: 🚩 The social media red flag that screa...

In this episode, my client Yoi openly and vulnerably shares her journey from dating disaster to dream relationship. Yoi was so frustrated and exhausted with dating before we worked together. Completely over situationships that went nowhere. Questioning her worth with every unanswered text. Sound familiar? The transformation wasn't easy, but it was powerful: She faced uncomfortable truths about her...

I’m diving into that pit-in-your-stomach feeling when he hasn't texted back. You know the one - where you wake up, grab your phone, and immediately spiral into overthinking every message, every pause, every emoji. Here's the truth: If you feel anxious about dating, you're not alone. But more importantly, you don't have to stay stuck in that exhausting cycle. Key Takeaways That'...

Listen up, ladies. We need to have a real conversation about your love life. I'm watching too many incredible women spiral about finding their forever person - and it's time to flip the script. What if I told you finding your person was INEVITABLE? I want you to really open your mind up in this episode and feel that shift in your bones. Because when you operate from this place of unwaverin...

In this episode, I pull back the curtain on how to become a dating ninja and stop wasting your precious time on men who aren't your forever person. Let's be real – most women are giving way too much of their energy to the wrong men, and it's time we change that narrative. Let‘s keep shit real: Your time is the most valuable asset you have. Yet I see brilliant, successful women giving h...

Picture this... You're crushing it in your career, but your dating life? Total disaster zone. Your intelligence has zero correlation with attracting the right partner. Dating isn't about logic – it's about energy, conviction, and soul-level worth. When rejections chip away at your hope, you start believing maybe you're not enough. This is the biggest lie you're telling yourself...

I just dropped some serious truth bombs about why you're still single. Let me ask you this... Why do you keep swiping right on the same emotionally unavailable men who don't deserve your time? Why do those situationships keep happening? It's your dating personality calling the shots, and I'm here to shake you awake. In today's episode, I shared how Dr. Joe Dispenza's teachi...