Crazy Love or Nothing Podcast

I need you to hear this: Going on more dates is NOT the answer. I know everyone's telling you 2026 is your year and to put yourself out there more. But that advice? It's setting you up for failure. In this episode, I'm giving you the tough love wake-up call you need.  More apps, more swiping, more dates with random dudes who ghost you — that's a fast track to burnout, not to your f...

My husband showed up six weeks after I got crystal clear on exactly what I wanted. That wasn't luck. That was intention. In this episode, I'm walking you through the exact practice that changed everything for me—and sharing proof that this actually works. In this episode: •  How I used my vision board as a compass to find Will •  Why dreaming bigger than just love matters •  The simple ste...

That man who disappears the moment things get real? He's not a coincidence. He's a pattern. And I lived it too. Before my husband—18 years and counting—I was stuck in the same cycle. Chasing men who pulled away. Wondering if I was enough. And here's what I had to learn the hard way: the emotionally unavailable man feels familiar because he matches the energy of what we once thought lov...

It's Christmas week, and I'm coming to you live from Madrid with snow falling outside my window and magic in the air. But I know the holidays can hit different when you're single—or stuck in a relationship that's draining the life out of you. This episode is a heart-to-heart about reconnecting with your faith, refusing to settle for situationships that go nowhere, and why RIGHT NOW...

Today is special, you guys. It's my 18th wedding anniversary with the man who made it past the first hour on a date with me. The only one. My Teddy Bear, Will, is here — and he's sharing what was going on in his head when we met, fell in love, and built this life together. If you've ever wondered what a high-quality man is actually thinking when he meets the right woman... you need to...

In this episode, I bring my twin sister Caro onto the podcast for a raw, unfiltered conversation about what happens when a first date feels incredible... and then crickets. Caro has been single and dating in Madrid for six months, navigating everything from catfishing situations to speed dating events to a guy who quoted Michael Jordan to justify potential future cheating. Yes, you read that right...

Ever had an amazing first date that went absolutely nowhere? You're asking the right questions, feeling the connection, thinking this is it —and then... crickets. No call. No text. No second date. If this pattern sounds painfully familiar, this episode is your wake-up call. I'm breaking down exactly why this happens and—more importantly—how to stop letting it derail you. What I Cover in Th...

I just binged All Her Fault on Peacock and we need to talk about the twisted message this show is selling women about marriage, careers, and what's actually possible in relationships. Spoiler alert ahead. Marissa: successful career woman, beautiful family, five-year-old son. When her son gets kidnapped, the narrative screams it's all her fault because she dared to have a career instead of...

Here's something you might not want to hear, but I'm saying it anyway: Age is not why you haven't found love. I've worked with women from 29 to 64. I've watched them find their forever person at 35, at 50, at 61. And you know what the difference is between the ones who find love and the ones who stay stuck? It's not their age. It's their willingness to look inward and t...

You've been warned about catfishing. But have you heard of chatfishing? Picture this: You've been messaging someone for weeks. They're witty. Vulnerable. Thoughtful. Every text feels like a breath of fresh air. Then you meet them in person. And suddenly… crickets . Where the hell is the person you've been talking to? Here's the truth bomb: You've been chatting with ChatGPT, not them. Every. Single...

You know what? I used to think long distance relationships were a total dealbreaker. But one of my clients is thriving in a long-distance love story, and it's completely shifted my perspective. Long distance isn't actually the problem. When I think about my husband Will (17 years of marriage), I realize that if we'd had to do long distance when we first started dating, it wouldn't have mattered. W...

Buckle up, because we're diving deep into the messy, beautiful chaos that is Love is Blind Season 9. If you've been watching this season, you know the drama has been chef's kiss levels of instructive. I'm talking about the kind of relationship patterns that make you simultaneously cringe and learn something profound about yourself. The Patterns We're Seeing (And Why They Matter...

I just watched the latest episodes of Love is Blind Season 9, and holy hell—these couples are giving us a masterclass in what NOT to do when you're trying to build forever love. Let me break down what's really happening here, because these patterns? They're the same ones keeping you stuck in situationships and heartbreak cycles. Annie & Nick: When Your Worth Gets Negotiated Annie g...

Let me get straight to if- If you're watching this season feeling that same pit in your stomach about certain couples? Your intuition is screaming at you for a reason. In this episode, I'm breaking down the latest Love is Blind drama—but not just for entertainment. I'm digging into what these relationship dynamics reveal about trust, communication, and why choosing a secure partner is...

Love is Blind Season 9 is giving us ALL the drama—and as someone who's helped hundreds of women find their forever person, I have THOUGHTS. In this episode, I'm breaking down the couples, the red flags, and the relationship patterns that are playing out in the pods. Some of these connections? They're giving me hope. Others? I'm literally screaming at my screen. Here's the truth...

I just watched "The Materialist" and I have some thoughts. This movie's message about dating and having standards? Let's just say I completely disagree with their approach. The film revolves around a matchmaker trying to help her client find a person who fits their "list" of qualities they have for their ideal partner. But after watching it and seeing how it all plays o...

Love is Blind UK just served up the most honest mirror of modern dating we've seen in years. And what it's reflecting back isn't pretty—but it's exactly what we need to see. I'm breaking down the raw, unfiltered lessons from Love is Blind UK that expose the exact patterns keeping you stuck in situationships and settling for men who can't even spell "commitment."...

You know that feeling when he goes radio silent but keeps watching every single one of your Instagram stories? Before you write him off as an emotionally unavailable man-child, let me hit you with some dating advice that might sting a little. Here's what I've discovered coaching dozens of women in modern dating: Sometimes it's not him being an asshole—it's you not being clear about...

You're lying in bed at 2 AM, staring at your phone, wondering if this time he'll finally be ready to commit. Your heart is doing that familiar dance between hope and exhaustion. Here's what most dating coaches won't tell you—sometimes waiting IS the right move. But only if you know the difference between a man who needs time and a man who's feeding you breadcrumbs. The Breadcru...

Ever wonder what it actually looks like when someone finds their person using a proven dating method? In this intimate conversation, I sit down with my husband Will to share the real story of how we met 19 years ago today and what made our connection different from every other dating experience I'd had. This isn't your typical "how we met" story. This is a masterclass in intentio...

In today's episode, I'm calling out the "damsel in distress" pattern that's keeping successful women trapped in cycles of settling for less than they deserve in love. What We're Covering: 👉 The Damsel Trap: You're crushing it professionally, but the moment you're around a man you like, you shrink. This helpless energy repels the quality men you actually want to a...

Here's what I know after 17 years of marriage and helping 85 women find their forever person: Your intuition is never wrong. Never. But we've been conditioned to ignore it, doubt it, and seek validation everywhere except from the one source that actually matters - ourselves. You know that feeling when you're on date three with someone who looks perfect on paper? He checks all the boxes...

Listen up. If you're feeling burnt out from the dating apps, that's completely normal. Maybe it's time for a refreshing break. You've been swiping, crafting messages, analyzing responses - and honestly? Your energy deserves better right now. Here's what I know: The man meant for you isn't hiding behind another swipe. 17 years ago, I met Will not because I was hunting, but b...

Today we're diving into something that's been blowing up my DMs lately - using AI in your dating life.  Listen, I know some of you are side-eyeing this topic already. But before you write me off, hear me out. The world is changing, and pretending AI doesn't exist in our dating landscape is like pretending the internet never happened. Here's what we're covering today: Why your w...

I'm calling out the most ridiculous dating advice that's keeping you stuck. If you're anxiously attached and exhausted from juggling multiple "maybes," this is your wake-up call. What We're Covering: Why dating multiple people when you're anxiously attached drains your energy How to date with razor-sharp intention instead of scattered focus The magic of full commitmen...