crashed out lydia

still here….still single. 18.03.2026 12:15 ↓

#dating #singleaf

taking a mini break! 05.01.2026 9:04 ↓

Sometimes a break is needed, not from dick tho.

little psa for yall 20.11.2025 14:55 ↓

some tips cuz yall rly need it. how are you bad at dating or being a guy in general…..

you’re never too busy. 20.11.2025 10:59 ↓

come to terms that you’re not a priority because nobody is that busy especially when it comes to dating.

You don’t owe them anything. 20.11.2025 7:41 ↓

just some thoughts 😂

We love a tipsy Lydia 09.10.2025 5:19 ↓

Kissing a stranger in NYC.

Are older men better? 👀 30.09.2025 7:26 ↓

I mean they’re decisive and I need that in my life. Am I in my silverfox era?

Timing can’t stop desire. 22.09.2025 11:52 ↓

Seven years later, one swipe, and all the sparks are still there. I finally get in his pants, and the vibes? Unmatched. Join me as I spill the tea on timing, desire, and giving into what you’ve wanted all along.

Good vibes only. 15.09.2025 11:15 ↓

Lydia cracks open her Spreadsheet of Men — yes, an actual spreadsheet — to talk hookups, first impressions, and who made the cut for a second round. Shallow? Maybe. Entertaining? Absolutely.

is it ghosting? 10.09.2025 11:55 ↓

for real, what’s ghosting……

situationship is a no go 10.09.2025 12:50 ↓

it’s definitely not worth it lol

baby hungry? maybe, baby. 02.09.2025 3:55 ↓

lmao

Dating can be fun. 29.08.2025 9:26 ↓

I mean i’m fine with you moving in the next day 🤷‍♂️

UPDATE ON LIFE 8/9 13.08.2025 12:57 ↓

yes i’m insane but cute!

don’t do it 23.07.2025 6:49 ↓

An ex is never worth it unless 👀

UPDATE ON LIFE 7/11 11.07.2025 7:27 ↓

From being sore to working 25/7, def worth it.

single dads > 04.07.2025 22:00 ↓

single dads can get it, the unexpected ways fatherhood turns me on, and why emotional availability might just be the new foreplay LOLLLLLLL.

Be a good kisser. 27.06.2025 8:57 ↓

people realize that dating doesn’t have to be sexual right?

pet peeve #2 21.06.2025 4:02 ↓

reading is fundamental

let’s chill with a 21 questions. 20.06.2025 7:41 ↓

dating should be fun!

pet peeve #1 15.06.2025 2:10 ↓

a pet peeve of mine. be patient when communicating especially over text.

she cums first 14.06.2025 10:16 ↓

Is it dating? Is it just a hookup? Or is it something in between? as long as she cums first, it doesn’t matter.

you hosting? or nah… 09.06.2025 3:08 ↓

You don’t need the perfect space or the perfect plan. You just need to be open. People remember how they felt not that cum stain on your sheets..

Compliment me? Watch me melt. 08.06.2025 1:48 ↓

Nothing makes me softer than being adored without being objectified.

He was a good vibe. 06.06.2025 14:58 ↓

Finally met after months of multiple matches and short DMs, he was a whole ass adult and better in person soft eyes, calm energy, and a kiss that made me forget I was ever nervous. Real. Real good. This one's for the soft, surprising sparks that don’t need a future to feel complete. The vibes were right.