Cover Your Assets – A Divorce & Money Podcast

Divorce often comes with a lot of questions, but one of the biggest is: “What happens next?" In Part 1 of our new series, I’m Divorced…Now What?, we’re talking about rebuilding your career after divorce with financial and career coach Maureen Paley. From returning to the workforce and increasing your income to rediscovering your confidence and finding your next chapter, Maureen shares practic...

💸 Where did the money go? In this episode of Cover Your Assets, we're talking about dissipation (aka marital waste)—when marital money is spent, transferred, hidden, or used in ways that don't benefit the marriage. From affairs and "loans" to family, to gambling, hidden debt, and creative business tactics, we're breaking down some of the biggest financial red flags that c...

Season 3 is officially here 🎙️ The Cover Your Assets crew is back! Jade and Jo return for another season of real conversations around divorce, finances, life transitions, and everything in between — and this season, we’re adding a new voice to the mix. In this intro episode, we welcome our newest co-host and newest CDFA® to the team as she shares a little about her background, what brought her int...

Divorce can feel like an ending, but Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Sarah Frontiera helps us reframe it as a beginning—one filled with growth, clarity, and deeper self-understanding. In this episode, Sarah shares how healing happens not by avoiding pain, but by moving through it with intention. We talk about how exploring past patterns can create lasting change, why building support system...

In this emotional episode, three adults reflect on what it was really like to watch their parents' marriages fall apart as children—and how those early experiences still shape them today. From Lesa becoming a stand-in parent at age 12, to Jo escaping a violent home at four, to Donna leaving behind her life in the Philippines, their stories reveal the silent impact divorce has on kids. What hu...

Dividing assets in a divorce might seem fair on the surface, but taxes can quietly tip the scales. In this episode, we share why a Roth IRA is not the same as a 401(k), and why keeping the house might come with hidden costs later. We also break down child-related tax benefits, how to avoid penalties when splitting retirement accounts, and why your divorce decree needs to get specific. If you are n...

Divorce is hard enough, but when domestic violence is involved, the stakes become life-altering. In this episode, licensed psychotherapist Stephanie Seal breaks down what non-physical abuse really looks like and how the cycle of control, gaslighting, and isolation keeps victims stuck. She shares essential tools for creating a safe exit strategy, from documenting abuse to planning a secure separati...

Family law attorney Ksenya Kogan doesn’t sugarcoat the realities of divorce litigation, especially when domestic violence is part of the picture. In this episode, she shares what really happens in family court, how well-meaning laws can be misused, and why finding the right attorney makes all the difference. We talk about the high emotional and financial costs of domestic violence allegations, how...

Divorce can be emotionally brutal, but it doesn't have to break you. In this episode, Dr. Leanne Miller, LMFT, a licensed marriage and family therapist, shares how simple tools like the “practice of the pause” and box breathing can help you regain control in high-stress moments. We also unpack why men often struggle more with emotional processing and how shifting support systems are starting...

The financial fallout of divorce is full of myths, especially when it comes to child support and alimony. In this episode, we cut through the confusion to explain how these obligations actually work, from calculation methods and common misconceptions to modification rules and termination triggers. We explore why lifetime alimony is mostly a thing of the past, how support models differ across state...

Divorce doesn’t have to mean emotional warfare and courtroom showdowns.  In this episode, attorney Nicole Stednitz introduces the collaborative divorce model—an out-of-court approach where couples work with a team of legal, financial, and emotional professionals to find sustainable, family-focused solutions. We unpack how the disqualification clause builds real accountability, why collaborative di...

What do kids really need when parents divorce? In this episode, licensed psychotherapist Stephanie Seal joins us to talk about how children experience separation—and what parents can do to protect their emotional well-being along the way. We cover common misconceptions, including why younger kids often internalize divorce more than we realize, and how even well-meaning silence can leave lasting im...

Co-parenting isn’t always easy, but it can be done! As long as it’s built on a foundation of respect, teamwork and love. In this heartfelt episode of Cover Your Assets, Lesa Ferguson joins us to share her real-world experiences as a step-parent—and how she helped create a harmonious, blended family after divorce. From setting boundaries to putting kids first, we dive into the emotional side of co-...

On this episode of Cover Your Assets, we’re breaking down the critical — and often overlooked — difference between date of separation and legal separation during divorce. Attorney Diane Nguyen explains why this distinction matters, especially in high-asset cases where bonuses, stock options, or home appreciation could be at stake. We cover how California defines separation, why the exact timing ca...

On this episode of “Cover Your Assets,” we explore how prenups have evolved from a taboo symbol of distrust to proactive agreements for financial transparency. Growing in popularity from 3% in 2010 to 15% today, couples are realizing that prenups aren’t just for the wealthy. They help protect assets, manage debts, and even safeguard blended families. Whether you're planning your first wedding...

On this episode, we’re talking to divorce attorney Michael Rice. Michael weighs in on mediation in divorce, explaining why having a consulting attorney makes the process less daunting and how mediation can lead to a more controlled and efficient divorce process.  We also discuss strategies for preserving your financial interests through a divorce process, tips for navigating your emotions during n...

On today’s episode, we chat with Trisha Perez, an entrepreneur who empowers women through spirituality. She shares her interpretation of Nancy Hetrick’s four phases of transition during divorce, highlighting how introspection helped her identify the issues in her marriage and take action. We discuss the mediation process, navigating divorce in lockdown, and the “messy, messy, messy, fun, fun, fun”...

Our friend Sandy Anleu joins us on today’s episode to talk about the lessons she had to learn the hard way from her ‘DIY’ divorce 5 years ago. We go through Nancy Hetrick’s four stages of transition in divorce from last episode to unpack the moment Sandy knew her marriage was over, the toll divorce takes on your decision-making, and how she is using her newfound financial independence to work towa...

Do you feel like your divorce is never-ending? Like it will dominate the rest of your life? There is a light at the end of the tunnel! Join us as we discuss the four stages of transition in divorce (and how long it takes to reach your “new normal”) with Nancy Hetrick, Founder & CEO of the Divorce Financial Planner Training Center. Nancy Hetrick on LinkedIn Nancy Hetrick on Twitter Divorce Fina...

Who gets the house? Join us as we unpack one of the most financially (and emotionally) complicated questions in divorce. We talk about the pros and cons of selling, buying out your spouse and choosing joint ownership. Plus, we look at some common complications that people often miss. Jade Eagles on LinkedIn Josephti Cruz on LinkedIn  Divorce might be the end of one chapter, but it’s also the start...

Navigating divorce alone is incredibly intimidating. Join us as we talk to Marnie Maton about her story of finding a “divorce mentor” and how it made all the difference. We also walk through identifying your nonnegotiables, self-care, the power of preparedness, and much more!  Connect with us!  Marnie Maton on LinkedIn Marnie’s website " Vote For You" by Marnie Maton Jade Eagles on Linke...

Dividing retirement savings during a divorce can be tricky. Join us as we break down the key differences between traditional and Roth IRAs, 401(k)s, HSAs and more. We also cover QDROs (Qualified Domestic Relations Orders), and how to avoid costly mistakes when splitting your retirement accounts. Whether you’re going through a divorce or planning ahead, tune in to make sure you’re informed! Connect...

The holidays after or during a divorce can be tough, but they’re a chance to create new traditions and focus on what matters most: family, kindness, and joy. Learn to co-parent with ease, set simple budgets, and teach your kids the power of giving back. From acts of kindness to fun traditions like sweaters and holiday lights, it’s all about making memories, not spending big. Let’s make this season...

How do you separate the emotions from the business side of divorce? Learn how our guest, divorce prep coach Alex Beattie, helps individuals gather their essential administrative information and clearly define their goals and priorities before taking the plunge into separation. We also tackle the often-overlooked aspect of managing finances during a divorce, including the complexities of hidden ass...

Can you really settle a divorce without messy court proceedings? Learn how Barry Davis, an experienced divorce mediator, helps couples navigate the potential conflicts of separation by empowering them to make their own decisions. Discover the benefits of divorce mediation—saving time, money, and creating a healthier emotional environment for everyone involved. Barry also dispels common myths, show...