Courtship Code

If you’ve been in a space of doing, fixing, suggesting, and proving you’re good enough with men then you’ve been operating in your wounded princess energy. This energy is total sabotage and can make you feel anxious, fearful of abandonment, and powerless with men. Part of the problem is you put men on a pedestal and aren’t showing up in your value. The other reason may be you’re too activated in y...

The relationship with your parents can have a major impact on how you attract men, lack boundaries, and the ways you may be sabotaging your love life. This can be a shocking reality for some, but even those from stable two parent households can mirror behaviors or patterns that contradicts the outcomes they want from men and relationships. If you want more from your relationships, yet, you seem to...

Many ambitious, intelligent women run into a courtship rut where they feel they’re in cycles of meeting men who only like the idea of them and not the real them. This is a common statement and can concern women who have the Trophy Passion Attraction Prototype. You want a man who is open and emotionally available, yet, men appear to be more concerned with how you’d represent them and the trophy you...

Today’s episode shares how playing the waiting game with your love life is killing your chances at attracting a new relationship and delaying the experiences you must have in order to improve the quality of your courtships & relationships. You can make decisions that makes it easy for you to live and  stay in your value that will always increase your love life, I’m going to tell you how. Doors to...

Today I’m sharing a 4 step framework women I’ve worked with in matchmaking & coaching have used to meet their husbands online. Listen, meeting a partner online is far more normal than you may think. It’s not easy, but it doesn’t have to be a major hardship when you have clarity and a plan that allows you to take action with intention. I’m breaking it down on today’s episode. DOORS TO THE CAPTIVATI...

Are you tired of being told you must be submissive to be feminine or to be the “ideal” woman? This is an outdated belief that many women have been pressured to take on in order to try to appeal to a man’s ego. What actually happens is you become a woman who lacks boundaries, self worth, and has no clue how to actually get what she wants out of her man so you just go along to get along. Today, I’m...

Attracting the same type of men every time is saying something about your present choices. On today’s episode, Ayesha, a student of the Captivating Courtship Code, shares her experience of healing from a toxic marriage in her past and becoming emotionally available again. To begin with, just like most of us, she thought, “There are no good men out there for me” or “Why do I attract the same toxic...

Have you ever feared that adding a relationship to your life will mean you'll have to sacrifice your career and accomplishments? You're not alone. Many women fear they'll have to choose between love and family or the career and education you've worked so hard for. There's an important message I want to share about this belief that's could be holding you back from stepping into the light of having...

You’ve been waiting for it, so here it is! On today’s episode you’ll learn exactly how one woman used the Captivating Courtship Code to transform her love to getting married within 12 months. Yes, you too can use this code no matter where you are in your love life or courtship process to improve the quality of your relationships, attract a committed partner, and learn relationship skills that will...

Can alpha women attract masculine alpha men, or are reserved for a certain type of woman? Despite what you may have been told, even ambitious, accomplished alpha women can use their feminine energy to attract an alpha man and create amazing experiences that aligns with his value and inspires him to keep coming back and commit. Let's discuss on today's episode! DOORS TO THE CAPTIVATING COURTSHIP CO...

So you’ve had a few failed relationships and lovers that didn’t go as planned? No worries, you can turn this around with the right steps, just as some of our favorite girl bosses have. In this episode I share with you three case studies who have drastically improved the quality of their love life in a short amount of time :Ciara, Meagan Goode, and Serena Williams. All of these women didn’t let the...

Do toxic men desire high achieving women? If you desire a healthy relationship with a quality man but find yourself attracted to toxic, narcissistic, emotionally unavailable men you may be surprised to find out you’re exactly the kind of woman at the top of their list. Why? Because you’re a prize. However, your attraction to them and confusing charisma and chemistry with compatibility is what’s ke...

Confident women often struggle behind closed doors with feeling worthy of the love and relationship they desire. They take actions and have mindsets that totally sabotage attracting the men and relationships they truly want in their lives. So much misinformation on the internet about what it means to be a high value feminine woman is actually working against confident women and making them feel an...

Curious to know how long does it take or when should you determine if a man is a good fit for you? On today's episode I breakdown the way you need to start thinking about courtship and how you can shift your experience and make it easier and take a carefree approach to courtship and relationships that will give you skills that will benefit you in your marriage and increase attraction over and over...

What happens when you wait until it’s too late to discover how to identify relationship incompatibility? The reality is some relationships aren’t meant to last forever and some things are simply out of your control. However, there are aspects of courtship & dating that are within your control. The moment you learn how to navigate those aspects the more magnetic, captivating, and empowered you...

Even confident, go-getting, high achieving women can struggle with feeling not good enough or fearful that they may have to make some changes to become more attractive and ideal for the kinds of men and relationship they desire to attract. The truth is there are some changes that you may have to make, but not in the way you may currently believe. Today’s episode we discuss the truth behind making...

Want to create more clarity, confidence, and compatibility so you become a magnet for the right men? Attracting the right partners can be a challenge, but it’s a greater challenge when you feel out of control of the process, anxious, and uncertain. You can have a loving, healthy, high quality relationship with the right shifts. In this episode we breakdown the importance of becoming a magnet for t...

Are you a woman over age 30 (or close to age 30) struggling with staying hopeful about meeting a quality man and attracting a quality relationship? Many women struggle with staying positive and believing they can have a good partner as they're maturing in life. The thing you need to know is that men get better with age and you have a lot of positive experiences to look forward to after age 30. In...

Are quality men hard to find? It's about your mindset. There are quality men that exist and desire a good woman, but you have to be open to receive them and ready to be a magnet for them. In this episode we discuss shifting your mindset and belief around attracting quality men so you can be open to receiving the love and companionship you desire. REGISTER for the FREE 3 Day Magnetic Bootcamp www.c...

If you've been wasting time with incompatible men and attracting partners who have been slowing down your love life and impacting the quality of your live and dreams, this is the episode for you. We will dive into the importance of avoiding low quality, incompatible relationships and the devastating impact they have on your mental, emotional, and physical health. We will also discuss what to pay a...

Ready to meet quality men? There are lots of places you can start showing up, both online and offline, to meet, date, or court quality men. It's all about where you're showing up and allowing yourself to be approachable and open to meet men who value and embody the characteristics of men who are marriage ready and marriage quality. In this episode we discuss 3 strategic places for you to spend you...

Sometimes men pull away and lack consistency when it comes to communication and phone calls. That can leave you feeling very undesirable, frustrated, and confused. Especially when a man has been showing up and showing interest and then suddenly falls off the map. In this episode we discuss five reasons why he doesn't call consistently and some tips on what to do about it.  REGISTER for the FR...

Have you been in a pattern of attracting incompatible relationships? On this episode of the Courtship Code, we discuss common mistakes women make with attraction and why it often leads to relationships and courting incompatible men. You'll also gain understanding on why shifting this aspect of your dating and courtship life is important in order to feel more confident about men, relationships, and...

Time for a heart to heart about questioning the credibility of the men in your life and others because you’re scared to let go of control and trust yourself. Trust is a tricky thing to give and experience when you’re disconnected from your intuition and not clear on how to make decisions or feeling confident about trusting yourself. Not trusting yourself can be really uncomfortable to admit and re...

The New Year has started and you’ve made the decision this year you’ll take courtship and marriage more seriously? If not, why are you waiting for heartbreak? You need to be proactive about your relationships instead of waiting for another disaster and fallout to happen before deciding to do something different. You can make the choice now, to learn how to captivate courtship, heal your attraction...