Couples Pursuit (Marriage and Relationship Mentors)

Our last lesson should have given you a glimpse of the power of the Holy Spirit through speaking in tongues. But what can halt God's flow in your life? We can be hindered from experiencing God's power in our lives when we live life through our feelings rather than through our faith. Let's talk about it... Hope you enjoy it! - Vincent & Valerie | Couples Pursuit ===== PARTNER WITH US You can pa...

What is the point of marriage? There's a good chance that you'll run into someone who asks, "Why get married?" if you're planning a wedding. "Why do we need a couple of rings and a piece of paper to prove that we love and are committed to one another?" Let's talk about... Hope you enjoy it! - Vincent & Valerie | Couples Pursuit ===== PARTNER WITH US You can partner up with Couples Pursuit for...

Long-term marriage can be both easy and challenging, but if two people can hold on to each other throughout the tough times, it is definitely worth the effort. Discover what helped us stay together for 22 years so you can apply it to your marriage. Let's talk about it... PARTNER WITH US You can partner up with Couples Pursuit for just $27 per month to help us provide FREE tools and resources to ma...

After you've been water baptized and received the Holy Spirit, how do you then manifest the power of the Holy Spirit? Speaking in tongues is one of the manifestations of the Holy Spirit and one of the most important gifts that God has given to His church along with His Son, Jesus. However, many people do not know that it is accessible or even understand how to use it. Let's talk about... PARTNER W...

We all know someone who has a habit of going from person to person. When you ask why you might have heard, It's just sex! It doesn't mean anything?... But is that really true? Those who grew up in the digital age are likely to be familiar with the phrase "hooking up". Although it is popularized in our society and called "friends with benefits", it might have negative consequences on your ability t...

When the stress and worries of life attack, married couples have an ally... each other. Instead of allowing the anxiety to divide them, couples come together to discuss it and make a plan to move forward. But what happens when married couples respond differently to stress and worry? Let's talk about it. Hope you enjoy it! - Vincent & Valerie | Couples Pursuit ===== Did you know that the averag...

Is there such a thing as fair fighting in a marriage? We will discuss how to improve communication with your spouse even if you feel like you have tried everything, but nothing seems to work. Let's talk about it... Hope you enjoy it! - Vincent & Valerie | Couples Pursuit ===== Did you know that the average couple waits six years before seeking help for marital problems? Don't let your relation...

The Bible uses many different terms to describe the experience of being "saved.".  John 3:3 refers to it as being "born again," Matthew 18:3 refers to it as "conversion," Mark 16:16 refers to it as "believing and baptism," Colossians 2:13 refers to it as "forgiving" of all trespasses, Romans 6:23 refers to it as "eternal life," and Romans 8:9 refers to it as "the Spirit of Christ." Though a v...

In the beginning, you promised to be with your spouse, to hold onto them from this day forward, for better or for worse, in sickness or in health, to love and cherish... yet lately it seems more and more difficult to uphold that promise? Struggling to keep the Vows by Eric Hylick and Dr. Sakeisha Hylick https://amzn.to/3G1IFjS Let's talk about it... Hope you enjoy it! - Vincent & Valerie | Cou...

In the excitement of your wedding, it can be hard to imagine that you and your spouse might not live happily ever after. Sharing your life with someone else isn't easy, especially if you haven't had much experience in successful relationships. A marriage built on love and respect does not just happen. Both spouses must do their part. Here are some important keys to a successful marriage that you s...

In Mark 16:9-20, we find the great commission. Jesus told his disciples,   “Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation." By going everywhere and preaching the Gospel to everyone, those who believe and are baptized will be saved. That's a tall order. They might have wondered, "How can we reach the world?" The answer is The Power of a Spirit-filled Life! Hope you enjoy it!...

Have you ever heard that sticks and stones can break our bones, but words can make or break our home? So, are we using the right words? Words can make or break a relationship. They can be used to help heal a marriage and they can also be used to harm. When you say these 3 simple phrases daily to your spouse, you can help to rebuild or strengthen your relationship: "I love you too" and "I love you...

Is God responsible for everything that happens in our lives, good and bad? People believe that everything that happens to them is from God and that He controls everything. But the Bible teaches quite the opposite, and I believe it's very important for us to learn this lesson. James 1:13 (CSB) says: 13 No one undergoing a trial should say, “I am being tempted by God,” since God is not tempted by ev...

It is easy to point out the faults of others. But how often do we stop to examine our own behavior, the decisions we make, and the consequences that follow them? In an earlier episode titled "Can I Talk to You?" we discussed what happens when you no longer feel like you can have meaningful conversations with your spouse. We listed 5 Ways to Improve Communication With a Non-Communicative Spouse. He...

Have you ever found yourself saying this? "She doesn't want to share her thoughts." "He doesn't like talking about his feelings." "We avoid talking because they always turn into fighting." When you no longer feel like you can have meaningful conversations with your spouse, it can create a lot of distance in your relationship. Hope you enjoy it! - Vincent & Valerie ===== To help couples overcom...

When we talk about the integrity of God’s Word, we are speaking about —the power, the character, and the faith in it. The fact that His Word is still true to this day even after thousands of years and different translations of the bible. The most important thing you can do for your spiritual life is to know God's word (accumulate), understand God's word (assimilate, put it together) and gain wisdo...

Understanding the roles of the husband and wife in a marriage will not only allow both to reach their full potential, but it will also enable you to work better together as a team to combat selflessness and conflict in your marriage. Hope you enjoy it! - Vincent & Valerie ===== To help couples overcome communication barriers, we developed a FREE MASTERCLASS on Effective Communication. ►► Use t...

To help couples overcome communication barriers, we developed a FREE MASTERCLASS on Effective Communication. ►► Use the link to get access here: https://couplespursuit.com/communication ===== It can be difficult to deal with an aggressive spouse. The more aggressive they become, the more hurtful you may feel. If that describes you or someone you know, then you won't want to miss this episode of Co...

Face it, none of us is perfect. There has only been One perfect man and that was Jesus Christ. We as Christian will eventually stumble and we will eventually sin. But what happens when a Christian sins? As Christians, we will eventually stumble and we will eventually sin. What makes us different from what we were before we accepted salvation is that now we have a new nature.  Hope you enjoy i...

To help couples overcome communication barriers, we developed a FREE MASTERCLASS on Effective Communication. ►► Use the link to get access here: https://couplespursuit.com/communication ===== Toxic communication can negatively impact your relationship with your spouse and your children.  It leads to defensiveness, stonewalling, contempt and criticism.  By avoiding this kind of communicat...

To help couples overcome communication barriers, we developed a FREE MASTERCLASS on Effective Communication. ►► Use the link to get access here: https://couplespursuit.com/communication ===== It is important to understand that as human beings we all share seven basic needs. They are Certainty, Significance, Uncertainty/Variety, Love, Connection, Growth, and Contribution. The first five are essenti...

Occasionally, marriages seem to have their share of difficulties. But as long as the spouses do not abuse each other and are respectful of one another, there is hope. We will discuss 7 tips to help your marriage not only survive but thrives during those difficult times. Hope you enjoy it! - Vincent & Valerie

In a previous video, we discussed the fact that we are a 3 part being (spirit soul & body),  and at the moment of salvation, it was our spirit that changed or became new. In this episode, we are going to continue that conversation. We are discussing what our new identity in Christ is, and also what it means to be born again. We used 2 Corinthians 5:17 (CSB) which reads: 17 Therefore, if a...

The five types of communication you need to know about are: Verbal Communication. ... Nonverbal Communication. ... Written Communication. ... Visual Communication. ... Listening. ... ===== Like this? Please share and subscribe, to help us help others. ===== To help couples overcome communication barriers, we developed a FREE MASTERCLASS on Effective Communication. Use the link to get access: (http...

Is it Happy Wife, Happy Life 🤷🏽‍, OR  Happy Spouse, Happy House? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below. The mantra "happy wife, happy life" is popular with some husbands, while others feel it is one-sided and the term "happy spouse, happy house" would be more appropriate. ===== Like this? Please share and subscribe, to help us help others. ===== To help couples overcome communicat...