Couples Pursuit (Marriage and Relationship Mentors)

Does the Bible instruct us to pursue our spouse? Usually, police use the term "heavy pursuit" to describe chasing a suspect while driving. If necessary, this can include speeding, running red lights, or taking other measures to stop the suspect. While our wives are not suspects, Genesis instructs us to cleave, stay close, join together, hold fast, chase after, and even pursue them. We hope you enj...

Are You Ready for Marriage? 5 Important Pre-Marriage Questions You Should Be Asking When friends and family notice that you have been dating someone for a while, they often ask when you are getting married. How do you know if you are ready to get married? Marriage is a beautiful institution created by God. It is designed to be a lifetime commitment between a man and a woman. Marriages today often...

God should always be the center of any marriage. But what happens when you try to fill God's place in your life? The importance of marriage and the need for selflessness in marriage are highlighted in this week's study of Matthew 19: 3-8.  Marriage will not always be easy, but we can work through any issue with patience and understanding and God. Let's talk about it... We hope you enjoy it! -...

Can a love song teach you how to love your spouse better? The song we are referring to is One Hundred Ways by James Ingram. Fun Fact:  The song was written by songwriter Kathy Wakefield, producer Ben Wright, and Tony Coleman. James Ingram was discovered (or maybe uncovered) by producer Quincy Jones to appear on his 1981 album, “The Dude.” Jones discovered Ingram on a demo of “Just Once,” writ...

It is not uncommon for couples to experience variations in sexual activity in their marriage. But what do you do when there is no activity at all? The most common response married couples give when they have been repeatedly rejected by their spouse is frustration, hurt, and even anger. The stereotype of a husband pressuring his wife for sex does not apply to every marriage. In about 25% of cases,...

We know God created marriage, but what were His intentions for it? There are many lessons we can learn from this passage of scripture that can help our marriage. Let's talk about it... We were created in the concept and character of God. God created humans in His image (Spirit), meaning we are to resemble and act like God. We see the same "image and the likeness" wording in Gen 5:3 (When Adam had...

The Bible is a unified story about The King (God), His Kingdom (God's earth), His Royal Family (God's people), and the restoration of that family through Jesus Christ. So if you had to summarize the bible in a few verses, which ones would you choose? We hope you enjoy it! - Vincent & Valerie | Couples Pursuit Remember to like 👍🏼 and share ➡️ if you find this advice helpful. Need relationship...

Arguments in your marriage can lead to feelings of hurt and anger. However, resolving conflicts doesn't have to end this way. We believe that the goal should be not to argue. We know there will come a point in your marriage where you disagree, but disagreements should not automatically evolve into arguments. A disagreement is a verbally expressed difference of opinion. But an argument is when you...

The Bible is a unified story that leads to Jesus by telling us of a King (God), Kingdom (God's dwelling place), an eternal royal family (God's people), and the colonization of earth (God's Throne).  We hope you enjoy it! - Vincent & Valerie | Couples Pursuit Remember to like 👍🏼 and share ➡️ if you find this advice helpful. Need relationship advice? Book a call today: https://couplespurs...

We've all heard the phrase, "What's mine is yours, what's yours is mine." But what does that mean when it comes to our personal belongings? This question can be difficult to answer since it depends on the level of comfortability and trust in the relationship.  The wife should not have any problem accessing her husband's phone if they both have a lot of trust in each other.  If the husban...

What comes to mind when you hear the word "intimacy"? Do you only think about the physical and sexual aspects of relationships? Let's talk about... We are so glad you have joined us here at Couple Pursuit. Our goal is to give you the tools necessary to maintain a successful marriage. If you are just joining, welcome, if you are returning, welcome back! If you find this video helpful, please hit th...

You get excited about it if you picture yourself in a new outfit, shoes, or even a new car. What if we could do the same with God's word? It requires us to Renew Our Minds. What Does It Mean to Renew Our Minds? Renewing the mind means understanding that what God thinks about us and what we think about ourselves are not always the same. Once we realize this, the next step is to decide to change the...

What should you do if you notice that your marriage has lost its spark over the years? Let's talk about it... The key to dating your spouse is not just taking them out for a date, it's showing them you're still committed to the relationship and keeping the spark alive. It's about taking time for each other and showing your love for them. Date: A social or romantic appointment or engagement. If you...

In a previous video, we discussed the 7 Reasons Marriage Is Awesome! And why it's something you should look forward to. Is marriage right for you? Let's talk about... Have you ever seen the movie "Why Did I Get Married?" It's about four couples digging up old feelings and reasons for falling in love and wondering why they got together. Marriage is a big decision, and it should not be taken lightly...

Should both spouses contribute equally to the relationship in terms of time, effort, and support, or should one be required to get more effort than the other? We know that every marriage is unique and therefore requires its own approach. However, we can say that marriage works best when both spouses give 100/100 effort because both spouses need to invest equally in the relationship to make it work...

What do I mean by "dry places or seasons." When we go through dry seasons in our lives, we can feel like exiles. Dry seasons occur when we feel emotionally and spiritually disconnected from friends, family, and our spouses and hopeless about the future. God's Truth Will Revive Your Marriage Did you know that the average couple waits six years before seeking help for marital problems? Don't let you...

Every relationship is different, but have you ever wondered what your husband needs from you? Let's talk about it... For a marriage to be successful, both partners must work hard. Each relationship is different, so it's important to remember that your husband also has needs. Just as women have specific needs and want from their husbands, he has specific needs and wants from you. There are a few th...

It's no secret that happy marriages require work from both spouses. But what exactly do wives need from their husbands? The following is not an all-inclusive list of what every wife needs from her husband to feel loved, respected, and supported, as everyone has different needs. 1. Your undivided attention. 2. To know that she can depend on you. 3. To be honest and faithful. Did you know that the a...

Exactly what is a KINGDOM MARRIAGE? First, let us define Kingdom and covenant. The Kingdom is the spiritual realm over which God rules as King, or it is the fulfillment of God's will on earth. A covenant (as it pertains to marriage in the Kingdom) is a spiritual agreement between a man and a woman to fulfill God's purpose in the kingdom. Did you know that the average couple waits six years before...

Dr. Zoe Shaw writes in her article that if you're experiencing detachment, anger, or resentment in your marriage, you can feel like you're watching a train wreck from the sidelines. It is beyond your control. The end may seem imminent even if your spouse has already filed for divorce. The good news is that there is hope. Let's talk about it... Dr. Zoe Shaw bio: Dr. Zoe Shaw is a licensed psychothe...

Marriage is a big commitment, and while it can be an incredibly rewarding experience, it can also be challenging at times. Let's talk about it... If you're thinking of getting married or already married, you should know the risks involved. We hope you enjoy it! - Vincent & Valerie | Couples Pursuit Need relationship advice? Book a call today: https://couplespursuit.com/talk

What do I mean by "dry places or seasons" When we go through dry seasons in our lives, we can feel like exiles. Dry seasons occur when we feel emotionally and spiritually disconnected from friends, family, and our spouses and hopeless about the future. God's Truth Will Revive Your Marriage But just as God brought life back to dry bones, very dry bones, He can also bring life and revive our marriag...

Is there such a thing as fair fighting in a marriage? Let's talk about it... We will discuss how to improve communication with your spouse even if you feel like you have tried everything, but nothing seems to work. Disagreements The words fighting and divorce should be exiled from your relationship vocabulary. Frequent disagreements may lead to fighting, but level-headed discussions increase under...

Have you ever wondered if the way you handle conflict with your spouse is always the same way you handle conflict with others? How do we change our behavior if we're not happy with the results? In this video, we will explore how to manage conflict in your relationship. We will discuss different ways that people handle conflict, and we will look at how to change our behavior if we're not happy with...

The key to a successful marriage is having a strong connection with your spouse. When you're disconnected, it can feel like you're in a relationship with a stranger. Unfortunately, divorce can happen to even the happiest of couples. The best way to prevent a marriage from falling apart is to be aware of the pitfalls and learn to avoid them. We will discuss Things That Can Ruin Your Relationship if...