conVersate After Dark

On this episode of Conversate After Dark, Marv B and Tay get into it. Marv tells the story of the time a church acquaintance invited him to "hang out" and it turned into a pyramid scheme pitch, complete with "freedom papers." Tay explains the difference between an MLM and a pyramid scheme, and whether you can actually make money selling Pure Romance or Paparazzi. Then the glove...

Would you stay with someone who's cheating with an AI chatbot? On this episode of Conversate After Dark, Marv B and Tay get real about what makes them hard to date, whether the man should love harder than the woman, and the new rules of modern dating in the age of AI. They break down AI relationships and loneliness, using AI to "strategize" a relationship, who your friends should si...

Everybody had rules in their 20s. A body count formula. No men with kids. A height minimum. A complexion line you would not cross. Most of those rules did not survive contact with real life. This episode starts with an honest answer about hooking up out of boredom and turns into a full conversation about the rules we set, why we set them, and what actually happened when we tried to keep them into...

This week on conVersate After Dark: an icebreaker turns into a real conversation about what actually makes you feel loved, a "do you really know me" quiz exposes who's paying attention in a relationship, and a hypothetical about $15,000 in hidden debt turns into a full debate — lying or cheating, which one really breaks trust? Mature audiences only. This episode contains explicit la...

On this episode of conVersate After Dark, Marv and Tay reunite in person for the first time in a while and discuss childhood discoveries in their parents' rooms, whether relationship podcasts are actually helping people, agreeing to disagree vs. compromise, getting fired (twice), what it's really like dating someone who's unemployed, and an honest breakdown of their experiences with...

On this episode of Conversate After Dark, Tay and Marv get into it starting with the icebreaker: the sexual thing you tried once and never needed to do again. From there the conversation goes deep — arranged marriages and whether you'd trust your parents to pick your spouse, matchmakers vs. dating coaches, the "traditional man" trap on Married at First Sight, solo trips and ownershi...

Grown and unfiltered. On this episode of Conversate After Dark, Marv and Tay get into the honest stuff most people will not say out loud. They open with a wild icebreaker, then get into exhibitionist versus voyeur, how trust and comfort unlock real intimacy, and the difference between jealousy and intuition. From there it turns into astrology, overthinking, and why everybody has a tell, before the...

On this episode of Conversate After Dark, we get into the stuff people feel but don't always say out loud. We open with doing nice things for yourself, why it's so hard for the dependable one to set a boundary, and the difference between saying no and just backing away from people. Then it gets fun. We trade our worst date stories: the drunk date who got tossed from a Charlie Wilson show...

Are finances tearing couples apart before they even get started? Marvin and Tay get into the real conversations people avoid: loaning money to family, who should have a say in how your partner spends, and whether marriage actually benefits men or women. Plus, would you stay in a relationship just because your family loves your partner? And what happens when your ex is still treated like family? Th...

Once trust is broken, can you ever really get it back? Mar B and Tay go deep on rebuilding trust, lying in relationships, what it means to be equally yoked, dating someone without a strong male role model, and whether asking your partner to cut off opposite-sex friends is controlling or just smart. Plus a would you or wouldn't you that gets real very fast. This is Conversate After Dark — no f...

Masturbation, Mental Health, and Relationship Boundaries: The Conversation Nobody Wants to Have 📧 Guest/Topic submissions: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/T1c97Yg8cCA 📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics? Email: cvadthepodcast@gmail.com 🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com 👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & S...

What would you do if your sex tape leaked online? Marv and Tay go there — and don't stop there. This episode covers Ray J's wild claims, Klay Thompson fumbling Megan Thee Stallion, Tory Lanez, and the real reason couples stay silent about what they want in the bedroom. Are you a pleaser or a controller? Can two pleasers actually work? Plus, would you date someone who refuses to meet your...

In this episode of Conversate After Dark, we dive into real conversations about relationships, intimacy, and boundaries. We break down: • How important alone time is in relationships • Clingy vs independent partners • Does porn negatively impact intimacy? • Can good sex actually save a bad relationship? • Revenge sex, toxic habits, and relationship truths This episode gets honest, funny, and real...

On this episode Tay and Marv talk about the viral clip of the man sleeping his car to avoid his wife, and can you be with someone who does not think sex is important.  Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo. Tune in and tell us what you think. It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.” No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation. 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://yo...

On this episode Tay and Marv talk about is it weird to manifest a marriage. Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo. Tune in and tell us what you think. It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.” No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation. 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/JiRKZrimOoA 📌 Link in bio 💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email cvadthepodcast@gmail.com #...

On this episode Tay and Marv talk about apology languages and when does liking social media pictures go too far? Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo. Tune in and tell us what you think. It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.” No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation. 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/gdCKXnHHejU 📌 Link in bio 💬 Got thoughts? DM u...

On this episode Tay and Marv talk about should you be going to the club if you're in a relationship? Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo. Tune in and tell us what you think. It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.” No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation. 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/st8qrDMrTm8 📌 Link in bio 💬 Got thoughts? DM us or em...

On this episode Tay and Marv talk about should you tell your friend or not if you catch their partner cheating on them? Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo. Tune in and tell us what you think. It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.” No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation. 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/hJxEEAGP94U 📌 Link in bio 💬 Got thought...

On this episode Tay and Marv talk about marrying too young and dating someone who is immature.  Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo. Tune in and tell us what you think. It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.” No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation. 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube:https://youtu.be/7C3yiI5gQBo 📌 Link in bio 💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email cvadthe...

On this episode Tay and Marv talk about the importance of matching energy, and when should you take the relationship public.  Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo. Tune in and tell us what you think. It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.” No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation. 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube:https://youtu.be/FJaBGjKqlqE 📌 Link in bio 💬 Got th...

On this episode Tay and Marv celebrate 100 episodes of conVersate After Dark Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo. Tune in and tell us what you think. It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.” No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation. 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube:https://youtu.be/b-jLgWOeXiw 📌 Link in bio 💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email cvadthepodcast@gmail.com #...

On this episode Tay and Marv talk about age differences and does who your partner used to date matter? Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo. Tune in and tell us what you think. It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.” No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation. 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/p4vYDc7Eo_Q 📌 Link in bio 💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email...

On this episode Tay and Marv talk have on their special guest Dr. VicTORIEus aka Dr. Torie Williams to talk about ACES also known as Adverse Childhood Experiences and how they can impact your relationships.   Make sure you follow Dr. Torie on IG @dr.victorieus Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo. Tune in and tell us what you think. It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.” No fluf...

On this episode Tay and Marv talk about using AI to help you date, and the new way of ghosting.... This week on ConVersate After Dark, Tay and Marv ask the real questions. Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo. Tune in and tell us what you think. It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.” No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation. 🎧 Streaming everywhere 📺 Watch on YouTube: https:...

On this episode Tay and Marv talk about can you be too transparent when entering a relationship, and how would you handle hearing about an abusive ex passing away? This week on ConVersate After Dark, Tay and Marv ask the real questions. Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo. Tune in and tell us what you think. It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.” No fluff, no mess — just grown...