Mark Steadman & Brendan Hutchins

Convergence

Society EN ↓ 102 episodes

What is the work of a middle-aged man? To improve himself and help those around him contribute to a fairer, more tolerant society. Mark is a digital producer with a coaching mindset. Brendan is a home remodeler with plans to become a men’s health coach. As men entering their second phase of life, they push each-other to be better and achieve more, without the hustle and grind mindset of the Internet bro. They also do battle with music, writing original songs on the topic of the day.

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Mark Steadman & Brendan Hutchins

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Society

Latest episode

Feb 24, 2026

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Episodes

Yelling fire in a crowded theatre 22.11.2024

Free Speech and Marshmallow Madness In this rollercoaster episode, we dive into everything from the hypothetical beauty of a 'Godmode' What To Eat podcast with Brendan Hutchins to the real-life hilarity of a live Randy Feltface puppet show. Along the way, we tackle deep issues like men's responsibility in society, the botched 'free speech' argument, and even touch on culinary monstrosities like co...

Hymn - Tune Tumult #3 15.11.2024

We open with classic podcasting clichés and dive into the aftermath of the 2024 US election. Our hosts swirl around debates, looking for silver linings in a rather grim scenario. We then transition seamlessly into music territory, with exciting new hymn compositions, vocal experiments, and the creative processes we engaged in to create our masterpieces. The latter half of the discussion shifts to...

God 08.11.2024

Exploring Faith and Unplugging from the Matrix: Is There a God? We dive deep into our personal journeys with spirituality, discovering what 'Is there a God?' means to us. We chat about breaking free from past traumas related to religious experiences, ponder our own definitions of belief, and how music has become a transformative part of our spiritual lives. From meditations to discussions on softw...

I Interrupted You First - Tune Tumult #2 01.11.2024

Happy one-year podcast anniversary! Join us as we reflect on our life plans from days past—who has time for a bucket list when life keeps us on our toes? Last week's deep chat resurfaces with healing guidence and the creeping horror of Five Nights at Freddy's nightmares. We fly from bedtime Tolkien to crafting our futures one LEGO block at a time. We delve into the Enneagram's finer points and the...

Do you have time for that? 25.10.2024

We dive into the humorous and strenuous sides of physical/mental/emotional health. We discuss how some activities, despite being labeled 'not good', might just be worth it for the laughs and the unexpected benefits they bring to our well-being. Expect some funny anecdotes and a light-hearted take on the ups and downs of staying healthy. And a delightful amount of singing off key. convergencepod@ic...

Tune Tumult #1 - Game Changer! 18.10.2024

Life, Laughter, and AI: Unraveling Decisions, Beard Drama, and Emotional Rollercoasters Lyrics and videos for the Battle Of The Songs entries here: https://newsletter.hellosteadman.com/game-changer-battle-of-the-songs-1/ In this jam-packed episode, we tackle everything from robots threatening our podcasting gig to philosophical debates on free will. Get ready to laugh about gym struggles, canal wa...

It's either a gimme or a skinned knee (the origin of the song challenge) 04.10.2024

Forever to go down in infamy, this episode is where Mark and Brendan decide to start giving each other a prompt to write a song in a week. Let’s see where this goes. And now, the beautiful AI show notes. Glorious.. Join us for a roller-coaster episode as we acquire the quirky domain 'pn.ms' from 'Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy' (no sandwiches included), and unravel the complexities of getting ou...

No, don't go back into Goldfinger 27.09.2024

It's a musical episode where Brendan and Mark happen to break out in song, like the new Joker movie but with more sense to it. We discuss AI, dropping amazon, and how We're Mad as Hell AND WE'RE NOT GOING TO TAKE IT ANYMORE! If you want to be Mark's friend, you must listen to this and agree that it is exceptional: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T9YqvG4GY28

The Jealous Art of Empathy; Sociopathic or Just Super Chill? 20.09.2024

Gather ‘round, folks, and bring your popcorn – we’ve got a treat of emotional escapades and bean-timer antics! Join us in the men’s group saga as Brendan takes us through the wild ride of talking jealousy, empathy, polyamory, and societal norms. Who knew reflecting on divorce and friendships could be so enlightening? Sprinkle in a relentless bean timer, and boom – instant profundity and humor. We...

Food, booze, vape, food, booze, vape, food, booze, vape. 06.09.2024

Breaking down American culture and politics, focusing on the differences between programming languages and frameworks, the ongoing dismantling of the American Dream, and the problematic first-past-the-post electoral system. This episode touches on issues like capitalism, tribalism, and the historic welcoming of immigrants to the US, expressing a desire for open borders and harmony. Additionally, i...

An answer without a question, or the profound necessity of rest 30.08.2024

Wholesome Surprises and the Power of Rest Explore the joy of wholesome TV content and  personal encounters with the streaming service Dropout, highlighting shows like 'Game Changer', 'Make Some Noise', and 'Dimension 20.' Mark delves into a particularly emotional episode of 'Game Changer' dedicated to a contestant named Jess. The conversation transitions to a birthday present a thoughtful personal...

The Struggle for Quality in a Sea of Grifters 23.08.2024

Frustrations with substandard podcast editing, the challenges of maintaining a high-quality freelance business, mental and physical pressures, and an insightful conversation about Apple's new fee policy on Patreon subscriptions, as Mark and Brendan reflect on balancing work and creativity, they share personal stories and experiences about keeping the passion alive and striving for excellence amids...

What we talk about when we talk about care 16.08.2024

Mark wants the people he works with to be delighted, and Brendan is opting out of Amazon. (00:00) - Fuck me, I’m a biscuit (07:24) - It’s grifts all the way down (17:34) - Opting out of Amazon (26:14) - Mark’s salient point about the environment (27:44) - Mark is adrift (41:04) - The robots are coming for our jobs! (47:38) - Mark tries to explain LLMs (55:36) - Craft (01:22:54) - Attention-poor (0...

Spike me, daddy 02.08.2024

Mark advocates for the devil of social media, Brendan addresses addiction and challenges the need for us to lean on crutches… and they both discuss ease and craft. (00:00) - Spike me, daddy (01:13) - Happy anniversary (02:15) - Escape valves (08:55) - Our strange addictions (22:49) - Needs vs wants (26:18) - Reading ahead on stoicism (30:32) - Meditation (33:26) - Ease (38:59) - Everyone's tired (...

I don’t want to look l ike I have a Twitch channel 26.07.2024

Mark echoes a fundamental question: “What are you doing to make yourself more attractive and interesting?”. (00:00) - Hey, you're cute (02:14) - 16 hour fasting (12:02) - What men need to do to date women (24:42) - Physical appearance as branding (35:33) - Physical appearance across genders (43:35) - "You're not as charming as you think you are" pt 1 (46:49) - The girl at the Frank Turner gig (01:...

Rattling around like Marley’s ghost 19.07.2024

What do you give up once you’ve given up – to quote a popular Irish sitcom – cigarettes, alcohol, and roller-blading? Joy? Is it joy next? This one’s spicy if you’re a puritan. Otherwise it’s your pretty bog-standard Convergence fare. (00:00) - Rattling around like Marley’s ghost (00:23) - Mark's accidentally good idea (10:39) - Intrinsic motivation (15:37) - Podiant vs Bramble (17:53) - Podcast A...

Tasty meat fire 12.07.2024

The one where Mark and Brendan build a new society. Links Ultra-Processed People: Why Do We All Eat Stuff That Isn’t Food … and Why Can’t We Stop? , by Chris van Tulleken Why doing more exercise won't help you burn more calories – New Scientist Trying Not to Try: The Ancient Art of Effortlessness and the Surprising Power of Spontaneity , by Edward Slingerland Top 5 ways we can actually make a diff...

This is your podcast on mushrooms 05.07.2024

Brace yourself – Mark’s developing a theory of existence. Links Cosmo Sheldrake

We all know blue Dave 28.06.2024

Brendan throws down a debate for the boys to chew over. Wish them luck! (00:00) - I get that reference (01:47) - Food's effects on personal identity (17:13) - Group identities (20:24) - Dunbar's number (28:29) - Brendan's joke (29:36) - MA succulent Chinese meal (31:22) - Brendan likes to get stuffed (39:52) - Dopamine dieting Links This is democracy manifest (”A succulent Chinese meal”)

The thing about rollercoasters 21.06.2024

Strap in, pull the safety bar down tight, and prepare to launch deep into some stuff in this episode. (00:00) - The thing about rollercoasters (02:00) - Brendan's sacrificial log (09:38) - Mark's wormhole (21:53) - Self-motivation for those that live on their own (27:18) - Rollercoaster content (34:54) - The metaphor extends (47:58) - We do the swiping Links Frequency illusion (Baader–Meinhof phen...

The Darkenshrub epiphany 14.06.2024

Mark went to London and met Rory Sutherland, and Brendan has a communion with the universe. Breaking Open the Head: A Psychedelic Journey into the Heart of Contemporary Shamanism , by Daniel Pinchbeck The Egg , by Andy Weir (00:00) - 2024-07-13 Episode 32 (00:18) - Mark at the Podcast Show London (06:38) - Brendan's Darkenshrub adventure (26:31) - Brendan's first trip (37:24) - Thesis (38:32) - Ba...

What have you ACTUALLY done, actually? 07.06.2024

Mark can’t get arrested in this town, Gen X is clapping back, and Brendan’s playing a game but he needs it for his work . (00:00) - 2024-07-13 Episode 31 (04:47) - Mark can't get arrested in this town (09:10) - Gen X is clapping back (13:37) - Brendan's spicy question 🌶️ (26:10) - You can't be the one who's losing it (31:19) - 100 $1,000,000 Leads (42:41) - Karma (52:37) - Brendan needs it for his...

Anything can be food if you want it to be 31.05.2024

The boys wrestle with the question of man vs bear, explore the fertility epidemic, and deliver an update on Brendan’s arbitration. (00:20) - Mark’s cat is a precious angel (01:40) - Man vs bear (03:40) - The case (14:56) - The fertility epidemic (39:36) - It’s a Jungle Out There Links How pollution is causing a male fertility crisis Electromagnetic hypersensitivity (WHO) Three Principles It’s a Ju...

Biscuits the size of cat heads 24.05.2024

Brendan kicks the new calorie knowledge, Mark talks about his vision and not his Vision Pro, and Brendan takes Mark on a virtual tour of the NFT Museum. Links Web3 is Going Great The Worst Product I've Ever Reviewed... for Now The Dropout Marissa Mayer, этот смех! laugh compilation Top 5 Korean TV romcoms – List Envy, with Anya Pearse

Is this what edging is? 17.05.2024

The boys discuss Mark's doppelgänger, and Brendan's plans for him (Mark, not the doppelgänger). (00:17) - Followup (03:17) - Fasting and food scarcity (08:22) - Mark’s food and home (12:12) - Brendan’s 40th (22:12) - Airport content (25:59) - Brendan’s Portland plans: Food (41:39) - Brendan’s Portland plans: Activities (01:03:55) - Mark’s doppelganger

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