Tami West and Michelle Kixmiller
Consider Yourself Hugged
Thanks for visiting with us at for Consider Yourself Hugged: Mental & emotional well-being.” Do you find yourself thinking, "Life can be so overwhelming! I feel so frustrated all the time! I worry about everything! I wish I could speak up more and not be a doormat!" If you're looking for improved mental and emotional well-being, please join us every Wednesday as we talk about how to make positive choices in your life. *Disclaimer:The information in this show is not intended to be therapy or to address your individual situation. It is information based on my experiences, opinions, and research...
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Nov 26, 2025
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Episodes
Episode 143 Women & Men Behaving Badly In the News: Speaking up or Acting Out? You Decide (Part II0 30.08.2023 21:41
Join us today as Michelle leads us in Part II in a conversation about drama! Do you experience it from yourself or others? How do you define it? Is it different for men vs women? For Part II, we'll talk about Jason Aldean's controversial video. t. Enjoy - Once again, Michelle does an awesome job! Show notes at https://www.tamiwest.com/post/dramapart2. Connect with us Instagram: Consider...
Episode 142 Women and Men Behaving Badly In the News: Speaking up or Acting Out? You Decide (Part I) 23.08.2023 38:14
Join us today as Michelle leads us in a conversation about drama! Do you experience it from yourself or others? How do you define it? Is it different for men vs women? For Part I, we'll look at a video clip of Miranda Lambert's concert. Enjoy - Michelle does an awesome job! Show notes at https://www.tamiwest.com/post/drama Connect with us Instagram: Consider Yourself Hugged (new account!...
Episode 141 Creating Healthy Systems 09.08.2023 24:38
Join us today for Gracie's discussion of what we can do to create healthy systems. Whether family, work or community, creating a healthy system, allows the people who join to see that as their default! Listen and find out how! Show notes at https://www.tamiwest.com/post/healthysystems. Connect with us Instagram: Consider Yourself Hugged (new account!) TikTok: Short clips and stories YouTube:...
Episode 140 What if Our Problems Aren’t "Our" Problems? (What if it’s other people's stuff?) 02.08.2023 36:03
The last couple of weeks we have discussed problems and solutions. But what if we view problems through the lens of interpretation? Join us today as Gracie leads us in a discussion centered on difficult situations and how we view them. Show notes at https://www.tamiwest.com/post/ourproblems Connect with us Instagram: Consider Yourself Hugged (new account!) TikTok: Short clips and stories YouTube:...
CYH 139 Problems Resources Part II 26.07.2023 29:18
Join us today as Gracie leads us further in a discussion centered on uncovering hidden problems in life AND working towards solutions for those problems. Topics include conflict avoidance, people pleasing, depression, being stuck in old habits, and negativity. Show notes at https://www.tamiwest.com/post/problemssolutionspartii Connect with us Instagram: Consider Yourself Hugged (new account!) TikT...
Episode 138 Identifying Problems & Solutions for Mental Wellbeing Part I 19.07.2023 34:33
Join us today as Gracie leads us in a discussion centered on uncovering hidden problems in life AND working towards solutions for those problems. Topics include conflict avoidance, people pleasing, depression, being stuck in old habits, and negativity. Show notes at https://www.tamiwest.com/post/identifyproblemsandsolutionsparti Connect with us Instagram: Consider Yourself Hugged (new account!) Ti...
Episode 137 Language & Mental Health with Shelly Houser 12.07.2023 33:33
Join us today as we chat with a woman who's as inspirational as they come! Shelly is a congenital amputee and has spent decades spent, the last 15 years speaking to politicians, disability organizations, corporations, and film producers on ways to provide and improve upon inclusivity within society. Through her leadership, she designs teaching simulations and presentations to identify gaps in...
Episode 136 Your Mental Health Quotient Part III 05.07.2023 34:56
Join us today as we finish our discussion of this wonderful tool to assess your current mental well-being. The MHQ is: "a snapshot of your self-perception along various dimensions of mental function that determine your mental wellbeing. It is not a measure of happiness or life satisfaction. You could, for example, be experiencing very difficult or sad circumstances in your life but nonetheles...
Episode 135 Mood/Outlook & Social Self: Mental Health Quotient Part II 28.06.2023 33:25
Join us today as we continue discussing this wonderful tool to assess your current mental well-being. The MHQ is: "a snapshot of your self-perception along various dimensions of mental function that determine your mental wellbeing. It is not a measure of happiness or life satisfaction. You could, for example, be experiencing very difficult or sad circumstances in your life but nonetheless hav...
Episode 134 Your Mental Health Quotient Part I 21.06.2023 1:24:46
Join us today as we present a wonderful tool to assess your current mental well-being. The MHQ is: "a snapshot of your self-perception along various dimensions of mental function that determine your mental wellbeing. It is not a measure of happiness or life satisfaction. You could, for example, be experiencing very difficult or sad circumstances in your life but nonetheless have all the capab...
Episode 133 Aces Part 2 Audio 14.06.2023 29:49
Welcome to Part 2 of Healing and the ACE's Survey. Make sure you listen to part 1 if you haven't already. Adverse Childhood Experiences can impact both physical and mental health throughout the entirety of life without intervention. Join us today as Tami, Gracey and Michelle take an inventory of the ACE’s (Adverse Childhood Experiences) in their own lives and the lives of their parents t...
Episode 132 Healing and the ACE's Survey 07.06.2023 22:10
Adverse Childhood Experiences can impact both physical and mental health throughout the entirety of life without intervention. Join us today as Tami, Gracey and Michelle take an inventory of the ACE’s (Adverse Childhood Experiences) in their own lives and the lives of their parents to investigate how those things may be affecting them today. We will then talk about the path to healing and the ways...
Episode 131 Codependency: If You Are OK, I Am OK... Or Am I? 24.05.2023 36:36
Today we're discussing the "If you are ok, I’m Ok" narrative and the impact on mental health. A couple of teasers: -Codependency definition: Being the caretaker of other’s emotion. This often occurs for your own sense of peace just as much as theirs. “If you are ok then I am ok”-Many of us were born as caretakers but boundaries are essential in maintaining our own mental health whil...
Episode 130 Living with a Diagnosis 17.05.2023 38:03
A mental health diagnosis of any kind can leave us feeling alone, afraid, and lost. In today’s show we talk about coming together for one another and realizing we are never alone in our struggles. Mental Health Statistics per Mental Health America50 million Americans live with mental illness in the US21 million adults live with Major Depressive Disorder in the US3.3 million adults live with Bipola...
Episode 129 Can We Do Anything to Prevent Mass Shootings? 05.04.2023 15:26
I made an executive decision: This will be the last CYH episode until the end of May. My world is full recently, and I want to devote plenty of time to my new co-hosts before we jump in with our first episode. We will spend April and part of May recording and then jump back in the end of May. I'm very excited about the future, and thank you for being on the journey with me! Now, onward...On M...
Episode 128 When Tragedy Happens: Talking to your children 29.03.2023 30:28
On Monday, March 27th, three children & three adults were shot and killed at the Covenant School here in Nashville, TN. How do you talk about a tragedy like this with a child? How do you support and reassure them? And how do you care for yourself during this difficult time? Today, Michelle Kixmiller and I want to take a few minutes to process this with you and equip you to provide support for...
Episode 127 Seeing Yourself as Others See You 22.03.2023 16:59
Saturday, July 1st, 2022 I began a journey with a group of friends that has been so powerful that I wanted to share a bit of it with you. A 12-lesson bible study wound up taking about 8 months, and I'm happy it did because we learned so much from it! The Elijah Project by Andrea Polnaszek, was the basis of the study, but it went so much deeper. Please watch/listen and be inspired to go on a j...
Episode 126 Mental Health & the Church Part 2 15.03.2023 27:53
I've said it a million times: It's time for a mental health revolution! And I mean that for the church too. Today, my dear friends Michelle Kixmiller (my former co-host) and Gracey Lichtenstein bring you Part 2 of issues around the mental health conversation in the church today. Find the highlights, promised links, and links to bios on Michelle and Gracey in the show notes. Show notes at...
Episode 125 Mental Health & the Church Part 1 08.03.2023 31:01
I've said it a million times: It's time for a mental health revolution! And I mean that for the church too. Today, my dear friends Michelle Kixmiller (my former co-host) and Gracey Lichtenstein discuss some issues around the mental health conversation in the church today. Part 2 airs next week! Show notes at https://www.tamiwest.com/post/mentalhealthandthechurch Connect with us Instagram...
Episode 124 How Feeling Inadequate Serves You (at least for a minute) 01.03.2023 24:11
Have you ever considered trying something new and you were so excited until... your inner voice screamed you weren't good enough? Today you'll learn how that voice temporarily serves you, and why and how to address it in the future! Show notes at https://www.tamiwest.com/post/feeling-inadequate Connect with us Instagram: Consider Yourself Hugged (new account!) TikTok: Short clips and sto...
Episode 123 Lead Like a Woman: Conversations with Grace & Salt with Melissa McCormick 22.02.2023 31:36
Today, Melissa McCormick will teach women how to have conversations that are both relational and also purposeful! She is our first guest for this season, and what a great one! About MelissaMelissa spent over thirty years navigating corporate America from entry-level to executive. She learned how to communicate and negotiate up and around the organization. Through her leadership experience she help...
Episode 122 Medication and Your Mental Health 08.02.2023 21:18
I am in the process of weaning off Lexapro and 10 questions came to mind on a recent walk. I hope you'll take time today to listen to my mental health journey as you process yours. Disclaimer: This is not intended to be medication advice, judgement, criticism, or any other form of interference in your journey. It's simply some things to consider. Your individual path should be YOUR decis...
Episode 121 Are You a Warner or a Welcomer: Choices & consequences 01.02.2023 13:32
What's your communication style? How is it helping you and how is it holding you back? Join me today as I share a story of yard signs and how we can use the analogy for greater self awareness! Show notes with links at https://www.tamiwest.com/post/warnerorwelcomer. Connect with us Instagram: Consider Yourself Hugged (new account!) TikTok: Short clips and stories YouTube: Full episodes + video...
Episode 120 Is the World Making You Cynical? (And what to do about it) 25.01.2023 22:47
This morning I was watching the news here in Nashville Tennessee. Mass shootings. Car break-ins. Ukraine. The flu. It’s no news to you that this is what we are bombarded with every day. But that’s not what prompted this episode, even though it’s certainly lens credibility to the topic. Last week my son's van was broken into. The good news? He wasn’t home when it happened. He doesn’t think any...
Episode 119 Two Hidden Motives for Judging Others 18.01.2023 15:24
Do you ever judge someone else or FEEl judged based on looks, competence, behaviors, etc.? We all do. Today we'll look at 2 hidden reasons for this behavior. Show notes at https://www.tamiwest.com/post/judgingothers. Connect with us Instagram: Consider Yourself Hugged (new account!) TikTok: Short clips and stories YouTube: Full episodes + video snippets Women’s Group: A Place for Women—ongoin...
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