Connection Codes

In this episode the Connection Codes team is talking about the subtle yet powerful impact of words and emotions in relationships. They explore how seemingly simple questions can carry deeper meanings and trigger unexpected responses, often rooted in past experiences and fears. They discuss how leading with emotions like joy and fear can foster genuine connections and reduce misunderstandings. The...

Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill share their unforgettable engagement story, marked by an unexpected fireworks mishap. They open up about the challenges and rewards of maintaining a long-term relationship, discussing the importance of addressing and processing emotional pain rather than suppressing it. They provide insights into the tools and practices that help couples connect on a deeper level, reveal...

This discussion centers around the issue of how past emotional wounds resurface and affect our current relationships. Tune in to hear about the misconceptions surrounding forgiveness and explore why old pains often feel as fresh as when they first happened. The team also talks about the importance of recognizing and processing these emotions rather than dismissing them, offering tools and techniqu...

Dr. Glenn shares his deeply personal journey, discussing the impact of his childhood trauma and the pressures that led him to adopt a false persona. He talks about the emotional toll of losing both parents at a young age, the survival mechanisms he developed, and the eventual realization of how these experiences influenced his relationships and self-identity. They discuss how complex authenticity...

Tera, Dr. Glenn, and Phyllis take on the relationship between identity and core emotions. They use "Inside Out 2" as a springboard to discuss how early experiences and memories shape our sense of self. They provide tools like the Core Emotion Wheel to help you process your emotions in real-time and build stronger connections in your relationships. By unpacking how identity influences the...

Dr. Glenn, Phyllis, and Tera are diving into the complicatedness of emotions brought to light by the movie Inside Out 2. They discuss how core emotions like joy, sadness, and anxiety influence our daily lives and relationships. They talk about the impact of suppressing these emotions and share information about how to bring them back to the forefront to nurture genuine human connections. Tune in t...

Tera welcomes author and speaker Justin Jones-Fosu to discuss the often challenging topic of conflict in our personal and societal relationships. With election season ramping up, conflict is more prevalent than ever. Justin shares tips and frameworks to foster curiosity and empathy, encouraging listeners to see beyond their own experiences. By discussing the importance of challenging perspectives...

Elijah Runyan is back to discuss the link between our emotional and physical health. Elijah shares his personal transformation story, explaining how important it is to address emotional walls to achieve true wellness. There’s also an update on Meg's courageous battle with cancer and exploring tools like the Core Emotion Wheel and breathing exercises that can help you manage stress and enhance...

Jordan and Erika Koop are back to discuss their journey from conflict-ridden interactions to powerful emotional connection. Jordan and Erika share how the Connection Codes framework helped them manage marital struggles, open up emotionally, and create a deeply fulfilling relationship. This episode is about the power of emotional fluency and the unexpected paths to intimacy. If you’re seeking to im...

Lydia and Sebastian, the first German certified Connection Codes coaches, are here to share their journey of struggles and breakthroughs when it comes to intimacy and marriage, facilitated by their use of Connection Codes. Their experiences show the influence these tools have in fostering deeper connections and overcoming cultural and linguistic barriers. This discussion reveals how emotional tool...

Elijah Runyan joins the Connection Codes team to share his journey from numbing pain with alcohol to finding genuine emotional connection. Elijah opens up about the deep-seated shame, guilt, and loneliness that fueled his coping mechanisms, making him realize the significant impact of facing and processing pain rather than masking it. Through these discussions on the subtle yet impactful ways we a...

Bridgett Blood joins us to discuss the raw realities of dating. We explore the power of showing up authentically from the very first date, the struggles of overcoming societal pressures to use a "stunt double," and the importance of self-trust in building genuine connections. Bridgett shares her personal experiences, highlighting both the joy and loneliness that come with dating, and off...

Echo Hill Vetter joins hosts Tara Wages, Dr. Glenn Hill, and Phyllis Hill to explore a revolutionary parenting approach that champions connection over correction. This discussion about the deep-seated traditions of disciplinary methods challenges the effectiveness of punishment and advocates for a nurturing environment where children learn through understanding and empathy. Echo shares personal ex...

Tera, Echo, and Bridget discuss the transformative power of respectful communication between adults and children. They explore the significant impact of emotional intelligence on parenting, bringing to the forefront the importance of creating safe, empathetic environments where children are encouraged to express themselves and engage with the world around them confidently. With heartfelt stories a...

Dr. Glenn Hill and his wife Phyllis along with Tera Wages unabashedly dive into nuanced territories of sex, intimacy, and emotional transparency within relationships. Dr. Glenn and Phyllis are experts in marital therapy and clinical sexology. Today’s discussion centers around whether sex is a desire or a need, and how this distinction impacts relationship dynamics. Through personal and professiona...

Tera and Wes Wages engage in a candid exploration of intimacy and vulnerability within their marriage. They discuss the often unspoken complicatedness of sexual desires and emotional needs, using their own experiences to illuminate the universal challenges faced by many couples. The couple explains how addressing past traumas and embracing open, honest dialogue can foster a stronger, more connecte...

Join your host Tera Wages, along with Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill, as they explore the intricate dance between joy and pain through personal stories and the revolutionary use of the core emotion wheel. Discover how facing deep emotional challenges within a family can open up pathways to healing and deeper connections, highlighting the surprising truth that profound joy often coexists with intense s...

In this episode we are journeying alongside the Koops, a Canadian family who ventured into the unfamiliar, embedding themselves with the Hills for an experience that transcends mere internship. Through laughter, tears, and moments of profound vulnerability, we explore the life-changing power of connection, the beauty of unexpected lessons, and the courage it takes to embrace authenticity in every...

Today we’re discussing emotional regulation, personal transformation, and the intricate relationship between the mind, body, and spirit with our esteemed guest, Dr. Margaret Nagib. As a Christian clinical psychologist, Margaret shares her profound insights on how integrating spiritual practices with psychological principles can lead to unparalleled growth and healing. Through her personal experien...

In this episode we’re exploring the multifaceted nature of joy, an emotion traditionally viewed through a purely positive lens. Listen in on a thought-provoking journey to uncover the complexities and potential pitfalls of unprocessed joy. From personal experiences to professional insights, we’re shedding light on how unchecked joy can lead to unexpected consequences in both personal health and in...

We’re discussing the complex nature of anger, distinguishing between its roles as both a primary and secondary emotion. Through a compelling conversation with hosts Tera Wages, Dr. Glenn Hill, and Phyllis Hill, we explore how anger can serve as a protective shield and a driver for change. By breaking down the misconceptions and uncovering the true roots of anger, the episode offers you a unique pe...

Life changes in an instant and this change has rocked all of our worlds. Today, we are sharing an update on what the Hill family is experiencing with a cancer diagnosis for their daughter-in-law. We talk about why laying the foundation for connection and processing is key before hard times happen and how we are navigating living in the moment today. To download the Core Emotion Wheel: ⁠https://www...

We live with the expectation that we can fully control our emotions. But, emotions happen to us. We don't get to choose when they fire. BUT, we do get to choose what we do with them. And there lies the power. Today, we are going to talk about societal norms and the role emotions play in our lives. Download the Core Emotion Wheel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.connectioncodes.co/podcast⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠ Enroll in Fou...

No matter how "ideal" parents are- we are all humans and make mistakes that leave pain. As we evolve into adults we find ourselves reliving moments from our childhood that have left scars. Today, we talk about how to navigate that conversation with our parents. We also share the impact of what can happen when we create a home where these conversations begin early on. This podcast is for...

How are you sourcing your energy? Echo Vetter shares the key components she looks for to determine if she is functioning from a joy point or a pain point. Pain is unavoidable, but creating moments of joy can bring the balance and energy we need to avoid burnout. This episode shares just how to do that. To download the Core Emotion Wheel: ⁠https://www.connectioncodes.co/podcast⁠ To enroll in Founda...