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Do I let them cry? Do I tell them to stop? When is enough enough? How can I be supportive but not indulgent?  Glad you asked because today we're gonna talk about how to parent when things are a bit emotionally turbulent with your kids. We're exploring the importance of holding space for your kids to experience their feelings, whether they are toddlers or teenagers. I know you naturally w...

Today we're diving into the oh-so-important topic of sexuality. We'll help you sort out your own ideas, understand sexual integrity, and tackle those tricky conversations with your kids. We'll also explore the delicate dance of modesty, finding the sweet spot between repression and healthy sexual decision-making. Dr. Jennifer  Finlayson-Fife shares amazing insights on creating an en...

The relationship is where parenting is at! NOT discipline. That's why today I'm...   Teaching you how to do "connection reps," simple two-minute exercises that help you stay grounded and connected with yourself and your children.  Diving into your most common thoughts when your kids have cray cray behavior. So you can r elease and replace them with something better.  Unpacking...

Juggling work, kids, and everything in between, feeling overwhelmed and unsure you're doing anything right. Managing all the parenting advice left you second-guessing and overwhelmed? Sound familiar? If you’re nodding your head, this episode is for you! Join us for a live workshop replay where Andee guides you through exercises designed to build confidence and manage parental overwhelm. Let&a...

From managing high emotions to practical tips for reducing conflict in various scenarios like the car, dinner time, and during the witching hour, this episode is packed with actionable advice. Plus, we’ll talk about the importance of routines, structure, and even scripting to help kids navigate their emotions and interactions better. Remember, the goal is not perfection but progress. Tune in to le...

As ​I ​walked ​out ​of ​the ​room, ​I ​firmly ​reminded ​them ​I ​didn't ​want ​to ​see ​them ​until ​morning. ​Five ​minutes ​later, ​they'd ​come ​out. I was a hot mess, frustrated and not liking who I was being with my kids. How did I turn it around? Tune in to find out.  Learn more here -->  https://connectmethodparenting.com Next Steps: Leave a review if you've been enj...

In today's episode, Andee's answering a question from a listener who wrote in asking about the right time to address off-track behavior or big emotions, and whether it's effective to teach during meltdowns. We explore this topic by breaking down the importance of timing, emotional readiness, and the developmental stages of children. Key insights include: Allowing 24 hours for emotio...

Cooperation isn't something you can demand. It's how you feel, not what you say, that increases the likelihood of your child WANTING to listen to you. It's the emotion behind the words, not the words themselves, that makes you come across as either pushy or patient.  Learn more here -->  https://connectmethodparenting.com Next Steps: Leave a review if you've been enjoyi...

Why do our kids have tantrums? What is a tantrum really? How do we help our kids when they're tantruming? That's what we're getting into today. Because raising humans and tantrums seem to go hand in hand. So let's understand the outburst a bit more so we can help them navigate the storm.  Learn more here -->  https://connectmethodparenting.com Next Steps: Leave a review...

"We don't stop playing because we grow old. We grow old because we stop playing." Hey there! Parenting often feels like a serious business with all the discipline, rules, and responsibilities. But does it really have to be that way? Do we really need to rely on those serious tools? What if I told you that play—yes, good old-fashioned fun—can be more effective than many traditional p...

Do you ever find yourself longing for that perfect day when everything is just right? Many of us fixate on the idea that problems are forever, believing that a perfect day will come when all is well. However, it seems like that perfect day rarely if ever comes. Let's talk about how to live in a powerful way where we feel Good Enough! Learn more here -->  https://connectmethodparenting...

Parenting can be challenging, especially when your child is experiencing big emotions. Struggling to provide the support they need during these intense moments? Today, we’re diving into the concept of "Stay." Learn how offering unwavering support, kindness, and compassion helps your child navigate their emotions. Discover practical steps to create a nurturing environment where your child...

Get ready for a real-life coaching session with one of my amazing clients as we navigate the tricky world of setting limits and dealing with consequences. We tackle bedtime battles, sticker charts, and finding that sweet spot between firm yet compassionate boundaries that actually work. This episode is packed with practical advice and insights into Connect Method Parenting that are developmentally...

Parenting can often feel like balancing between maintaining authority and nurturing a loving relationship.  Today, we're diving into Chapter 12 of the Connect Method Parenting book, focusing on "setting limits" with compassion and empathy. I kick things off with a powerful reminder: "It's not what you say, but who you are in that moment that matters." This sets the st...

You are in for a treat today! No matter where you are on your parenting journey, you’re gonna find value, and some real nuggets of wisdom in this special episode. Today, I'm joined by one of my amazing clients, Amelia, who completed the February Parenting Pivot (where parents learn the entire CMP Framework in 8 weeks) . During this episode, we dive into so. many. juicy. topics. Amelia shares...

I remember my toddlers trying to put on their shoes backward over and over again. They wanted me to watch but NOT help them. Today I started thinking about those crazy years when I had six kids eight and under, and a thought popped into my mind, "Your kids are figuring out the world one backward shoe at a time, and they need you to be there, really be there , through it all." Today, we’r...

Happy Wednesday! Today, we conclude the 3 Vital Parenting Decisions Series. If you haven’t listened to the episodes from Monday and Tuesday, check those out first because they lay the groundwork for today’s discussion. Today's Focus: Practicing extreme self-compassion. It’s essential. My coach emphasized the importance of being gentle and loving towards myself, even when I felt I had failed....

Welcome back to day two of the Connect Method Parenting workshop - 3 Vital Decisions! If you listened yesterday, you’ll remember we introduced the concept of stopping the negative energizing of off-track behavior. Today, we build on that foundation with the second decision: committing to using connection as your primary parenting tool. Stop Negative Energizing : Refrain from using punishments, rew...

Hey Friend! Welcome to the replay of a live workshop called 3 Vital Decisions. Over the next three days, (yep we're replaying them all this week) we'll explore three vital decisions you'll have to make if you want to transition from corrective to connective parenting. AND I'll give you an actionable challenge to go do with your kids today. Because change requires action.   Lear...

Throughout this book, we've been chatting about a Connect Method Parenting way of interacting with your kids. I've broken down the CMP philosophy page by page. Now it's time to break down the process. How you do Connect Method Parenting in real life. The tool I'm about to teach you is called Seen and Heard. Think of it like a sandwich. Learn more here -->  https://conne...

Ever wondered why, despite your best intentions, you sometimes fail to take action toward your parenting goals? In today's episode, we're exploring the perplexing gap between our aspirations and actions.  I'm sharing personal stories and practical strategies to help you stay calm, confident, and connected with your children. Learn how to harness the power of presence, acceptance, an...

Behavior is your child’s way of communicating with you. You’ve come up with stories about their messy room, refusal to do homework, and skipping out on family dishes. But your stories are wrong. What?! In this episode, we're diving into Chapter 9 of my book Behavior Is Information!  Learn more here -->  https://connectmethodparenting.com Next Steps: Leave a review if you've been...

When we fear and resist negative emotions, we suffer. And when we have compassion for it and allow it, we grow and thrive. Welcome to the Connect Method Parenting podcast, where correction is out, connection is in, and your kids want to listen to you.  In this episode, we're diving into an insightful coaching call replay from a year ago. Join me as I coach a mom through understanding and mana...

🎧 Dive into Chapter Eight: "Emotions are the Fuel," where I spill the tea on harnessing your emotions to supercharge your parenting game. 🌈 Ever feel like you’re drowning in frustration? I’ve got you covered. Learn to switch from "I am frustrated" to "I have frustration," and watch your relationship with yourself and your kids transform. 🗣️💭 And that's not all...

Do you find yourself tangled up in trying to control your kids? Wishing they would listen more, complain less, and for goodness sake go to bed on time?! But no matter what you try it feels like a losing battle?! You're not alone, and there’s a better way! In this episode, we’re diving into the art of focusing on what you can actually control as parents. I’m showing you how to shift your minds...