Confidently Insecure

OHHH YEAAAAHHH you didn't think we'd go all of mental health month without a specific focus on Kelsey's FAVORITE TOPIC now did ya?! THATS RIGHT!! May is mental health awareness month and this is a HOSTFUL episode filled with SO MANY FUCKING GIVEAWAYS AND TIPS AND TRICKS my lil' brain can't keep up!!!! From a BOOK READING about getting out of bed, a group pedicure sesh, and a wh...

'ELLO, u aight? I wunna tell ya, straight out tha YOUKay. My cheeky new mates & I speak well on tha INTERNATIONAL DICK, YEAH?! ...okay im sorry. I'll stop. I had SO MUCH FUN with these proud sluts, Florence and Reed from F*CKS GIVEN & Come Curious (Seriously, I learned SO much from their youtube channel!) about the pros and cons of sex culture over the pond!!!!! CHECK OUT OUR NEW *...

UTIs, Chronic yeast, Cramps, Clits, and SO MUCH MORE. Kelsey reached out to all her fellow vagina owners to just gather round and talk SHIT - of course, we do talk a lil' bit of love!!! ...but mostly we gather round to talk about the commonalities about the various vagaina problems we all seem to be facing.... thank you to all my lovely friends who were so open, vulnerable and REAL about your...

PCOS! ANXIETY! ACNE! AND MORE! THE GODESS kween of HORMONE EDUCATION - Candace Burch (@yourhomonebalance) answers ALL YOUR QUESTIONS about how hormones place a roll in our daily lives. I can't recommend getting your hormones tested ENOUGH!!! Find your baseline! I decided to wean off all medications & stopped birth control after 12 years before I got mine tested just to see WHO I WAS withou...

TW: Rape, suicidal ideation  How does healing after being raped even begin to occur?…what does the victim see as JUSTICE?...how can we guarantee change in this cycle of abuse? Marlee’s journey: deciding to spend 8 hours with her rapist to heal instead of going through the difficult ass-backwards legal system that probably guarantees no change has inspired me and completely changed the way I look a...

Wait...I hope that title wasn't too misleading because these are in fact TWO SEPARATE TOPICS! Okay - so with this virus its been a bit tough to get guests to come over (because, duh, not allowed) BUT FEAR NOT! because so serendipitously - two confidantes stepped in as GUESTS to share the awesome activism and awareness they are doing to make HUGE changes in other's lives. Yall just so selfl...

WOOOO! this was SO FUN and so exhilarating! I was SO NERVOUS to call and surprise some of you that have been doing amazing work during this time. In this episode I give it ALL to you guys - self care tips, stickers, weird 5am voice memos to myself, and A READING FROM MY BOOK!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH thank you all for being you and being kind to yourselves during this time if you want to learn a new...

LISTEN UP CONFIDANTES! I thought i knew everything there was to know about sex and masturbation. Until I met Remy. Which is unique because I've been having the big O for over 20 years of my life and Remy just came...2 years ago for the first time! AND NOW SHES THE BEYONCE OF CUMMING. REMY KIASSIMIR - HOST OF HOW CUM PODCAST didn't have an orgasm until the age of 28. So she decided to start...

SOUND THE ALARMS! ITS ANOTHER EPISODE OF HOES THROUGHOUT HISTORY: THE NIGHT WITCHES! #HtH huge shoutout to @JAZZMYNEJAY and follow her ASOS account @asos_jazzmyne I know with all the shit happening in the world you guys asked for something a little light - a littler FUNNIER and a little...HOEY-ER! So i present to you the NIGHT WITCHES. OOoOOoSPOOOOKYYYY WITCHES!!! or....ARE THEY? maybe they're...

**CHECK OUT OUR NEW MERCH STORE!!** WELL WELL WELL WELL WELL what do we have here? The end of the world? Over-panic? QUARENTINE?! Well...well...seriously, I can't deal with the stress of whats going on so what better way to take an hour break from this virus stuff to talk bout BUTT STUFF??! Zach Noe Towers, Steven (stove) Kanter, and KapSLap La DJ Lucas give their respective perspectives on AN...

Ahhh the construct of VIRGINITY! Its a tale as old as time. But we’re here today joined by @Lily_Marston & MAMA DARRAGH to talk all things hymens, backseats, and buttholes. Virgin Mary? I don’t know her.  Follow Lily:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgsgwY1juNJIYGgauQxjTlQ https://www.instagram.com/lily_marston/?hl=en LINK TO SONG:  https://open.spotify.com/album/39tNwVMO4zHA6QJZyuhuVo?si=u9...

we had to do it. I'm not happy about it BUT I COULDN'T NOT TALK ABOUT POLITICS!!! Theres so much fucking shit on my timelines and in my earballs every day about it!! And of course, with all my frustrations I know the only person who wouldn't yell back at me about this was a stoned white guy - my buddy and writing parter Ian Wolterstorff!!!! Who are YOU voting for? DONT FORGET TO VOTE I...

WWEEEOoooOOOO sound the alarms!!!! or...don't? wait...should I be freaking out about whats going on in the world with these outbreaks? Or can I keep on my regular scheduled program of managing MY OWN OUTBREAKS (hi yeast fections!) WHEN CAN I PUT DOWN THE GAS MASKS? Do those masks even help?? What about flying? IS IT SAFE or am I being xenophobic? Kelsey & Kapslap talk all things CARONA and...

OW OW OW OW OW OW OW OW OW -kelsey getting ready for this episode.    Seriously, could a pain flare (the worst of 2 years) have shown up at a better/worse time than during the recording of this podcast episode with LE DJ KAP SLAP JARED LUCASS?! Kelsey talks about being confidently insecure about the current virus spreading across the world, the crazy shit-uation with JAMEELA JALIL and finally, a s...

TRIGGER WARNING: emotional and physical abuse If you have questions about relationships and emotional or physcial abuse please visit: https://www.loveisrespect.org/ https://www.verywellmind.com/identify-and-cope-with-emotional-abuse-4156673 same sex relationships: https://ncadv.org/blog/posts/domestic-violence-and-the-lgbtq-community   I had to make a choice when recording this podcast. I had to m...

TRIGGER WARNING: talk of kobe and sexual assault  SO LIKE - if we have 7 mins left before the world is about to end who would you call? what would you eat? would you call your mom or your ex? DID YOU KNOW 19 YEAR OLDS HAVE ACCESS TO OUR NUCLEAR WEAPONS????? Chris Reinacher (@chrisreinacher & https://www.youtube.com/user/simpleput ) stops by to help us answer all of these questions while he tel...

WOW!!! Okay, before you drag me about the audio, know that I had SEVEN GIRLS on at the same time to talk about VAGINAS, pregnancy, freezing your eggs, and all the shit that comes with it SO CAN WE GIVE OLE KELSEY A BREAK?! IM SO THRILLED to bring on this week not only DEVIN LYLE (@devlytle) who is a brilliant producer (LadyLike, BuzzFeed) AND TURNS OUT EGG DONATION RECRUITER, but also 5 of my clos...

A love story of 2 fuckbois who met and thought they'd never ever EVER do traditional shit like fall in love or god forbid...MOVE IN WITH EACH OTHER!!! Why yes, Kelsey and Jared and both sworn off commitment until they were in their 30's but as the saying goes "it always happens when you least except it especially when it's with your neighbor who has the hottest piece of ass you&#39...

HAPPY 2020! AND WELCOME TO MONDAY!!!   ANOTHER HOE THROUGHOUT HISTORY YOU SAY?! Why YES, this year we are starting out with a BANG telling the incredible hard to believe hard as fuck story of CHIANG SHIH - the most deadly and notorious pirate you've never heard of!!!!!!! FOLLOW JAZZ:  @JazzmyneJay  FOLLOW US: Podcast Instagram/Twitter: @ConfidentlyPod Host @KelseyDarragh DROP US A LINE: Confid...

JUST A QUICK NOTE TO SAY HAPPY NEW YEAR AND........   THE PODCAST WILL START BEING RELEASED ON MONDAYS!!! We heard you loud and clear - you want to start your week off RIGHT! Get in the car, put it on your phone while you get ready in the AM, GET YA MIND IN THE RIGHT HEADSPACE to conquer the week! 2020 is going to be amazing for you confidants - I can't wait to see whats next!!   FOLLOW US @CO...

WATCH THE EMPTY SUITCASE SHOW: https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=585001872330084   The body pos movement has its pros and it's cons. Making a show around fat women and travel was something the internet hadn't seen before..UNTIL BOSS BITCH KRISTIN CHIRICO CAME AROUND!!!  FOLLOW KRISTIN: @lolacoaster  @itskristinchirico p.s. - we've got a FFUNNNNN change coming to you in 2020!!!!!!!!! BE...

botox, fillers, boob jobs! oh my!!!!! Dr. Nima Shemirani (@drnima_md)  of EOS Rejuvenation (kelsey's plastic surgeon) talks about how plastic surgery helps with chronic pain AND confidence. He cuts through the bullshit that the industry tries to sell you and gets to the facts of getting involved in the world of cosmetic surgery.    Visit Dr. Nima https://www.eosrejuvenation.com/ (tell him kels...

THIS IS A SPECIAL LIL TREAT FOR YOU AUDIO CONFIDANTES ONLY!!!    I suggest you listen while laying down in a nice quite room or with some headphones on so you can enjoy fully :)   HAPPY HOE-LIDAYS!!! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

AHHHH MOMS!!! Gotta love them! But what do we acutally know about them before we came outta their whoo-has? what was their life like before us? Perhaps we might be more similar to them than we thought? Kelsey's mom KRISTY joins the CONPOD to talk about life growing up in poverty, breaking out of her small town and building her way up to a multi-million dollar business..........and then creatin...

Get John's Book - I Used To Be A Miserable Fuck:  https://www.amazon.com/Used-Be-Miserable-Everymans-Meaningful-ebook/dp/B07BK3BYR4   THE ANGRY THERAPIST!!! Sounds right on brand for us, huh, confidantes? John Kim, a certified LMFT & life coach shares the secrets of a Fatherless America, how to murder dat ToXXic MaScuLiniTY & how to make men less trash.  FOLLOW JOHN: https://www.instag...