Confidently Insecure

Jenny Chang is THE NUMBER ONE SPIRITUAL PROFILE followed in the TIKTOK community (yall know Kelsey is still obsessed come on). And she's not your average....well, psychic??? future-seerer? Nah, shes just like us and shes WILD AS FCK! She's got some dope books out, some advice for our listeners, and even gives Kelsey an ACURATE AF tarot reading calling her out on some shit she was trying to...

After being named Teen Vogues 21 under 21, Forbes 30 under 30, and GLAMOURS Woman Of The Year, Nadya Okamoto (founder of @periodmovement) was CANCELLED by her peers for misrepresenting her history within the community and being called out by other women of color. Nadya had two choices - let the cancel culture define her, or DO THE WORK. Not only is Nadya here to talk about how she's starting t...

TIME TO GET ALL WITCHY UP IN THIS BITCH - but not the spooky halloween type spoopy - no no no confidantes we are in FALL we are in WINTER SEASON we are GETTING IN TOUCH WITH OUR INNER SELVES!!! But how exactly do you find your spiritual path without getting trapped in the capitalism and FAUXness of the wellness world?! AHEM IM LOOKING AT U DOTERRA ESSENTIAL OILS AHEM FEAR NOT! WIth David ( @fauxti...

Well well well.. .here we go confidantes! The biggest election in our nations history ends tomorrow (or does it??)! I hope you were a part of that history by VOTING (or you're going to vote in person tomorrow!!) With all the stress and emotional turmoil having a political opinion brings these days, I decided to reach out to my new hero and POLITICAL SAVANT @APOLITICALTEEN (his name is Gannon I...

PART 2 IS HERE BABY!!!! This week I continue our transgender education SPECIAL with none other than THE accidental-viral journalist MADDIE HALL! I surprise her with one of her internet favs ZACH KORNDIDDY HOT ANKLES (??) KORNFELD as we talk dating as a trans person, telling your friends you're trans, and zachs hair plugs??? Recap EPISODE 1: After going m-f-in VIRAL when she posted her pre-tran...

after going m-f-in VIRAL when she posted her pre-transition photos on twitter, journalist Madison Hall (or MADDIE AS WE KNOW HER) had to navigate the ins-and-outs of sharing her identity confirmation with the world! The CONFIDANTS have been asking for an episode all about transgender education so guess what... WE'RE GIVING YOU TWO EPISODES! That's right! come back next week to catch part 2...

**I AM SO SORRY THAT I DIDN'T RECORD VIDEO DURING THIS EPISODE. I WAS SO EXCITED TO TALK TO THESE TWO THAT MY MIND BLANKED ON HOW TO PODCAST. I APOLOGIZE*** Jack and Amy of the DATING STRAIGHT podcast are a delightful duo who truly...give it to you straight. We talk about Jack's "qtr life crisis" during covid & Kelsey tries to redeem herself with the Dating Straight audience af...

Do all your ex's look eerily the same ? Do you think you have a "type"? And are you somehow still falling for that BADBOY even during a global pandemic?! then CONFIDANTE you NEED to meet Damona cause she's going to analyze your habits better than your therapist! So why DO we have racial bias when dating and are we doomed to our internalized prejudice forever?! FEAR NOT!! DAMONA HAS...

HAPPY PCOS AWARENESS MONTH! Perhaps you weren't even aware that September is, in fact, PCOS (Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome) awareness month! AND THATS OKAY! It's a subject that we aren't giving enough awareness to!! We were lucky enough to speak with the incredible Julie Dillon (anti-diet, fat-positive. registered dietician) and Laura Burns (creator of Radical Body Love Yoga and badass l...

PRE-ORDER KELSEY'S FIRST BOOK! DON'T F*CKING PANIC - the sh*t they don't tell you in therapy about anxiety, panic disorders, and depression. THIS WEEK!! Berrion Berry (so fun to say) stops by to tell us WHY HOLISTIC treatments for PERIOD PAIN and all things vaginas became her life calling and how YOU can have less painful periods ASAP!! And of course, you know any chance Kelsey gets to...

If I had a dollar for every time I thought about starting an Only Fans during quarentine, I'd probably have as many dollars as I would have if I were just to START THE DAM THING. How are people making cash money RN off OF? What about the classic SEX WORK itsself?! How has it changed?! How will it change forever after quarentine? We chat with Dancer/ProStripper and host of Stripper Stories &#34...

WEEHHHOOOO SOUND THE ALARMS! Ya'll been asking - so we delivered. A Hoes Throughout History SPECIAL - this is the first time we've done A MODERN HOE!!! ANd WHO BETTER than the wap queen herself - CARDI B. This episode is full of va-jay jay, Jazz tells us if she's ever sucked a d*ck or not, and the MEANING OF LIFTING UP OTHER FEMALES. LMao what a show description huh?! ORDER MY BOOK HER...

PRE-ORDER KELSEY’S FIRST MENTAL HEALTH BOOK “DON’T F*CKING PANIC” here!  https://shopc.at/dfp ALIX. FREAKIN’. PEABODY. Is a straight up huuuuuustler honey. She’s dominated the wine industry in the amount of time it takes you to pronounce Sauvignon Blanc! She’s raised 7 MILLLLLLION DOLLARSSSS for her WINE IN A CAN company (thats Made By Chicks, of course) BEV!!! @drinkBev BUT *GASP* At what cost?!...

Mr. Robot has been regarded as one of the most accurate representations of living with a mental health disorder on television (now on Amazon Prime!). But WTF is it like to BE on the show when you have extensive expirence in the mental health world yourseLF?! Painter, Actress, mental health advocate and all around badass, Carly Chaikin lets Kelsey come sit on her couch and talk about it all - they...

CANT DO IT ANYMORE!! IM AT MY VAGINAS END!!!!!  It’s time to talk yeast. Chronic yeast. WHY. HOW. WHEN. WHAT IS THRUSH AND HOW DO AFRICAN FROGS PLAY A ROLE IN THIS WEEKS EPISODE?!!? Kelsey talks her chronic yeast infections, where she’s been in active denial about it and lets off some steam since she’s been on this no-sugar CANDIDA DIET! Good luck yall…u gunna need it.. PRE ORDER DON’T F*CKING PAN...

PRE-ORDER "DON'T F*CKING PANIC" AUGUST 16th **MARK YOUR CALENDARS!!!!** THE BIG DIRTY 30... or how could it possibly be that big of a deal with everything happening in the world? How has society set up women vs men vs those who identify as neither or fluid to be set up in this world for this GIANT MILESTONE?!?!? Kelsey's big 30th birthday is right around the corner and she reflects...

WHEWWW - is it a nightmare? folklore? a bad dream? Nope. It really happened. Kelsey really got a boric acid pill stuck in her urethra. Yep. You read that right! Find out exactly wtf happened and some tips and tricks on getting the lowest bill possible when you go to the emergency room!! shout out to all the doctors and nurses who are working so hard during this pandemic!! FOLLOW US: Podcast Instag...

Are you a good witch or a bad witch?! CAN YOU TALK TO DEAD PEOPLE?! SHOULD I TRUST MY GUT OR DO I JUST NEED TO FART?! Healer/Witch/Creator/Badass friend of Kelsey's and fellow Producer on the Justice4Saraya Documentary STEPH BAER stops by to give us the 101 basics of ENERGY HEALING CLEAR THE ENERGY IN YOUR ROOM: https://youtu.be/vyVbSm1Gyh4 BAER INTENTIONS: http://baerintentions.com @baerinten...

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**THIS EPISODE IS NOT INTENDED TO REPLACE MEDICAL ADVICE FROM YOUR DOCTOR! ALWAYS SPEAK WITH YOUR MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL BEFORE TRYING BEE VENOM THERAPY*** Brittany's Viral Tik Toks about Bee Venom Therapy: https://www.tiktok.com/@britterbeez?source=h5_m https://www.britterbeez.com/ @Britterbeez Instagram MORE INFO ON BEEN VENOM THERAPY: https://www.beeculture.com/bee-venom-therapy/ ncbi.nlm.nih...

the viral video that sparked it all: https://twitter.com/briantylercohen/status/1268198096825008130 GoFundMhttp://bit.ly/thepromisefund8dxZS Cash app: $GivionneJordan Pharaoh Almighty “Gee” Jordan Jr was arrested after peacefully protesting and kneeling in front of riot cops as he screamed “I love you. I am not your enemy”. After 40 million views and the pressure of becoming an accidental activist...

EXACTLY 365 days later...after one of the most dangerous drinking experiences of her life, Kelsey reflects back on what it took to get here, the shit they don't tell you about getting sober, and shows how great life is without alcohol.  If you suspect you might have a funky relationship with drinking, please check out: https://alcoholaddictioncenter.org/alcoholism-resources/ thank you to all o...

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Orginizations accepting donations by Tribe: Minnesota Freedom Fund:   A community-based nonprofit that combats the harms of incarceration. Donate  here .  Official George Floyd Memorial Fund : A fundraiser created by Philonise Floyd, brother of George Floyd. Donate  here .  Black Visions Collective:  An organization dedicated to Black liberation and to collective liberation. Donate  here.   Reclai...

CALLING ALL HOES! This memorial day (historical, right?), we're learning about a revolutionist who is undoubtedly THE MOST FAMOUS WOMAN IN COLOMBIAN HISTORY!!!....and yet...once again...WE AINT NEVER HEARD OF HER! Well thank GOD KARI KOEPPEL wrote an entire ass book about these women we need to know: Strong Women: 15 Biographies of Influential Women History Overlooked AND! Kari was kind enough...