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168: Focus | How to Remove the Distractions What are your distractions? We need to recognize what they are and when they happen. Make a schedule so you can do what you need to do. It's a great idea to set a timer for those things that lead you into distraction. Here are 5 tips for you... 1. Create a schedule - including the things that lead to distraction. Limit the time for that. 2. Setting Goals...

167: Stop and Get out of the TrafficPsalm 46:10 tells us, "Be still and know that I am God." He tells us to take a long and loving look at Him. Stand quietly before the our all powerful God and honor Him with your worship and your praise. Spend time at the feet of Jesus and listen to what He has for you. As you engage Jesus, you will learn that He has more for you. In "Praying like Monks" by Tyler...

166: 5 Ways God's Love Makes a Difference in How we Live The 5 P's... 1. Privately - God's love should be changing us in ways only we know about. He influences our thoughts, our relationship with Him, and our intimacy with Him. He loves us and that should change everything for us. 2. Personally - He authentically influences how we behave, what we do, and the decisions we make. 3. Practically - Bec...

Episode 165: Faith Fueled Goals We want you to be equipped to reach your goals. Enjoy these 6 steps guide you 1. Seek God first. (Matthew 6:33) Asking God to direct your day, your To Do list, and everything you do. We have to get out of the way and let Him lead us. Our goals should line up with His goals for us. 2. Ask God. (Matthew 7:7-8) We must seek, ask, and knock. Continue to seek, ask, knock...

164: Walking in Your True Identity We have been talking about our identity. If you haven't already listened, check out Episode 162 and 163. It is so important that you learn to walk in your true identity as a Daughter of the King. Ephesians 4 & 5 is a great place to start to get on the right path. You should no longer be living, being, or acting as you did before you knew Jesus. You are a new...

163: Identity Theft | Stop Believing the Lies We are continuing our conversation about identity. We are created by God, in the image of God. This is the beginning of us understanding who we really are. Be sure to listen to Episode 162 Who Are You? Today, consider that you may have been a victim of identity theft. If you are believing the lies of the enemy instead of believing God's truth, then you...

Episode 162: Who Are you? First, we must recognize the importance of understanding our identity is found in who Jesus is and what He has done. We must learn to distinguish the difference between the lies and the truth. We are created in the image of God. We are His Masterpiece. As a Daughter of the King, we need to stop the negative self-talk, the self-doubt, and stop listening to who the world sa...

161: Stop Conforming to the World Spend some time studying Romans 12:1-2. We are not to conform to the world and for ourselves. A good question to ask yourself is "What would Jesus do if He were me?". If we are anxious, overwhelmed, and hurrying - we are conforming. Transformation begins with our thoughts. How do we change the way we think? We change what we feed it everyday. Are we feeding it the...

160: Do you Have your Priorities in the Right Order? We are entering into a new year and God is ready to do a new thing in you and your life. How can you make sure your priorities are in the order that God intends? In 2025, let's focus on what matters and stop focusing on all the things that do not matter. Let's talk about what our priorities should be and how to keep them in the right order. 1. S...

159: Who is the Holy Spirit? Who is the Holy Spirit to you? What is His role in your life? God is a triune God and the Holy Spirit is one of His equal parts. He is a gift we receive when we surrender our life to Jesus. He wants to be your constant companion. He is your guide, your counselor, your teacher, and more. He is your helper. We are all in need of His help. He is waiting for us to invite H...

158: An Invitation: What are You Going to Do with Jesus? As Believers, Jesus is inviting us into more with Him? It is a daily invite that we get to choose whether we will accept or decline. Are you making excuses or accepting the invitation? Let's be intentional to invite the Holy Spirit into our life everyday. "Holy Spirit, you are welcome here!" He wants to be a part of our everyday moments - th...

157: Gratitude - Are we Thankful? We have much to be thankful for! God has given us a way of escape through Jesus. If that is all we can think of that we can be thankful for - then we have much to be thankful for! We can walk in freedom and victory. Grab a journal and take the time to be thankful. Being grateful changes everything. When you write it, you have a record of His grace and His mercy. G...

156: How Do You See Yourself? Do you have a self-esteem issue? Do you spend time struggling with your self image? If you do, you may be listening to the enemy instead of listening to your Creator. If you are spending too much time thinking about you - you may have a pride issue. No worries - just confess it and surrender it to God. It is so important to know the truth that tell us who we are in Hi...

155: How to Become an Influencer Who do you allow to influence you? There are so many influencers for products and plans, trying to lead you to make purchases and follow them. As Believers, how do we influence others? Can we become influencers for the Kingdom? Is this what Jesus is talking about when He instructs us to be the salt of the earth? We are to bring "flavor" to those around us. We shoul...

154: Parenting Young Adult and Adult Children Many times when we listen to parenting podcasts they focus on small children or teenagers. But today we are diving into the How To's of parenting young adults and adult children. Is it even called parenting? This is so different than parenting our children when they are little. It is important to recognize that your children are adults who are making a...

Episode 153: Let Talk About it... Conflict, part 2 After listening to Pastor Jonathan Wallace talk about dealing with conflict on Episode 152, we needed to continue the conversation. Conflict can reveal areas that we need to give attention. Sometimes we may need to set boundaries around our conversation regarding the conflict so we don't engage the downward spiral Jonathan mentioned. How can we do...

152: Dealing with Conflict Conflict is hard and it certainly is not fun. We struggle with conflict and don't know how to move through it in a healthy way. Listen as Pastor Jonathan shares that conflict is necessary and can be a blessing if we approach it the right way. It can bring growth in our relationships, in our circumstances, and will force us to deal with the things we would rather not deal...

151: Let's Talk About it... Marriage, part 2 On our last episode, Pastor Jonathan Wallace shared with us, "What your Husband wants You to Know. It was such a good conversation and we were all convicted and encouraged by what he had to say. But, we couldn't just leave it. Once he left the room, we dove back into conversation about what he had shared. Come listen in. Here are some of our takeaways.....

150: What Your Husband Wants You to Know We are excited to have a special guest today - Pastor Jonathan Wallace of Getwell Church in Southaven, MS. He is sharing with us the male perspective to marriage. Marriage is a precious gift that God has given to us. But if we are honest - it is a struggle. Could it be that we are a part of the problem? This conversation will help us do better and be better...

149: What to Do When You Don't Know What to Do Join us as we share 3 things you can do when you do not know what to do. 1. Pray. Take it all to God. He will meet you in your despair. It may require you to repent and release your pride and selfishness. Lay yourself down so you can hear from Him. Seek Him first. The scriptures tell us that when we seek Him, we will find Him. As you pray and cry out...

Episode 148: Do I Have a Purpose? You were created on purpose and filled with purpose by your Creator. Our purpose is to glorify our Heavenly Father, to fear God, and keep His Commandments. We are to follow Jesus and lead others to Him. When we read in Genesis that we are to be fruitful and multiply. This isn't only bearing children, it is also spiritual multiplication. Jesus never multiplied phys...

Episode 147: Engaging Foundational Truths If we are not engaging the truth, then we are listening to the lies of the enemy. He wants to kill, steal, and destroy you and it all begins by hissing lies in your ear. Be diligent to not listen to the lies. Instead lean into the truth that is found in God's word. The power of life and death lies in the tongue. Be careful what you say to yourself. Be care...

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145: Our Favorite Things We have a fun episode for you today. We are sharing some of our favorite things. Enjoy getting to some things about us you didn't know. We will share some of the links for you. Life Application Study Bible, New Living Translation, 3rd Edition. Here is the link to Pam's Bible - https://www.amazon.com/dp/1496455282?ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_fed_asin_title riflepaper.com for Pam's s...

144: I Declare! Today, we are talking about declarations. Have you ever made a declaration? Have you ever thought about what you should declare? Job 22:28 says, "You will also declare a thing, and it will be established for you; so light will shine on your ways." What are the declarations that we should make as Daughters of the King? We encourage you to list out 5 Declarations - declaring this is...