Confident Christian Influence | Leadership, Intentional, Clarity, God’s Plan, Time Management

How to Live the Life God Designed for You: 10 Life-Changing Lessons from Colossians 3 Have you ever wondered... Am I really living the life God created me to live? If you've been praying for clarity about God's purpose, seeking His direction, or longing to become the woman He created you to be, this episode is for you. While spending time with God in Colossians 3, I found myself writing down ten l...

Have you ever found yourself praying, "God, if You'll just show me the whole plan, I'll do it." Friend, what if God never intended for us to see the entire journey? In this episode of Confident Christian Influence, we're talking about why God often reveals the next step—not the whole plan. If you've been waiting for complete clarity before moving forward, this conversation is for you. You'll disco...

Have you ever wondered if you missed God's plan for your life? Maybe you're in midlife and looking back at opportunities you didn't pursue, dreams you set aside, or mistakes you wish you could undo. Perhaps you're asking yourself, "Is it too late for me?" In this encouraging episode, Pam shares a powerful reminder: God's purpose for your life does not come with an expiration date. Whether you're 4...

Don't miss out on fulfilling the plan and the purpose God has for you. Don't miss your calling. Richard Blackaby said, "Some people never experience the mighty work God intended to do in and through their life because they don’t have the patience to allow God to bring His work to maturity." That quote is what has led us to this episode. There are 5 Non-negotiables if we want to experience God's di...

Are you a Christian woman who longs to be a strong leader and leave a lasting legacy? Then this episode is for you.  I believe you are called to lead and lead well - shining your light as you rise up to do the right thing for the right reason, as you serve for God's glory, and as you love others. That sounds really good - but how do we do it? Well, it all starts with the decisions we make. Today i...

Simple daily practices that changed my life and helped me grow in faith, confidence, and influence.  We all have habits that deplete us and rob us of becoming the best leader we can be and from living our best life. Some of our exhaustion, overwhelm, and fatigue is greatly impacted by our the poor habits and ruts we fall into. When we are intentional to establish habits that replenish us - it chan...

Mama, there is no greater leadership position you hold than being a mom. You owe it to your children to learn to lead as well as you possibly can. There are some core principles for us as Christian moms that we should be intentional to follow. When we do, we increase the opportunity to intentionally influence our children and make a lasting impact in their lives. Listen as I walk through a few of...

Do you ever feel like you’re meant to do more… to lead, to influence, to make an impact… but something keeps holding you back? You’re not alone. So many Christian women feel called to leadership, yet struggle to fully step into it with confidence and clarity. And often, the real issue isn’t a lack of ability—it’s what’s happening beneath the surface. In today’s episode, we’re uncovering what’s rea...

6 Essential Elements of Intentional Christian Leadership Description: What does it really take to lead well as a Christian woman? In this episode, I’m sharing the 6 essential elements of intentional Christian leadership—the foundation for leading with clarity, confidence, and purpose in your work, your home, and your community. If you’ve been feeling stretched thin, unsure of your next step, or wa...

Think of all the amazing stories in the Bible. God uses ordinary people to accomplish extraordinary things. We are still talking about these stories 2000 years later.  How might God use your story? Do you share your story? What is your story? Take some time and look back over your life. What has God done in your life? How has He used what you have been through to grow you and stretch you? How have...

If you’ve ever felt busy but not fulfilled… this episode is for you. So many women are trying to manage their time better—but still feel scattered, overwhelmed, and pulled in too many directions. In this episode, we’re shifting the conversation. Because time management isn’t just about getting more done… it’s about leading your life with intention and asking "Master, what matters?" Because what ma...

Learning to Connect: The Key to Fulfilling God’s Plan and Leading Well If you’ve ever felt like you’re trying to lead… but something is missing—this episode is for you. In my last episode, we talked about the five areas of support every leader needs. But today, we’re going deeper—because support doesn’t just happen. It’s built through connection. And the truth is… If we don’t learn how to connect...

Do you have a strong support system? Have you forgotten any areas where you need support?  Do you know it's a part of God's Plan for you to have a good support system in place in order to lead well. In this episode, Pam Pegram is sharing 5 areas of support every strong leader needs. Without these 5 - we will not lead at our highest level.  Leadership is challenging. You are not meant to go it alon...

We avoid them because we fear  hurting someone conflict losing relationships being misunderstood But, the best thing we can do is not wait - have the hard conversation. We just need to do it the right was. As a Leader it is our responsibility to lead well. That means avoidance is not the answer. Clear, direct, and respectful conversation is in order.  Don't delay - have it today. Here are some tip...

What is causing you to wait, to stay stuck, instead of answering the calling on your life? You feel it - this call to more.  But you are not stepping into it. Being stuck creates tension. Why are you stuck? Are you confused and just need some answers? Are you afraid of not getting it right, fearing failure, or worried about stepping out of your comfort zone?  If you stay stuck - you are costing yo...

Do you feel called to lead… but unsure what your next step is? Maybe you know God is stirring something inside of you—a desire to make an impact, influence others, and step into a greater purpose. But instead of moving forward, you find yourself overthinking, second-guessing, or waiting until you feel “ready.” In this episode, we’re talking about what it really means to step into Christian leaders...

What’s the difference between knowledge and wisdom in leadership—and why does it matter so much? In this episode, we’re diving into 7 common leadership mistakes that happen when you lack godly wisdom. Because the truth is, you can be experienced, driven, and even grounded in Scripture… and still make decisions that lead to confusion, burnout, and misalignment. Biblical wisdom is more than intellig...

Courage is one of the most essential qualities of biblical leadership, yet it is one of the most difficult for leaders to consistently choose. The Bible does not define courage as the absence of fear. Instead, Christian courage is confidence in God's presence, God's promises, and God's strength. Throughout Scripture, God repeatedly tells His people to “be strong and courageous” because He is with...

What does it truly mean to lead like Jesus? In a culture that celebrates power, position, and personal success, the Bible teaches something radically different. According to Scripture, true leadership begins with serving. Jesus Himself modeled this when He said in Mark 10:45, “The Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve.” The greatest leader who ever lived chose the posture of a servant...

What makes people trust a leader? Talent helps. Experience helps. But the leadership quality that ultimately determines your influence is integrity. In this episode of Confident Christian Influence, leadership coach and speaker Pam Pegram shares why integrity is the foundation of trustworthy leadership and how it shapes your ability to intentionally influence the people around you. Whether you lea...

One of the Biblical principles that we need if we are to lead like Jesus is humility. It is a part of God's plan for our life. Humility dictates what we say and do and will  turn us into a leader that other want to follow.  In order to be a strong leader, we must have humility. Interesting, huh? You probably don’t list that as one of the elements of strong leadership – but without humility – you w...

Are you still making excuses and shrinking back when it comes to leadership? God is calling you to "more" and that requires you to be obedient and rise up. Listen in as Pam shares 5 Biblical Principles that will put you on the path to fulfilling God's Plan for you.  Here are the Scripture References... 1. Humility - Philippians 2:2-4 2. Integrity - Psalm 78:70-72 3. Service - Matthew 20:26-28 4. C...

You are influencing others at work, out in the community, and at home. If you aren't intentional - you just might have a different influence than the one you want.  When we are not intentional we lose trust and respect, we have relationship issues, and we miss out on fulfilling our own potential.   Today let's dive into how become intentional to have the right kind of influence. Let's look at prac...

Do you filled called to more? Do you want to answer the call, but you are filled with questions, feel ill equipped, and not sure you are the one He should be calling? Well, you are not alone. Listen in as Pam reminds you of Moses, His insecurities, and how God used Him. Was it because Moses was awesome or was it God who was awesome. Be sure to jot down the 4 steps taken from Deuteronomy 31:8 that...

Many Christian women feel called to leadership—but quietly shrink back when it’s time to step forward. Playing small doesn’t always look like rebellion. Often, it looks responsible. Careful. Humble. Busy. Overextended. Waiting for more clarity. But here’s the truth: playing small is costing you influence. In this episode, we explore how shrinking back from your calling impacts your leadership, lim...