Confessions of a Recovering Micromanaging Perfectionist Martyr

What makes us the kind of person others truly want to be around—especially our own kids as they grow? After watching a powerful scene in Fargo , I dive into why I changed my approach to life and parenting to foster deeper, more genuine connections. In this episode, I explore the journey of becoming someone who can offer love, acceptance, and joy to others, and how that transformation has reshaped...

It’s my birthday, TeamConfessioners, and I’m feeling all the signs of getting older—from endless “one more things” to sidestepping downtown traffic. But this year, I’m gifting myself something special: permission to evolve instead of fighting the changes. Join me as I reflect on aging gracefully, letting go of the need to “keep up,” and embracing adaptability. After all, the goal isn’t to stay the...

Overwhelmed? Same here. But thanks to a 91-year-old sage I met on vacation, I’ve learned a little secret. In this episode, I dive into how a simple phrase helped me tackle my own interruptions and set healthier boundaries. Listen in as I share my journey to cut down on self-created distractions, find clarity, and reduce that constant frenzied feeling. It’s amazing how small changes can make a big...

In this episode, I get real about why I openly invite my kids’ teachers to let natural consequences play out. Rather than shielding my kids from failure, I believe in empowering them to take responsibility and learn from their own mistakes. From a middle-school “hole” our eldest had to climb out of, to today’s parent-teacher conferences, I’ll share how G Man and I support our kids in building resi...

What does it mean to truly honor someone else’s struggle—even when we haven’t walked in their shoes? In this episode, I dive into how we can use empathy, inspired by the Meisner Technique, to connect with others in their moments of pain or challenge. Whether it’s big life changes or everyday stresses, I share ways to show up for loved ones without judgment. Join me as we explore how honoring each...

Ever wonder how self-discovery can transform your connections and bring more peace? In this episode, I break down the 10 foundational pillars that have guided my own journey of personal growth. From empathy and self-awareness to time management and gratitude, these pillars have reshaped my relationships—especially with my family. Tune in for a real look at the simple (but not always easy!) steps t...

In this episode, Mags talks about a transformative piece of advice that propelled her from hesitation to action, despite facing personal challenges. Discover the mindset shift that helped her overcome imperfection and fear, all wrapped up with a touch of humor and heartfelt stories. What's the secret that changed everything for her? Plus, a special sneak peek at an exclusive offer for email s...

Ever realize how much you care about what the right people think? This week, I explore the difference between caring about everyone’s opinion and valuing the perspectives of those who truly want the best for us. Join me as I reflect on the importance of identifying supportive relationships, recognizing toxic influences, and focusing energy on people who uplift us. Plus, tune in next week to learn...

In this episode, Mags  explores the world of online health advice as she debates her water intake. But realizes it's not just about hydration; it's a quest for validation in an information-saturated age. She reflects on seeking advice when we actually crave affirmation and extends a warm, humorous nod to everyone's efforts in managing life's challenges. Tune in as Mags shares i...

Spring chaos is here! While some things are beyond our control, there’s also power in recognizing when our plates are too full. This week, I discuss how to kindly back out of overcommitments and prioritize peace amidst busy schedules. With tips on saying "no" and insights from friends who inspire self-advocacy, I’m embracing the art of letting go to focus on what truly matters. Let’s sha...

Ever feel like your home’s chaos is a personal failure? Me too! Today, I dive into the overwhelming (and often unrealistic) societal expectations that make us feel we should have spotless, calm homes—even with kids in the mix. After countless attempts at organization, routines, and every so-called solution out there, I've finally realized that some chaos is just part of family life. Join me a...

Join us as we delve into the transformative power of personal passions in combating obsessive thoughts. Host Mags shares her journey of breaking free from the relentless cycle of fixating on negative thoughts. Discover how engaging in activities you love can provide an antidote to obsessive thinking and bring lightness to your life. From creative pursuits to personal anecdotes, learn how embracing...

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Today, we dive into the uncomfortable emotions around money—guilt, shame, and regret—especially when faced with financial loss. I share a personal experience of investing in myself that didn’t go as planned and how it led to an essential lesson about value beyond dollars. Discover how to shift focus from the pain of financial setbacks to uncovering unexpected silver linings and personal growth. Jo...

In this final February episode, we explore the role of compassion when someone in our life isn’t taking care of themselves. What can we say or do to help a loved one embrace their health and well-being? While we can’t control others’ choices, we can share our care, reminding them of their value and the ripple effect their wellness has on those who love them. Join us as we delve into the power of e...

Welcome to "Take it Easy Tuesday" (TET), the new Mags Holiday created to make those post-holiday reentry days feel less overwhelming. Ever find yourself flustered, trying to squeeze a week’s worth of work into a short week after a Monday holiday? TET is all about giving yourself the grace to ease into the week without piling on extra stress. Join us as we explore gentle strategies to rec...

  This Valentine’s Day, consider the power of presence as the ultimate gift. Dive into reflections on authentic connection, intentional listening, and how giving someone undivided attention can be even more meaningful than flowers and chocolates. Fend for Yourself Day JoinTeamConfessions!

This week, we explore the power of reparation and forgiveness in relationships. Discover how making amends, shifting focus, and letting go of grudges can open the door to deeper connection and mutual grace. Perfect timing for February’s theme of love and connection! Grudge Holding - Letting Go of Grudges Comes Down to One Thing JoinTeamConfessions!

In this week's post, I explore how my personal mission statement, along with the use of goals, serve as the key to unlocking the answers in my life. By documenting the choices that harmonize with the person I aim to be, my daily decisions actively shape and embody the person I aspire to be. Posts referenced in this episode: Twelve Steps of Parenting Do You Really Know How To Take Care of Othe...

This post provides a concise guide on formulating a personal mission statement, to help you define your core values, articulate long-term goals, and create a guiding framework for decision-making. Explore key steps and insightful tips to articulate a clear and meaningful mission statement that aligns with your aspirations and values. Posts referenced in this episode: I love how that camp director...

Ready to start Mission Statement Month? In this episode, we dive into what personal mission statements are and why they’re powerful tools for self-clarity and purpose. If you’ve ever felt that your choices aren’t fully aligned with who you want to be, this gentle, no-pressure journey will help you define and commit to your values. Tune in to get a fresh perspective on self-direction and learn how...

Creating a personal mission statement will help you become clear on who you are and what you stand for. It will also help you to make decisions in line with the person you mean to be more and more. Please join us this month to learn more about how and why you should consider writing a personal mission statement in 2024. How to Increase Willpower JoinTeamConfessions!

Can we rely on our willpower, or is it a resource that ebbs and flows? In this episode, we take a lighthearted look at willpower, self-discipline, and how a simple mindset shift can help us harness our inner resolve. Join us as we explore the ups and downs of self-control and what it means to believe in our own power. Tune in for a fresh perspective that may change how you approach the New Year an...

Years ago, I ditched high heels for comfort, but I recently realized that my shift in heel height also represented a shift in confidence. In this episode, inspired by Isaac Mizrahi’s take on the power of heels, we explore how standing a little taller can impact our self-image. Join us as we talk about reclaiming confidence, rising above the “slipper stage,” and discovering the small changes that h...

Prioritizing self-care during the holidays isn’t selfish—it’s essential. Inspired by Greg McKeown’s Essentialism, this episode explores why keeping ourselves on the list is crucial for a joyful season. From taking “sips” of skipped self-care to planning a “Fend for Yourself Day” on December 26th, we’re diving into strategies for maintaining balance. Join us for tips on putting self-care first, no...