Confessions of a Co-Parent

Cedric & Devorah close out the first season of the relaunch by reflecting on how much they’ve grown as co-parents and communicators. Then they switch gears with a fun “This or That” round before diving into listener confessions about bonus parents, emotional distance, and a family group chat fail. What You’ll Hear Reflections on the relaunch, growth, and structure A rapid-fire This or That on...

We’re talking mental health, motherhood, and why so many dads feel like they can’t crack. Honest—and necessary. Spoiler: Getting help is strength. What You’ll Get:✅ How Black dads can access help without shame✅ Motherhood’s mental load & sharing the weight✅ Prayer, therapy, community—stacking supports✅ Private processing, public peace✅ Confessional: “I’m the strong one—where do I get to b...

We separate child support from shared expenses, set clean categories/splits, and give scripts to keep finances neutral. Confessional: “Should support cover this?”—we map a fair plan. What You’ll Hear Categories & splits that work One tracker to end screenshot wars Neutral scripts that lower heat Confessional: back-to-school costs Try This Choose 4 categories + splits. Share a tracker. Use one...

Dating while co-parenting is tricky. We break down when to introduce a new partner, how to do it respectfully, and the no pop-up policy that keeps peace (and safety) first. The Confessional: a parent who found out about a new partner from their kid—what now? What You’ll Get: ✅ A step-by-step intro plan (text → meet → gradual kid contact) ✅ Scripts for heads-up messages & neutral meetups ✅ “...

We’re demystifying the ask—how to request help, delegate without micromanaging, and keep your bond strong when you’re not the “everyday” parent. What You’ll Get: ✅ Small asks that reduce overload fast ✅ Delegation without trust issues ✅ Building a village when family isn’t local ✅ Rituals for non-custodial parents to stay close ✅ Confessional: “Every other weekend—how do I stop playing catch-...

No pop-ups. Clear updates. Real respect. In this episode, we get specific about co-parenting boundaries—how to communicate without escalating, why “text first, then pull up” matters, and how to handle new partners, house rules, and unannounced visits. In The Confessional , a listener asks: “My co-parent keeps popping up at my house—how do I set a boundary without a blowup?” We give scripts, safety...

Cedric & Devorah dismantle the myth of the “perfect co-parent” and trade it for traits that actually work in real life— patience, communication, flexibility, consideration, and shared goals . They get into how social media creates fake benchmarks, why seasons change your parenting energy, and how to keep the kids first without performing perfection. In The Confessional , a listener says they’r...

Holidays are coming—and so are the logistics. Cedric & Devorah get real about splitting Thanksgiving/Christmas , alternating years, celebrating before or after the day , and how flexible plans + clear communication beat rigid rules. They talk long-distance years vs. living closer, why some families need a parenting plan while others freestyle, and how to handle the “I’m missing out” feeling wi...

Life has definitely been lifing." That's how Devorah opens up in the first episode of Confessions of a Co-Parent's relaunch—and honestly? It's the perfect way to describe what the last two years have looked like for her and Cedric. After a much-needed pause, the co-parents are back with better equipment, fresh energy, and the same unfiltered honesty that made people fall in love with the show in t...