COMMUNICATE LIKE A PRO

How can I convince someone to go into anger management training or treatment who doesn’t perceive there is a problem? This episode explores why anger outbursts occur and how to confront someone with an anger issue. Also, enjoy the humorous unedited audio at the beginning of this episode.

This episode focuses on bringing out a friendly mood in a relationship by asking curious questions and listening to what’s said instead of what’s in your head.

Are you getting your way at the expense of your relationship? This episode dives into conversational coercion, a negotiation and debate tactic used by I-Type Communicators that can lead to relationship turmoil fueled by unspoken resentment. Autio Quality: This episode has some audio issues halfway through, and you will notice Dr. O'Grady is slightly harder to hear. We believe that this episode is...

How do you communicate with yourself in your own head? Anxiety is energy. This episode covers how to shrink your anxieties using self-communication tools to reduce your everyday stress by 50%.

Do you find yourself in a repetitive conflict cycle with your partner? This episode focuses on proven ways to work out couple conflicts by understanding the underlying fears and anxieties of your Empathizer or Instigator "opponent." The episode also addresses when it's time to get help from a couples counselor.

How can you spot and communicate effectively with E-Type and I-Type teens? This episode teaches how to identify an E-Type or I-Type teen, typical parent interaction mistakes, and connection tips to apply if you have a teen or work with teens.

Instigators who welcome being wrong, become aware of others' feelings, and slow down are more effective. The “transforming" Instigator's goal is to access and use Empathizer strengths to deepen relationships and feel the joys of life.

We believe that Empathizers need “Insensitivity Training” while Instigators need “Sensitivity Training.” The “transforming" Empathizer's goal is to access and use the Instigator strengths to cope better with negative situations and feel more confident.

Moods don’t have to determine what you say and do. BUT how can you not let mean things hurt you when you're already feel hurt? In this episode, we discuss the common mood defaults of I-Types and E-Types and what you can do to get out of a negative mood riptide.

Your mood spreads like a virus. What is your mood reputation? Your mood dictates your reputation, personal credibility, and likability.

Anxiety occurs because you don’t “see” the two “invisible” I-E Communicator forces at work in your world. When E-Types and I-Types are aware of their unique inner voice and the inner voice of their opposite, harmony is created, and anxiety and conflict are reduced.

Who do you argue with? In this episode, we’re going to share The Ketchup Story with you from our book (page 94) to illustrate how complaining or arguing can be redirected to creative outlets.

The #1 skill associated with effective interpersonal communication is listening. Listening is the fix. How can Empathizers and Instigators improve listening skills to get better results?

Are resentments interfering with your relationships and peace of mind? In this episode, we explore what causes resentment and how to bridge differences in perception. Enjoy a nautical story about Riley's "shark attack" at the Newport Aquarium and the plexiglass walls that divide us.

Do you find communication goes south when it's over text or email? Text flights are all too common and can even end relationships. In this episode, we explore texting flights and what you can do about them.

Why can't we be more like dogs? This episode features a lighthearted conversation between Dr. O'Grady and Riley O'Grady reflecting back to Riley's childhood when she asked her father, "Why can't people be more like dogs?" This episode encourages us to be more like our furry friends who hold the key to compassionate communication.

Figure out how to typecast yourself with the NICI Assessment. Are you an Instigator or Empathizer?

Opposites attract but can clash. How can you resolve hurt feelings with your opposite communicator type partner? "I know I’m an Instigator and he’s an Empathizer. But my question to you is this: What’s the best way I can sit down and clear the air with him? I don’t want to make things any worse."

This first episode is about interrupting. What can you do if you are chronically getting interrupted?