COLORFUL SITUATIONS: A CONVERSATION ABOUT LOVE, MARRIAGE, AND EVERYTHING IN BETWEEN

Hey there ColorBeams!! In this episode, Suni and Liv unpack the people who always insist “It Wasn’t Me”—no matter the situation. From love and family to career and friendships, we explore how a lack of accountability shows up, why some folks avoid responsibility, and the impact it has on relationships. Plus, we share ways to set boundaries, protect your peace, and build healthier accountability in...

Hey there ColorBeams!! In this episode Suni and Liv dive into one of the most sensitive and impactful topics in relationships: Financial Insecurity. Money can be a source of stability, but it can also cause anxiety, conflict, and fear—not just in ourselves, but in the way we show up for others. What happens when someone’s actions are altered by financial struggles or the fear of losing money? Can...

Hey there ColorBeams!! This week we dive into the old saying: “Do as I say, not as I do.” We’re unpacking why so many parents use this phrase, even when their actions directly contradict their words. Should parents expect children to follow advice that they themselves don’t live by? Is it fair to tell kids to behave one way while modeling the complete opposite? And is this just a hypothetical pare...

Hey there ColorBeams!! This week we dive into a spicy, unfiltered conversation about women who identify as straight—yet they have had and continue to have same-sex experiences. We’re talking about the ones who say, “It didn’t mean anything” or “I’m still straight, I just like to play sometimes.” 👀 Is it curiosity? Is it fluidity? Or is it denial? We explore the deeper questions: • Should these wo...

Hey there ColorBeams!! This week we dive deep into identity, growth, and the unseen tug-of-war between who we were, who we are, and who we’re becoming. We’re exploring the three versions of YOU: ➡️ The Past You – the one with the mistakes, trauma, lessons, and wins. ➡️ The Present You – who’s trying to navigate life while carrying the weight of the past. ➡️ The Future You – the version you’re eith...

Hey there ColorBeams!! In this week's episode "Love Yours" we’re unpacking a tough but necessary conversation: Why do so many of us struggle to love where we are in life—our relationships, careers, or even just ourselves? Why does it feel like everyone else has it better? We’re diving deep into the comparison trap and the myth of "greener grass"—whether it's envy over your friend’s partner, their...

Hey there ColorBeams!! In this episode of Package Deal, we're unpacking the other parts of your relationship—namely, the people who come with your partner. 👀 From in-laws with no boundaries to navigating blended families, we're diving into what it really means when you marry someone... and their entire village. ✨ Should you have to deal with your partner’s family? ✨ How do you set healthy bound...

Let’s talk co-parenting after the love is gone—including how to survive the baby mama drama without losing your mind—and still make sure the kids get all the love, snacks, and stability they deserve from both sides. In this episode, we dive into what it takes to co-parent when the romantic connection fades but the parenting partnership has to stay strong. From managing boundaries to handling tough...

Hey there ColorBeams!! Have you ever had a best friend who felt like your soulmate—who could read your mind, your mood, finish your sentences, and knew your favorite order? That connection felt safe... until one moment changed everything. You crossed the line from friends to lovers. And suddenly, it wasn’t so simple anymore. Did the emotional intimacy of the friendship make you blur boundaries? Di...

Hey there ColorBeams!! Ever feel like you're being taken advantage of by the people closest to you—family, friends, or even your partner? In this episode we’re asking tough questions like: Did WE roll out the welcome mat for mistreatment?🤔 Sometimes we don't realize how our need to please, avoid conflict, or be the “strong one” teaches others how to treat us. And without boundaries, it’s easy to...

Hey there ColorBeams, Have you ever been in a relationship that looked perfect on the outside, but felt off on the inside? They called you multiple times a day, fixed every problem before you could even react, and wanted to be with you 24/7. At first, it felt like devotion… but eventually, it became too much. When affection turns into obsession and helpfulness becomes control, you're no longer in...

Hey there, Colors Beams! IF you feel like conflict is bad for your relationship...think again. Conflict doesn’t have to be a red flag — it can be an opportunity. A chance to communicate your needs, confront what's not working, and create real change. In this episode, we unpack conflict and why avoiding disagreements might be doing more harm than good. Sometimes, you’ve got to shake things up to mo...

The Big "C" in relationships is Conflict AND it’s not the end of the world — it’s the beginning of understanding because it’s not about avoiding it but about growing through it. How you handle it comes down to three things. Whether it’s a tough talk, a necessary shift, or meeting in the middle — real love requires all three. 🧠❤️ Can your relationship handle the Big C? Tag your partner or bestie —...

Hey there, Colors Beams! Are you finding yourself going in circles—moving, but going nowhere fast? Like a spinning top, life and love can feel dizzying when we repeat the same patterns and expect different outcomes. This week, we are talking about relationships, growth, and breaking free from toxic loops. If you’re ready to press pause on your own cycle and start fresh, tune in, and Let's talk abo...

Hey there, Colors Beams! Ever felt like the black sheep in your family — cut off, misunderstood, or judged for living your truth because you didn't fit the mold? In this episode, we’re unpacking what happens when family uses religion, tradition, or guilt as a weapon to try to control you. Sometimes, choosing yourself, your peace, your identity, and your growth means walking away — and that doesn’t...

Do You Really Want It? Tired of being the go-to friend for advice that never gets used? Welcome to the No Advice Zone! Let’s talk about setting boundaries and protecting your peace. Drop a comment if you’ve been that friend — and share this with someone who needs to hear it! Let’s go ColorBeams!! Full episode drops Wednesday!! LET'S TALK ABOUT IT!! Watch/Listen: Spotify: You’re already here—follow...

No Advice Zone Ever been stuck in the friend loop where you're basically a therapist but they never take your advice? Yeah… welcome to the No Advice Zone. Drop a “ME” in the comments if you’ve ever had to step back from giving advice — with love. Let’s go ColorBeams!! Full episode drops Wednesday!! LET'S TALK ABOUT IT!! Watch/Listen: Instagram: You’re already here—follow for more weekly content 📲...

Hey there, Colors Beams! Have you ever seen someone treat their parent or child like their spouse? Have you been that person? Whether it's going to your mom or child to make big relationship decisions, or venting to them about things that should’ve stayed between y'alls 4 walls—this is what we call a Colorful Situation where someone is a "parental sub." This can create real tension, confusion, and...

Hey Color Beams!! Have you ever been around when someone hurt and/or played with your friend's feelings? Were you quick to react without asking? Was the person who hurt them their spouse/lover and now your friend is mad at you? 😒😒 What happens when your loyalty feels more like overstepping? In this episode, we’re talking about that ride-or-die mindset, protecting your friends, and the importance...

Do You Have a Control Addiction? Let’s Talk About It!!! Do you feel the need to control things or the people around you? Is that instinct helping—or hurting—your relationships? In this episode, we're talking about control addictions in relationships. We often think we're being helpful or looking out for our loved ones, but are we actually overstepping their boundaries? When does caring turn into c...

What's Love Got to Do With It? (using our best Tina Turner impressions) Some say love conquers all, while others believe it's just one piece of the puzzle. What do you think—Can a relationship last on love alone or does it need some serious backup like trust, communication, loyalty, shared values, etc.? Come hang out with us and let’s unpack it together! Share your story, your perspective. Drop yo...

Have you ever wondered why you're not living your ideal life? As if someone else made the decisions for you? In the drawing call your life, do you feel that someone else is holding the paint brush? If you answered yes to any of these questions. Well you just may have a con artist in your mist and in a Colorful Situations! Let's talk about it Full episode drops Wednesday!! LET'S TALK ABOUT IT!! Wat...

Recap of Episode 3

Protecting your peace by setting boundaries isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. If someone says otherwise… well, that’s a COLORFUL SITUATION. Let’s talk about it! Link to the Gottman Feeling Wheel: https://www.gottman.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/The-Gottman-Institute_The-Feeling-Wheel.pdf 🎶 Intro Music: Music: No Games Erykah Badu x Andre 3000 Composer: Remdolla Email: remdollamusic@gmail.com BeatsS...

Does Your Cup Runneth Over?? Are you constantly pouring into everyone else... but forgetting to refill yourself?? If you have to think about it, the answer is probably yes. This is your gentle reminder that you can't pour from an empty cup. Self-care is not selfish—it's essential. Remember to keep a little for yourself. Full episode drops Wednesday!! LET'S TALK ABOUT IT!! Watch/Listen Now: Spotify...