Collecting Lessons

Xzavier Odom opens up about his career pivot, family, relationships, and staying true to his character through every transition. Just as genuine off screen as he is on, Xzavier expresses lessons he’s learned along his own journey. New episode every Friday! 15% off your purchase at Mantra Matcha with code LESSONS: https://promocode.to/mantra-matcha-blends-with-benefits/lessons-ilb 21% off your purc...

It took a long time to understand that I didn’t have to shrink myself for the comfort of others. Using your voice and allowing yourself to be visible is the first step to finding the truest version of you. New episode every Friday! 15% off your purchase at Mantra Matcha with code LESSONS: https://promocode.to/mantra-matcha-blends-with-benefits/lessons-ilb 21% off your purchase at Cozy Earth with c...

Your 30’s are all about finding your identity and becoming your most authentic self. Sam and her mom have a conversation all about what this decade means, despite different experiences. New episode every Friday! 15% off your purchase at Mantra Matcha with code LESSONS: https://promocode.to/mantra-matcha-blends-with-benefits/lessons-ilb 21% off your purchase at Cozy Earth with code LESSONS: https:/...

We all have felt situational anxiety, but sometimes we experience sneaky ways that anxiety shows up in our lives. It’s not a bad thing, but awareness can help you understand yourself and your nervous system. 15% off your purchase at Mantra Matcha with code LESSONS: https://promocode.to/mantra-matcha-blends-with-benefits/lessons-ilb 21% off your purchase at Cozy Earth with code LESSONS: https://pro...

We don’t always say what we mean, especially when there are feelings involved. Today we dive into commonly said phrases in dating and what they actually mean. 15% off your purchase at Mantra Matcha with code LESSONS: https://promocode.to/mantra-matcha-blends-with-benefits/lessons-ilb 21% off your purchase at Cozy Earth with code LESSONS: https://promocode.to/cozy-earth/lessons-lie Music from #Uppb...

We’ve all stayed in a place we’ve outgrown, whether it’s a job, a city, a friendship, or a relationship. We dig into the why behind staying too long and how to leave something you know isn’t right for you. 15% off your purchase at Mantra Matcha with code LESSONS: https://promocode.to/mantra-matcha-blends-with-benefits/lessons-ilb 21% off your purchase at Cozy Earth with code LESSONS: https://promo...

Sam gives advice part 4. Want to submit a question for next month’s episode? Submit questions to collectinglessonspod@gmail or @collectinglessons on Instagram. 15% off your purchase at Mantra Matcha with code LESSONS: https://promocode.to/mantra-matcha-blends-with-benefits/lessons-ilb 21% off your purchase at Cozy Earth with code LESSONS: https://promocode.to/cozy-earth/lessons-lie Music from #Upp...

Putting myself down used to be a self protection mechanism… If I hate on myself first, they won’t hate on me, right? But I learned that it further perpetuated toxicity, leading to lower self esteem and only attracting toxic partners. The way you see yourself and talk about yourself matters. 15% off your purchase at Mantra Matcha with code LESSONS: https://promocode.to/mantra-matcha-blends-with-ben...

I have never studied myself and my childhood more than I have this past year, and understanding the little me that is still beside me in my adulthood. Here’s to our inner child and the role they play as we grow into all versions of ourselves. 15% off your purchase at Mantra Matcha with code LESSONS: https://promocode.to/mantra-matcha-blends-with-benefits/lessons-ilb 21% off your purchase at Cozy E...

Happy nurses week!. Nurses have a few toxic traits that are inherently great for the bedside but not so great in our every day lives. It’s all about finding balance and caring for ourselves after caring for everyone else. Thank you Cozy Earth for your generous 21% off for listeners, code LESSONS at checkout. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/kidcut/you-me License code:...

Your 30’s are meant for reflection, redefining yourself, and unbecoming everything you thought you needed to be. These are the most impactful lessons I’ve learned while growing into the best version of myself. Thank you Cozy Earth for your generous 21% off for listeners, code LESSONS at checkout. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/kidcut/you-me License code: JAGHKTRJG2M...

Two college friends reunite to discuss life lessons, relationships, and old memories. Thank you Cozy Earth for your generous 21% off for listeners, code LESSONS at checkout. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/kidcut/you-me License code: JAGHKTRJG2MUOLEH Cover art by Looka.com

We cannot get what we desire by gripping to the outcome; release control and watch what grows. This episode discusses chasing our goals without attachment. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/kidcut/you-me License code: JAGHKTRJG2MUOLEH Cover art by Looka.com

This episode is for the sensitive, intuitive, and deeply compassionate empaths. The world is not your burden to bear. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/kidcut/you-me License code: JAGHKTRJG2MUOLEH Cover art by Looka.com

Two college friends reunite to discuss life lessons, relationships, and old memories. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/kidcut/you-me License code: JAGHKTRJG2MUOLEH Cover art by Looka.com

Sam answers your dating themed questions. Want to submit a question for next month’s advice episode? Email your question to collectinglessonspod@gmail.com Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/kidcut/you-me License code: JAGHKTRJG2MUOLEH Cover art by Looka.com

In this episode we discuss the cycle with a narcissist, the trauma bond, and how we can navigate a relationship with a narcissist if we cannot separate ourselves. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/kidcut/you-me License code: JAGHKTRJG2MUOLEH Cover art by Looka.com

Sam and her mom discuss dating, a woke generation, motherhood, and the importance of making others feel seen and heard. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/kidcut/you-me License code: JAGHKTRJG2MUOLEH Cover art by Looka.com

Growing older is a gift, but social media can sometimes makes it look like a curse. In a time of heavy editing and cosmetic procedures, it’s hard not to compare and wonder if we need to change everything about ourselves instead of wearing our age like a badge of honor. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/kidcut/you-me License code: JAGHKTRJG2MUOLEH Cover art by Looka.com

You asked, Sam advised for the second time. Also bonus clip of girls night with two friends from college. Want to ask a question for next month? Comment your question or ask on Instagram @collectinglessons Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/kidcut/you-me License code: JAGHKTRJG2MUOLEH Cover art by Looka.com

AI, social media, and the dating apps… are they actually conducive to dating or are they hindering our own discernment? We dive into modern technology and how it molds our world in dating today. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/kidcut/you-me License code: JAGHKTRJG2MUOLEH Cover art by Looka.com

Have you been curious about therapy? Have you heard therapy language online and thought “yeah this applies to my life circumstances”? Do you even need therapy? We’ll dive in to what therapy can do and finding the best fit for your growth and healing. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/kidcut/you-me License code: JAGHKTRJG2MUOLEH Cover art by Looka.com

Are we great at spotting red flags in the moment? Nope. But the more we acknowledge them, the better our discernment will become. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/kidcut/you-me License code: JAGHKTRJG2MUOLEH Cover art by Looka.com

You had questions, I had advice. That’s all. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/kidcut/you-me License code: JAGHKTRJG2MUOLEH Cover art by Looka.com

We can learn to be alone without feeling lonely, using solitude as a path to self-love and growth. Turning inward allows you to shed old versions of yourself and grow into who you’re meant to be. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/kidcut/you-me License code: JAGHKTRJG2MUOLEH Cover art by Looka.com