Coffee With a Shot of Cynicism

We're joined by Insider's Samantha Grindell (@sam_grindell) to recap all things season 4!

It's been a long season but we made it! The will-they-won't-they storyline between Lorelai and Luke is finally here - but it did it live up to your expectations? Rory and Dean are doing something naughty, in more ways than one - but is Rory really to blame? Emily and Richard finally spill their secret - but do we really care?

Family dynamics are on full display in the penultimate episode of the season! Everyone just wants to brush everything under the rug and never talk about it again. Well, tough! Lorelai and Luke are getting their very special moment and it is perfection. Rory and Jess are having a less perfect moment, but the tears are rolling freely. Excuse us while we go scream into a pillow! Why, Amy!?

We hate (not really) to keep coming back to Jess, but it's kinda hard when ASP makes him such a big part of the episode. Lorelai's feeling down about her relationship's demise, while Luke is on the hunt for a relationship of his own. When Paris finally realizes that she's not about that Geezer Life, said geezer pulls her back in with his tricks and schemes. And who would have thought that two marr...

We're confronting everyone this week! Jason is left stranded when Richard tries to protect his family, and Lorelai is put in a tough spot. Paris is slowly unraveling when it comes to Asher and we get to the bottom of their relationship and the power imbalance between them. Lane yells at New Lane and feels left behind.

A Friday Night Dinner scene with the most pointless conversation reveals something much deeper about the show and its relationships. A second dinner with old friends turns sour when Floyd decides to sue Richard and Jason. Carole, you're a shady bitch! You knew all along! What happens when an 18-year-old gets married right out of high school and you're still pining for your ex? Dean happens! Jeffre...

It's Paris' trip and we're all just along for the ride! We're talking about all things Spring Break and how it's portrayed in American media. We are once again pleading with you to reconsider your Jason opinions because he really is the best boyfriend Lorelai has every had up until this point. And you asked us to talk about the latest episode of Scott Patterson's podcast and, against our better ju...

The Original Lorelai Gilmore dies leaving behind her a path of destruction that has only been matched by a category 5 hurricane. How much does Emily Gilmore have to take!?

The brilliance of season 4 strikes again! This week's episode is all about Emily Gilmore and her obvious (to us) depression and feelings of inadequacy. That final scene in the episode is *chef's kiss!*. We're also taking a closer look at Dean, since the writers insist on shoving him down our throats, and Jeffrey makes a somewhat accurate analogy. Were you afforded sick days as a child? No? Neither...

Three Lorelais, three breakdowns - one more enjoyable than the other two. Gran is back and she's causing problems, like usual. You know who else is back? We don't even wanna say his name! We hate him! Sookie's showing us exactly why we have so many issues with her, the girls are missing each other and running to the men in their lives for comfort.

This is the best episode of the entire season - fight me! The writing, the character development, the plot, the dialogue... We can go on and on. Jess is causing turmoil all over - from the townspeople to his family members to Rory, who, according to Lorelai, is completely over the situation. If you look very closely, you can see the rift forming between Richard and Emily. In the final moments of t...

Are you familiar with the films of Demi Moore? You're about to be! When that conversation is over, we're talking about all the storylines in this episode, and it's chaotic. Lane and Mrs. Kim are still at odds, as are Paris and Jamie. Luke's sister, Liz, is in town and we're learning more about her relationships with the men in her life. Trauma? Abuse? So much of it where Jess is concerned! He's cl...

There are three story lines in this episode, but let's be honest, we only care about one of them. The Lane vs. Mrs. Kim battle 4 years in the making is finally gracing our screens and we have so many feelings! Because we also have to talk about those pesky Gilmore Girls, we're exploring Luke and Lorelai's friendship/communication issues and why people think that Rory believes she's the center of t...

Let's get something straight: friends don't just casually talk to each other about culs-de-sac. The "s" is silent. We're seeing a more human side of Michel, until he rolls baby Truman under the bed, and we're getting to know Jason, his traumatized dog, and his little quirks that lead us to a bedroom straight out of a magazine. Paris' new relationship has us questioning Rory's character and asking...

It's the podcast that keeps on giving! No, we're not talking about THIS podcast. We're talking about Scott Patterson's podcast, I Am All In. After we analyze his thoughts, we move on to Yale, where some heterosexuals are doing something with a ball - no homo! And we meet Brennan the Frog Guy. There've been a lot of frogs, man.

There's a new podcast in town and we're positive it doesn't like us. Are the Gilmore Girls fatphobic? Is ASP fatphobic? We're discussing one of the most glaring instances of fat shaming from the show and talking about our own body issues. The marriage jug storyline may not be as useless as we once thought, Lorelai thinks Luke's life is her life but her life isn't Luke's life and Emily's feeling th...

It's the only episode to win a major television award and for good reason! The costumes are gorgeous. But are the performances as amazing? Kirk is doing some light reading to prepare for the role of a lifetime and the band is auditioning new guitarists (spoiler alert: not all of them are winners). Have you ever heard of a couple wanting to get divorced and date at the same time? No? Is that not a...

Have you ever freaked out so badly that you paid someone 20$ for a tree? Neither have we. Have you ever gone to a party and said, "Hmm, you know what I need? A broccoli tart!" Neither have we.

The claws are out! Jeffrey and Eleni get into a heated debate when talking about Rory's college dating life. Lorelai is being her usual petty self and bringing an unsuspecting interior designer down with her. Sookie and Jackson decide on a baby name and it's terrible - but so is the alternative. Looking to watch other people's drama instead of creating your own? We've got a new show for you!

Think Ginny & Georgia is a knockoff version of Gilmore Girls? Think again! We're talking about why the two shows are nothing alike and how Netflix original shows have failed us. Back in Stars Hollow, Rory's home from college and for some reason wants to go to her ex's wedding? Oh, and her ex didn't even ask his future wife if that was okay! Oh! And! The groom is still in love with his ex! So....

We're continuing our discussion of cancel and celebrity culture by bringing Britney Spears into the mix. Then, we're talking about Paris settling in at school, new characters (some better than others), the beginnings of Richard and Emily's rift, and the failed attempt to give Sookie a deeper story - which has us wondering about society's treatment of overweight women.

The Gilmore Girls are heading to Yale and running into familiar faces and meeting new ones. Could this be the best episode of Gilmore Girls ever? We discuss. We're also talking about an essay by Robin Silbergleid, who notes that if Lorelai was Black or poor, she wouldn't have been such a great role model in the early 2000s.

We're kicking season 4 off with what we do best - talking about something else for the first 20 minutes of the episode. Once we do get around to talking about episode 1, we've got lots to say about Lorelai being annoying, Luke being insignificant, Sookie and Jackson being trash and Rory growing up. Unfortunately, we also have to address a certain father/sperm donor and the real-life bullshit *he*...

We sat down with Grammy Award-winning writer and comedian, Mike DiCenzo. He's not a writer for Gilmore Girls, but he definitely should be after that viral Twitter thread about the show's characters during the pandemic. We talked about all things Gilmore, the enduring resonance of the series, Rory's disappointing character arc, and lots more. (@mikedicenzo on Twitter and Instagram).

We couldn't send you off this year without one more episode! More questions, more discussions, more shouting and so much more Gilmore Girls - and gays!