Coaching Culture

Leadership in today’s world is complex, particularly when considering the delicate balance between compassion and candor. In Part 2 of their conversation, JP and Nate further explore this dynamic with guest Kim Scott. This episode is rich with insights on enhancing communication and feedback. The discussion revolves around Kim's book,  Radical Candor . √ In emotionally charged exchanges, get c...

Leadership in today’s world is complex. It involves many polarities, such as autonomy and control, support and accountability, love and truth. Effective leadership goes beyond either/or thinking. It necessitates the integration of these opposing concepts. In this episode, JP and Nate are delighted to host Kim Scott, a New York Times best-selling author and renowned expert in leadership. Kim is cel...

Over the past two episodes, our distinguished guest from the Harvard Graduate School of Education, Richard Weissbourd, unveiled some poignant realities about the role of a sports parent. In this conversation, JP and Nate aim to address a crucial question: How can we skillfully navigate these challenges to steer clear of the detrimental sports parenting behaviors discussed in Episode 309? Tune in a...

JP and Nate continue the 2-part conversation with Richard Weissbourd from the Harvard Graduate School of Education. He is an expert in Children’s Moral and Emotional Development. His work focuses on moral development, the nature of hope, vulnerability and resilience in childhood, parenting and effective schools and services for children. He is the author of the previously mentioned book on the pod...

In this episode, JP and Nate bring onboard a special guest from the Harvard Graduate School of Education, Richard Weissbourd. He is an expert in Children’s Moral and Emotional Development. His work focuses on moral development, the nature of hope, vulnerability and resilience in childhood, parenting and effective schools and services for children. He is the author of the previously mentioned book...

The superpower of being a transformational leader lies in being transparent about our own growth journey and exemplifying it for others. Demonstrating transparency provides credibility, especially when we seek to make improvements based on feedback from our stakeholders, such as our athletes. This approach not only enhances our connection with others but also deepens our overall impact. In this ep...

In this episode, John O'Sullivan joins JP and Nate in an insightful discussion, highlighting the significance of John's newest book, The Champion Teammate: Timeless Lessons to Connect, Compete and Lead in Sports and Life , with Jerry Lynch. Included in the book are ideas on how coaches can guide their athletes to become better performers. Throughout the conversation, the importance of crea...

As coaches, we may not be directly responsible for our athletes' experiences, but we have the power to positively influence them through our actions. In this episode, JP hosts a discussion with Keith Mayer and his son David. Keith, who has been coaching soccer since 1981, currently holds the position of academy coach at Liverpool FC and David is a part of the Red Wolves club in Utah. Both Keit...

Great leaders aren’t just intelligent, highly skilled communicators, motivators, and story-tellers. They are able to step back and consider different perspectives. In this episode, JP initiates the discussion by sharing personal stories from his childhood, reflecting on moments where he was inclined to argue and impose his will on others. However, he emphasizes the substantial growth he has experi...

JP and Nate are joined once again by their special guest, Dr. Alex Auerbach from the Toronto Raptors. Dr. Auerbach holds the position of Senior Director of Wellness and Development, overseeing the Offcourt Development of Leadership and Character within the organization. In this episode, the conversation transitions from exploring the three mindsets of mental performance to discussing specific prot...

Shortly before the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic, the Toronto Raptors made a significant move by hiring Dr. Alex Auerbach as their Senior Director of Wellness and Development. Recognizing the immense value of his perspective and insights, they entrusted him with the responsibility of Offcourt Development of Leadership and Character. Additionally, he was granted a seat on their Executive Leadershi...

For many coaches who choose to welcome feedback, the strategy can become overwhelming, especially when it coincides with the conclusion of a season. JP and Nate have previously emphasized the significance of actively seeking feedback. As part of the mentorship program with TOC, one of the initial stages involves completing a comprehensive 360-degree feedback form across various aspects of life. In...

In our previous episode, JP and Nate engaged in a thought-provoking discussion with Chip Huth, a former officer in the Kansas City Police Department and a Leadership Consultant at the Arbinger Institute. The conversation revolved around self-deception and the concept of the outward mindset, which was previously explored in episodes  180  and  181 . In Part 2 of the conversation, Chip delves deeper...

JP's latest book, The Culture System , explores the concept of The Outward Mindset in its first chapter. This perspective is crucial for leaders to consistently operate from, enabling them to be authentic and gain acceptance. The podcast episodes 180 and 181 previously discussed this way of thinking. In this week’s episode, Chip Huth joins as a guest to share insights about his upbringing, his...

As the academic year comes to a close and sports seasons draw to an end, coaches start planning for the upcoming season. Inevitably, they ponder the question, "What will leadership look like for our team next year?" Is leadership merely about holding players accountable, or does it encompass more? How can we enhance player ownership? JP and Nate explore strategies to tackle the leadershi...

In Part 1 of our conversation with Dr. Tim Elmore, the renowned founder and CEO of Growing Leaders and a bestselling author with an impressive collection of over 30 books, JP and Nate delved into various topics aimed at bridging the gap between previous generations and Gen Z individuals. In Part 2, Tim takes the discussion further, placing significant emphasis on the crucial aspects of trust-build...

Over the past two decades, we have witnessed an unparalleled pace of growth, surpassing any other period in human history. Dr. Tim Elmore, an esteemed guest on this podcast episode, joins JP and Nate to shed light on bridging the generational gap caused by this cultural transformation. Dr. Elmore, the founder and CEO of Growing Leaders and a bestselling author with over 30 books to his name, is de...

In this episode, JP and Nate discuss two contrasting perspectives held by sports enthusiasts. On one side, there are those who believe that there is no such thing as failure in sports, but rather continuous progress and valuable lessons to be learned. On the other side, there are individuals who emphasize that the scoreboard is the ultimate determinant of success. Our hosts explore the question of...

JP and Nate are joined by special guest Dusty May, the Head Coach of the Florida Atlantic University (FAU) Men’s Basketball Team for Part 2 of this conversation. Coach May led his team to make history in the NCAA Tournament by advancing all the way to the Final Four. Dusty shares more about his personal journey and how he navigates the rapidly-changing landscape of college sports, while staying co...

Coaches are always looking for inspiration and the secrets of successful coaches, especially those from unexpected places. In this episode, JP and Nate visit with special guest Dusty May, who is the Head Coach of the Florida Atlantic University (FAU) Men’s Basketball Team. Coach May and his Owl’s made history this year in the NCAA Tournament by advancing all the way to the Final Four. As a lifelon...

Awareness leads to responsibility. Responsibility leads to growth. It is our responsibility as coaches to get our players to the truth so that we can help them maximize their growth. Many times, coaches are fighting against the inaccurate voices that influence players outside of the program. JP and Nate discuss many best practices to enhance the player-coach relationship. √ Accept reality so that...

The fight against mediocrity is taxing. It is even more taxing from a leadership perspective where you can’t just take care of yourself, you have to inspire the ones around you to follow your example. In this episode, JP and Nate continue the conversation with special guest Anson Dorrance, the longtime head coach of the women’s soccer program at the University of North Carolina. He has one of the...

The climate for developing players is better when competition exists. In this episode, JP and Nate visit with special guest Anson Dorrance, the longtime head coach of the women’s soccer program at the University of North Carolina. He has one of the most successful coaching records in the history of athletics. Under Dorrance's leadership, the Tar Heels have won numerous NCAA Women's Soccer...

How do you get better at coaching when you aren't coaching? Similar to our desire as coaches for players to grow out-of-season in various areas of their lives and sport, we too must take ownership of our development beyond the sidelines. In this episode, JP and Nate discuss the harsh realities of problems in programs and where fault falls. They share ways to develop solutions personally and pr...

In this episode (Part 2 of 2), JP and Nate continue the conversation with special guest Ryan Hawk. Ryan was formerly the quarterback at Miami University. After finishing his playing career, he started The Learning Leader Show (Podcast). He is the author of two books - Welcome to Management: How To Grow From Top Performer To Excellent Leader and The Pursuit of Excellence: The Uncommon Behaviors of...