Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau

Hey sis! In this episode, we are talking all about boundaries... only this time, we are talking about having boundaries with ourselves! Most of the time, the conversation on boundaries centers on how to form them with our friends, colleagues, family, and acquaintances but what about when it comes to overworking ourselves and pushing ourselves too hard? Tune in now for more on this conversation! Cl...

Hey sis! In this episode, we are talking all about being authentic with yourself. We talk about how codependency can make it difficult to be your most authentic, true version of yourself, and why you should push through the blockages, and embrace your most authentic self anyway. Tune in to hear more! Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.c...

Hey sis! In this episode, we are talking all about love bombing. We get into what love bombing is, how to spot love bombing, and how to deal with the effects of being love bombed. Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs) Click here to get your FREE copy of my Anatomy of Self Love workbook (or visit https://bold-hill-3643.ck.page...

Hey sis! In this episode, we are talking all about healthy partners, the signs of healthy partners and potential partners, and ways for us to tell if we have a healthy partner or potential partner. Tune in to this episode for more! Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass! (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs) Click here to get your FREE copy of my Anatomy of Self Lo...

Hey sis! In this episode, we are concluding the reparenting series with part 4 of the series on the topic of Enmeshment. Enmeshment happens when we struggle to distinguish between who we are and who other people are. Oftentimes, this happens with our parents and our families. When this happens, it makes it difficult for us to know and realize our own identity & desires. Tune in to this episode for...

Hey girl!   In this episode,  we talk about feeling secure within our own energy, knowing the difference between our energy and someone else's, and how codependency affects our energy.   Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass!   (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs )   Business Inquiries? Email the team:  hi@beatricekamau.com IG:  @theselflovefix . Website: www.bea...

Hey girl!   In this episode, we talk about prioritizing ourselves and people pleasing. You are not going to want to miss this one! Tune in for more on this topic.     Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass!     (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs )   Business Inquiries? Email the team:  hi@beatricekamau.com IG:  @theselflovefix . Website: www.beatricekamau.com

Hey girl!   In this episode,  we talk about falling in love with the self love journey, how loving yourself is a destination, not a process, and meeting yourself where you are at. Tune in for so much more on this topic!   Click here for the 3 step guide to radical self-forgiveness e-book   Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass!   (or visit beatricekamau.com/progra...

Hey girl!   In this episode,  we talk about the very real feelings we deal with when coming to grips with the narcissistic abuse, emotional abuse, and absence we felt from our parents. We talk about grieving the love we never received and how to be compassionate with ourselves when moments like this hit us hard. Stay tuned for more.   Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns mas...

Hey girl!   In this episode, we talk about why you are absolutely, 100% allowed to say no- or any variation of it. We talk about how our trauma and inner child wounds can hold us back from expressing that we do not want to do something. You are allowed to not want to do something. You are allowed to express that you do not want to do something without feeling guilty for how others will respond. Tu...

Hey girl!   In this episode, we talk about what it looks like when we criticize how we heal, how fast we heal, and what our progress looks like. We talk about why we need to be more gentle on ourselves and why self-love has its ups and downs and why that's normal. Can't wait to catch you on the other side!   Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass!   (or visit beatr...

Hey girl!   In this episode, we talk about emotional labor. What is emotional labor? What does it look like in the context codependency, race, and our everyday experiences. You are not going to want to miss the nuggets in this episode :).   Book of the month: All about love by Bell Hooks   Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass!   (or visit beatricekamau.com/progra...

Speaking from my truth & my heart. Click here to join the no more codependent thought patterns masterclass!   (or visit beatricekamau.com/programs )   Business Inquiries? Email the team:  hi@beatricekamau.com IG:  @theselflovefix . Website: www.beatricekamau.com

Hey girl!   In this episode, we talk about some of the ways our ego tells us lies about who we are. We discuss how some of these lies develop from our childhood. Often times, we feel as though we are broken, as though something is inherently wrong with us, and as though nothing good will ever come our way. We think these lies are our truth when in reality, they are actually lies that come from our...

Hey girl!   In this episode, we talk about the 6 sneaky ways codependency can show up as perfectionism. Perfectionism is a coping mechanism often developed from childhood that helps us feel a sense of control and a sense of worth. The truth is our worth is not in what we can produce or how we can produce it. Listen to this episode to discover more about perfectionism and how to release it as a for...

Hey girl!   In this episode, we talk about the 7 Signs You May Have A Mother Wound. A "mother wound", in this episode, refers to the emotional damage that you may experience as an adult as a result of having had a relationship with an emotionally abusive, narcissistic, and/or emotionally unavailable parent. We talk about the signs and as always, we talk about how important it is to validate, love,...

Hey girl!   In this episode, we talk negative and self-critical thoughts! We talk about how childhood trauma & narcissistic trauma can influence our thought patterns and how most of our thoughts are just that- patterns. We an AMAZING way to let go of negative & self critical thoughts and we discuss how you are not alone & you are not crazy, there's totally a way to break free from this! Can't wait...

Hey girl!   In this episode, we talk about the 10 signs you grew up with a narcissistic mother. This is not a complete list as there are many other signs but, these are some of the most common signs you may come across. You're not going to want to miss this eye-opening episode!   Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided...

Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about feeling "obsessed" with that potential partner, or that person you are "talking to", or even that person you have been ghosted to (hey what happened to them and why are they ignoring me?) we go into DETAIL about why we panic, why we get obsessed, and why we want more from those that give us less. Hint: it's not you, it's the pattern of thinking you were rai...

Hey girl! In this episode, we have a special guest, licensed psychotherapist Alyssa Lia Mancao. During this episode, Alyssa and I chat about inner child healing work, trauma, and how to deal with it all especially, during the quarantine. You are not going to want to miss the gems she drops in this episode! Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Heali...

Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about dealing with angry and confrontational people, how to deal with our own anger when we feel offended and/or attacked, and how to respond to the narcissists in our lives who try to elicit reactions out of us. In this episode, we also explore the ego and how our ego relates to our reactions and responses to the situations and things that upset and frustrate us...

Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about being satisfied with the present moment. Are you feeling uneasy during this quarantine time and feeling as though you want to be anywhere but right here? Feeling stuck in a rut and wanting to escape your current reality? Check out this episode today!  Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations...

Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about people-pleasing. Where does people-pleasing originate from? What are some of the signs? What can you do about it? We cover all this and much more! Please don't forget to rate & review! Check out  https://trybetterhelp. com/s elflovefix   to save 10% on your first month of online therapy/counseling through better help professional counseling (Sponsored by Be...

Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about people-pleasing. Where does people-pleasing originate from? What are some of the signs? What can you do about it? We cover all this and much more! Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack ***10% of proceeds from Inner Child Healing Affirmations & Guided Medi...

Hey girl! In this episode, we talk about jealousy. Where does jealousy come from? What is the root of jealousy? How do you move past jealousy? How do you work through jealousy? We address all this and more in this week's episode, you don't want to miss it! Please don't forget to rate & review! Click here to order your copy of the Inner Child Healing Affirmations and Guided Meditations combo pack B...