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In this episode of Christianish, we dive deep into a topic that many women wrestle with: the societal pressure that tells us our "dating clock" is ticking. Keshia Rice, your host and dating coach, takes you on a journey of self-reflection, addressing the feelings of urgency and the often unwarranted fear that comes with aging and being single. Keshia shares her perspective on the notion of "time r...

In this episode, Keshia Rice gets straight to the point: if you keep ending up in low-effort, below-the-bare-minimum relationships, it's not bad luck, it's a pattern. And that pattern is rooted in not fully recognizing your own worth. Keshia breaks down the seven habits that quietly sabotage relationships, not just romantic ones, but friendships, career dynamics, and family relationships too. Beca...

In this episode of Christianish, Keshia Rice dives into the powerful mindset shifts you need to make to attract the healthy, loving relationship you've been searching for. Keshia shares from her personal experience of transformation and the mindset changes that helped her find love, build a successful career, and embrace personal growth. This episode is for women ready to stop repeating the same o...

In today's episode, Keshia Rice calls out a hard truth: many women say they want a loving, healthy relationship, but they are often unwilling or unable to truly receive and hold love. While many high-achieving women may have it all together in their careers and personal lives, the same patterns of giving without receiving hold them back from attracting the love they desire. Keshia dives deep into...

If you're tired of ending relationships feeling drained, confused, or heartbroken, this episode is for you. In this powerful conversation, Keshia Rice breaks down five essential boundaries every Christian woman needs in order to stop wasting time on the wrong men and start protecting her faith, energy, and heart. This episode goes beyond surface-level dating advice and gets to the why behind repea...

If 2026 is the year you're getting serious about dating and finding your purpose partner, this episode is a must-listen. In this conversation, Keshia breaks down the real reason so many women keep ending up in misaligned relationships: they're dating from a place of hunger. Using a powerful (and painfully accurate) grocery store analogy, this episode explores how emotional, physical, and relationa...

In this bold and necessary conversation, Keshia challenges the rise of "princess culture" in modern dating, the belief that love means being rescued, provided for, and spared from responsibility. While the fantasy may feel comforting, it often leaves women vulnerable, burned out, and disconnected from their own discernment. This episode is not anti-femininity or anti-provision, it is anti-infantil...

What if the reason you're not getting what you want in life isn't because you're asking for too much but because you're too afraid to disappoint people? In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Keshia shares why growth, alignment, and answered prayers often require upsetting people who benefitted from the old version of you. This episode also includes an important announcement about the futur...

Is it true that "the right person will love you just as you are"? Yes… and no. In this episode, Keshia breaks down the uncomfortable but necessary truth: if you want a healthy, loving, stable relationship, you will need to grow. Not change your identity but absolutely evolve your habits, your mindset, your emotional patterns, and your expectations. This episode is a loving (but firm) invitation to...

Are Christian women really "too picky," or are they finally getting clear on what God actually wants for them? In this episode, Keshia Rice breaks down the difference between shallow preferences and true standards and why strong, faith-aligned standards are one of the most loving things you can have for yourself and the partner God is preparing for you. If you've ever been told that your expectati...

It's Thanksgiving, and Keshia is sharing a surprising thing she's grateful for this year: learning how to build relationships before the internet shaped how we connect. In this episode, she unpacks how technology has changed dating, communication, and discernment — especially for Gen Z — and why intentional, offline relationship-building matters more than ever. Whether you're actively dating or re...

Have you ever laid awake at night wondering: "What if I never meet the right man?" "What if I'm alone forever?" If so, you're far from the only one. Many Christian single women, especially those who desire marriage, carry this quiet, heavy fear. In this episode, Keshia Rice gently unpacks where this fear comes from, how to confront it honestly, and how to move forward confidently while trusting Go...

Is it embarrassing to have a boyfriend? Is it an automatic red flag if you're posting your partner on social media? Keshia Rice takes a deep dive into the viral debate sparked by Shante Joseph's Vogue article about "soft launching" relationships and why some women are afraid to publicly show their boyfriends. Whether you're dating for fun or dating for marriage, this episode helps you set your sta...

In this raw and honest episode, Keshia Rice breaks down the real reason why high-potential relationships suddenly fizzle out—and it has nothing to do with your beauty, body, or Bible knowledge. The truth? Neediness repels. Receptivity attracts. This is your wake-up call to stop operating from anxiety and start flowing from peace . 💡 In This Episode: What "needy energy" actually looks and sounds l...

If dating feels like a game, a war zone, or a constant cycle of disappointment, you might not have a man problem. You might have an emotional discipline problem. In this episode, Keisha Rice unpacks why unchecked emotions will keep you in cycles with the wrong men and how to break free with grace, standards, and sacred wisdom. In This Episode: What "too emotional" actually means (and what it doesn...

It's family dinner. You're just trying to enjoy your plate... when someone hits you with that question: "When are you finally gonna settle down?" In this episode, Keshia Rice breaks down how to respond with confidence, grace, and zero apologies. Whether you're setting boundaries or just redirecting the convo with humor, you'll leave equipped to protect your peace this holiday season. In This Episo...

No man, not even the right man, can make you feel whole. In this episode, Keshia Rice shares a truth every woman needs to hear: you don't need to be chosen to feel worthy. If you're waiting on his praise to feel pretty, valuable, or good enough… it's time to shift that energy back to you. In This Episode: Why his validation will never be enough (and isn't supposed to be) How to break free from the...

You don't need to mold him. You don't need to mother him. And you definitely don't need to fix him. In this episode, Keshia Rice drops the real reason so many women are exhausted by love—and how shifting your approach can change everything . In This Episode: Why trying to "help him grow" is actually pushing him away The #1 need of masculine energy in a relationship (and it's not sex) How to influe...

If you've ever prayed and felt like your blessings were stuck in traffic, you're not alone. This episode is for the Christian woman who's been watching the "manifestation girlies" on social media and wondering, Why is it working for them, but not for me? Keshia Rice breaks down how self-concept —a term that's blowing up in the manifestation space—is actually deeply biblical . And when rooted in Go...

What does viral rapture panic have to do with your dating life ? Way more than you think. In this episode, Keshia Rice draws powerful (and slightly hilarious) parallels between the internet's recent "Rapture Talk" and the way so many Christian women get caught up in relationship obsession . From anxiety about being "left behind" to time pressure and desperation disguised as discernment, we're unpa...

This one might ruffle some feathers, but it needs to be said: some churches are unintentionally keeping Christian women stuck, single, and spiritually burnt out. If you've been faithful, prayerful, and wondering why love still hasn't shown up—this episode is for you. Keshia Rice unpacks four sneaky messages circulating in Christian spaces that can sabotage your dating life, hinder your confidence,...

What if the next four months were the most transformative season of your love life yet? In this episode, Keshia Rice invites you into The Great Lock-In —a soul reset from now through the end of 2025 designed to help you release what no longer serves you and finally attract the kind of love you've been praying for. If you're tired of repeating old patterns, settling for "almost" connections, and wa...

You keep asking, "Does he love me?" Sis, the harder question is... does he even like you? In this episode, Keshia Rice breaks down the subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs that a man is emotionally unavailable, using you for convenience, or just coasting while you're over there calling it a relationship. In This Episode: 5 major red flags he doesn't really like you Why convenience relationships can st...

Let's be real, you're not confused. You're just trying to justify staying in something that already isn't enough. In this episode, Keshia Rice breaks down why "situationships" are just emotionally dressed-up dead ends and why you deserve more than someone who can't even define what you are. In This Episode: What a situationship really is (and how it's different from casual dating) The sneaky psych...

Forget the stock market, the real recession is in romance. In this episode, Keshia Rice unpacks the rise of the "dating recession" and how Gen Z is navigating love in a post-pandemic, high-cost, high-anxiety world. Whether you're Gen Z, millennial, or Gen X, these cultural shifts are affecting everyone and your love life might be caught in the middle of it. In This Episode: Why more young adults a...