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The Christmas holiday can feel challenging. Do you have the belief that you should put on a smiling face and pretend all is well until the Holiday is over? I'm challenging that belief. Let's be truthful about how we are feeling, do things that bring us peace, take action when needed even on Christmas, and allow ourselves and others to feel all the emotions that may come up this year. God Bless you...

How do we take action on something when we feel stressed about it, or when emotionally we don't know if we're ready; yet, we know it's something we really need to do? Lots of Boundary work in this episode. 

Denial is such a powerful tool. We use it to cope with uncertainty, to excuse ourselves from taking needed action, and pretending that we are okay the way things are even if we are not. We can keep living with our eyes pointed to the ground or we can see the truth and experience relief, freedom, and empowerment. We are deserving of positive growth and an abundance of perspective. 

Life changes when we suffer from trauma and triggers. It's hard to go places we used to go, do things we once loved, and participate in activities that we once didn't think twice about. We want our life back. As we are healing, those triggers show up and can take over. Being prepared ahead of time can help us stay clear and grounded and begin the process of taking back our life. There is hope to b...

It's hard enough to be faced with divorce let alone have our friends and family tell us what we should and shouldn't be doing. In this mini episode I talk through the judgements we receive and how to handle them.

It's common when someone who has betrayed us or caused us harm in some way is asking us to forgive and forget. This happens because they will feel better about what they did if we are no longer in pain. In this first episode of our mini series where I will be answering common questions I receive, we go over what forgiveness looks like for us.

When we are standing in that desolate place in our mind and feel paralyzed and stuck with all that has been lost and not knowing how to feel happy or productive again or the feeling of not knowing how to progress and move forward, create for yourself a blank slate. 

Repost of Episode 23. Words, phrases, and actions explaining what verbal and emotional abuse looks like and sounds like. Steps we can take to learn and change these behaviors in ourselves and boundaries we can place to keep safe from others if we are being abused in this way

Such a great interview with Christine Baird. She is a worth expert and teaches others through her podcast "The Worthfull Project" how to own their own worth. Learning that and coming to a place of "knowing" that you don't have to earn your worth fills your soul with love as you come to believe and accept that it's already in you. You just have to remember that it's there and always has been. Remem...

Sitting with our feelings allows us to grieve and surrender to the hold they have on us. This allows for peace as we let go. This is where we change our false beliefs, heal past wounds, and overcome the barriers that have been in our way keeping us from succeeding.

We take key points from last weeks interview with Geoff Steurer on being an observer, and show how important that is in all our relationships. Being an observer gives us information and truth so we can accept and make better decisions. 

I am talking with Geoff Steurer LMFT about what signs and actions we are looking for and can expect when a partner is trying to build trust back into the marriage after infidelity and betrayal. We cover what that looks like staying in the relationship and also healing personally whether in the marriage or moving forward without our partner. The insight he shares is so helpful and eye opening, and...

We come up against a wall; sometimes one of our own and other times someone else's. In this episode I'm talking about a new way to look at these walls and what to do about them. How do we tackle breaking them down? We will be looking at them from a new angle.

Looking at life, our healing, and what is holding us back from being our truest and best self, will blow our perspective out of the water and change everything! Being completely intentional with what we're doing and why; asking ourselves the deep questions bring us the greatest discoveries which is equal to adding so much joy. Knowing and learning brings peace.

Excitement is brewing as I go over all the things I want to share with you and all that is coming! New empowering tools and tips. 

We've got to change what we are putting in our mind so we can create new pathways and beliefs if we want our life to improve and receive our desired outcome.

We want so badly to save our partner or family member from themselves and their choices. It doesn't work like we want. We end up losing ourself and our sanity when we exhaust everything on their behalf. But there is a way to offer love, tools, and everything, in a way that heals us and helps us get stronger.

I was a witness to a domestic violence situation and I acted. God brought safety right to her front door and offered a way to be saved. What's on your front porch showing you how to be saved, change, take action, etc? Are you letting God show you how to be saved? And are you taking it?

I took back Valentines Day. Trauma will no longer own me or any other date that brings up past trauma experiences. I teach you a technique to raise your vibration to shift your heart and mind and change the way you view the outcomes of the future.

Noticing the shame we carry and feel when we are happy, sad, or being treated poorly will help us learn how to reject it. We will not allow it to have place in us anymore. Shame robs us of feeling good enough and tells us lies about who we are and what are true situation is. We are busting through shame in this episode to find even more healing. 

As we find our power from deep within we begin to change our circumstances. With each step of change we feel empowered with our growth and healing. We begin to feel happy and proud of ourselves. This joy moves us forward. Healing happens. Life changes. And it feels good. 

Building our emotional resilience will give us the strength we need to find our way out of chaos and onto finding personal healing. 

What is up and coming in 2021 with me and Choose In?! Listen in and hear all that is happening so you don't miss the opportunity to be a part of something meant for you. You can stay where we are or you can take the steps to thrive personally this year! It feels good to feel strong and empowered! You've got this.

How to navigate a child's well-being when their parent is an addict as well as what's the impact of the truth and choosing divorce. We cover all of that!

Becoming aware, separating truth from fiction, and finding coping strategies, all help with the unwanted triggers that pop into our head creating stories that send us spiraling. That doesn't have to happen. We can change the outcome.