Chick Shit

How does one 'be single'? It can look a million different ways, and about everyone feels like they are doing it wrong. Do you need to play the numbers game with the modern dating landscape being so heavily dependent on apps, or do you focus on a strict list of what is really important to you? Are you thriving with flying solo and plan to stay that way? Figuring all of this out can be abs...

Have you ever moved to a new small town in the northwest as an awkward teenager to live with your mustachio’s zaddy and accidentally fell in love with a sparkly skinned killer? Perhaps you get sucked into the seedy underground of the undead and have numerous enemies of the sparkly skinned stone people attempt to kill you? And maybe you find out you're pregnant with some half human half sparkl...

Have you ever stuck to something much longer than it actually served you simply because you'd been doing it so long that you felt like you were expected to continue? LJ and Di have. Why do we, as people, do this? Why do we continue to force ourselves to get up and maintain what we think people expect of us long after it isn't fun anymore? Join LJ and Di as they talk through the movie of...

Have you ever gotten the urge to pack a bag, head to the airport, and catch the next flight out of your city for some self-care? LJ and Di have too. Are you also unable to do so because of work, bills, responsibilities, and other stupid things? Samesies. Join LJ and Di as they talk through their bucket list travel locations and some big trips they will take this year while they rewatch a major com...

Lj and Di are child-free by choice; the only mom pressure they feel comes from fur babies. For this episode, we tagged in two moms of actual humans to talk about the pressure they put on themselves and the pressure that society piles on them as well. If you are a mom who has dealt with juggling work, parenting, kids' sports schedules, the judgment of stay-at-home moms, or literally anyone on...

Per LJ, communicating with your partner takes only two words: Microsoft PowerPoint. In other news, no one should take relationship advice from LJ unless they thrive in chaos and want to invest in a very good therapist and psychiatrist team. Communicating with a partner can be tough, any way you slice it. Do you share every single thought and worry with them, or do you pick and choose what you shar...

Did you have a great relationship with your mom growing up, or maybe you didn't get close until later in life? Maybe you didn't have a mom, or your mother figure was someone else? Maybe *mother* is just Taylor Swift (and father is obvs Pedro Pascal)? Any way you slice it, it’s a special and fragile relationship that can greatly impact your life. Were LJ and Di close to their moms growing...

Do you have that one friend that people understand you’re a packaged deal with? If one of you is invited, the other is automatically the plus one? You probably have the best memories, all the inside jokes, some really petty grudges (or is that just LJ?), and potentially some things that you missed out on because your bestie couldn't go. Join LJ and Di as they use the greatest film ever made,...

Life is hard, mental health is harder, and finding the right help at the right time can feel damn near impossible. Join LJ and Di and a VERY special guest as they do their best to tackle a difficult topic with as much respect and rationale as possible. Mental health is still so stigmatized in America and it often feels like we’re failing ourselves, our families, and our friends. How can you help s...

It's wild how society has trained us to see our body or weight and feel not good enough, panic, and immediately decide we have to start running. Runners are skinny people; hence, if we run...we will be skinny. Not accurate! Go watch a local marathon or half marathon. You'll see a rainbow of body types and sizes, all doing this amazing feat of fitness and are all healthy in their own righ...

Are you all prepared for 2023? Yeah….neither are LJ and Di! 2022 has flown by and there have been highs, lows, and graduations, but they are so thankful for all of you going on the journey that was 2022 with them. They choose their favorite episodes and their….not….so favorite episodes, drink coke Z (seriously where’s their sponsorship?), and talk about the future. Here’s to 2023 and all the topic...

While you were skipping along in your happy relationship did you ever have an experience that made your spidey senses tingle? Was your gut reaction to have a discussion with your significant other? Or perhaps, dress in your most stylish all black outfit and do light to medium social media stalking? If you’re a passcode couple perhaps you do a little iPhone espionage? Join LJ and Di as they discuss...

Did you grow up riding your bike around the neighborhood with your besties? Did  summers for you include popsicles, sleepovers, and seances? Was it normal to hang out in a graveyard and run from the scary man who only comes out at night? Well hold on to your balloons full of pudding that are stuffed into your bra for that little extra lift because LJ and Di (and Jack!) are talking through Now and...

Have you ever wanted something or someone really badly? Maybe gone to some ridiculous lengths to get that thing? Maybe made some insane gestures to get that person's attention? Perhaps even watched a full list of 100 movies you did not enjoy so you could be prepared for any movie that cinephile may mention? Perhaps created a whole party and curated a scenario that would coincidently put the o...

What was your young love experience? Was it a quick “what color are my eyes?!” moment on a date at Whataburger because that’s what rom coms taught you? Or more of a love triangle in a small North Carolina town where long dramatic speeches and passionate kisses in the rain were required because you kissed your girlfriend’s best friend and were trying to tell Brook Davis you were the guy for her? Op...

Have you ever been scorned by a lovah? Did it devastate you or did it awaken your inner Ursula? Did you and three other scorned lovahs join forces to form the Captain Planet of revenge special ops? Did your A-Team plot a ridiculously intricate revenge scheme including getting Mr. High School Hottie Heartbreaker to wear a thong? Have LJ and Di ever? Listen in to find out while we revisit the early...

Have you ever applied for an entry-level position that’s generally given to those fresh out of college whilst in a wine-induced hangover haze? Maybe you’ve been passed over because you are “overqualified” (a.k.a. too old)? Did you also let your fun Brooklyn bestie talk you into buying a fake ID and lying about your age to your new employer where you now work beside Lizzie McGuire herself? Well you...

Did you grow up in a household where all the things pertaining to your sexual health and well being were openly discussed? If not, how did you find out about self pleasure? Did you one day find the joy of taking extra long showers? Why can men freely talk about this topic and women are shamed for bringing it up? Join LJ and Di as they talk discuss self pleasure using another episode of Big Mouth....

Rihanna’s Unfaithful. Carrie’s Before He Cheats. Taylor’s Should’ve Said No. There a lot of songs about cheating, but none of them *quite* fall into the category of this week’s movie: erotic thriller. Join LJ and Di as they chat through Unfaithful, starring Richard Gere and Diane Lane, and the realities of being unfaithful to your partner. Also join to hear LJ’s take on how this movie could have b...

If you had to walk the runway in high heels in front of the whole town, would you fall down? Do you care about world peace? Well then tune in to listen to LJ, Di, and special guest, Anna, as they talk about the Netflix original Dumplin. We are honored to have this guest on who runs quite possibly the best pageant in the world. Tune in to find out how she has helped create that and given women an o...

Have you ever had a relationship end only because the stars no longer aligned? Had such a bittersweet heartbreak that it catches you off guard? Maybe your relationship ended simply because you both deserve to live your dreams and, unfortunately, those dreams are in two vastly different locations or directions? Join LJ and Di as they chat through a heartbreaking episode of Schitt’s Creek and watch...

Are you a solo traveler with a thirst for adventure and a love of new experiences? Do you ever say "hell yes!" to opportunities spontaneously so you can really live in the moment? Does your father have a very particular set of skills and contacts in the intelligence field internationally? Yeah, ours aren't either. Join LJ, Di and their special guest, Tonya, while they use the Liam N...

Have you ever found yourself scrolling through Instagram for hours? Maybe creating unrealistic standards for your life, body or look that's based on someone else’s highlight real? Maybe you’re just there for the Tik Tok videos that have finally made it onto a reel? Perhaps your screen time is spent over on "the tok" giggling your life away at peoples insane versions of the corn kid...

Did you watch every rom-com available growing up and create unhealthy expectations for what your adult relationships would be? Maybe you’re a hallmark fanatic and thought it would all work out and that the perfect handsome partner would magically show up and immediately become your kids' father figure? Or maybe, just maybe you have gone from 0 to 100 and purchased a love fern for someone you...

You’re toxic/I’m slipping under… sorry, Britney, we have to disagree. Have you ever dated a man or had a guy friend who exuded those classic traits of toxic masculinity: refusing to show emotions (because that’s a sign of weakness), treating people like property, talking shit with his boys because… boys will be boys? We’ll get your head out of those books so you can focus on more important things,...