Cheaters IRL Podcast

Episode 6 Part 1: Why Doesn't Amy Leave? Stacy & Todd's Retaliatory Behavior, Keeping Fit Does Not Guarantee a Partner's Fidelity, Trusting Instincts  Why doesn't Amy leave Chad if she's so lonely? The barriers to leaving and reasons for staying. The impact of avoidant behavior, cheating or emotional abuse on a partner The importance of getting the right kind of help, and harm that can result...

Episode 5 Part 2: Chad & Amy Suspicions of Cheating, Todd & Stacy Suspicions of Cheating   Chad & Amy Suspicions of Cheating Arise. Chad spends far too much time away from home. The word divorce is brought up by Amy. She is achingly lonely. Chad doesn't respond to her efforts to spend time on their marriage. Baffling incidents occur that don't make sense to Amy. Todd & Stacy Suspic...

Episode 5 Part 1: Why is Raquel Struggling to Believe Rumors, Telling Someone About a Partner Cheating, Shooting the Messenger, Cheaters Flipping the Script to Impeach the Credibility of Rumors of Their Cheating, Financial Evidence of Cheating   Why is Raquel Struggling to Believe Rumors of Kyle Cheating? Including an upsetting rumor about her husband getting another woman pregnant? What makes it...

Episode 4 Part 2: Michelle and Danny After the Alter, Raquel and Kyle After the Alter   Michelle and Danny struggle with intimacy, Michelle is highly uncomfortable with engaging in physical intimacy with Danny. She feels immense guilt over this, but Danny is very understanding. Danny excels at work and they move into a good neighborhood. They have twins and Michelle is determined to get into shape...

Episode 4 Part 1: What is Legal Marriage, Is a Cheater Always a Cheater, Changed Appearance is a Sign of Cheating In Episode 4 Part 1, we discuss what Legal Marriage is, it's not about Love. It's about granting rights to the person you are marrying, as to you, including rights to the income you earn and property you accrue. This makes it particularly important that you keep your marriage strong an...

Episode 3 Part 2: Nicole & Dave After the Alter and Tanya & Jeff After the Alter   Things begin to crack immediately for Nicole & Dave, but Dave is able to smooth things over Things are looking really good for Tanya & Jeff, they aren't showing any cracks well into their marriage

Episode 3 Part 1: Lying in Family Law, "It Didn't Mean Anything to Me" and the Impact of Infidelity on Property Division in Divorce We discuss why it's not a good idea to accuse the opposing party of lying in Family Law, and why it's better to use evidence to show that they aren't being honest instead. We discuss the loaded impact of certain words and why it's important to be careful about how you...

Chad and Amy begin their married life. Cracks are already appearing. They get jobs at the same company, in different departments with schedules that make spending time together difficult. Chad struggles dealing with Amy's emotions. Amy struggles dealing with Chad's tendency to shut down in certain situations. Both are excited about the arrival of the baby, which is the thing really holding them to...

Episode 2 Part 1: In this episode we discuss the difficulties in Family Law including the importance of being honest with your attorney and the reasons you don't want to end up in Court. Definitions of Gaslighting and Love Bombing. We discuss what Conflict Avoidant Behavior is, and the negative impact it has on intimacy and how it can result in infidelity and abusive behavior toward the cheated-on...

Cheaters IRL is a podcast discussing cheating in real life (IRL) experiences. It shares 6 true stories of cheating and discusses the commonalities, misconceptions, red flags and even legal implications of cheating. It is written and produced by an experienced family law attorney. Each episode has two parts. Part 1 of each episode is the discussion portion of the episode, where relationships are di...

Cheaters IRL is a podcast discussing cheating in real life (IRL) experiences. It shares 6 true stories of cheating and discusses the commonalities, misconceptions, red flags and even legal implications of cheating. It is written and produced by an experienced family law attorney. Each episode has two parts. Part 1 of each episode is the discussion portion of the episode, where relationships are di...