Chats with Charlie and Ash

What happens when the life you’ve built no longer fits—and you can’t unsee it?   In this episode with Vive Oldham, we dive into the messy, honest reality of reinventing yourself  when your inner knowing is pulling you away from the “acceptable” version of success. We explore what it’s like to break the mould (especially as women, mothers, and business owners), and how disorienting it can feel to f...

In his final days, Charlie's father told her he'd got it all the wrong way around, he'd built the businesses, ticked the boxes, and missed the things that actually mattered. This episode is the story of how Charlie woke up inside the exact life her dad had warned her about, and the bedtime story she couldn't read her daughter that finally cracked the illusion wide open. We talk about the lie that...

A few days ago, Ash was walking her dog down the street, listening to music, and was suddenly hit with the most alive feeling she'd ever experienced in her body. No million dollars in the bank. No flash house. No holiday booked. Just her and the absence of everything she used to think she needed. This episode is the story of how she got there, and why most of us are missing it. We talk about t...

Hands up if you've ever paid good money for a course, coach, or expert and then quietly rejected every piece of advice they gave you. In this episode, Charlie and Ash get honest about the very human habit of seeking answers outside ourselves and then poking holes in every solution we're handed. ("That worked for them, but my situation is different…" sound familiar?) They unpack w...

In this episode we discuss a common relationship dynamic where affection and intimacy start to feel like an obligation rather than a desire, often because life becomes overloaded with responsibilities (work, parenting, household admin, finances) and the nervous system feels “tapped out.”    We talk about how busyness, overwhelm, and unspoken resentment can smother the spark, leading to cycles of r...

In this episode we explore what it means to tune back into your inner knowing as a source of guidabce. In a world that sells outsourcing your authority by needing to be an expert or needing other peoples approval for permission. We beleive that when you truly lead from who you are authentically and are tuned into your own desires, that is all you need to lead a happy and fulfilling life. We end th...

In this episode we share the one thing that will help you actuallytake action and create the change you want in your life. Whether it's in your career, parenting, health and fitness or in your relationships. If you can start with this, the rest will unfold just as it should. Join us for our FREE coaching programme Identity Revolution. A four phase transformational experience where we guide you...

Ever wondered what it's like to sit in our conversation? We were mid chat and I knew I needed to get the mics out! Come sit with us while we go deep in our personal conversation about the wild ride that is life and making the decision to go all in.

In this episode we chat about the energetic drain of never being able to confidently make decisions. Big or small, spending time worrying, thinking about, going over scenarios, however you tackle it can be really exhausting and often leads you to the outcome you were trying to avoid. Here we help you to make confident, empowered decisions, fast so you can get going on the things that really matter...

Today we look at what it looks like to live in a constant state of overwhelm . We unpack whats really driving us to be this way and give some practical tools to what you can about it. Check out our FREE resources here..... www.charlieandash.co.nz

Are you choosing to suffer… without even realising it? This episode explores a confronting but deeply liberating idea: while real trauma and hardship absolutely exist, much of our everyday suffering is voluntary. Charlie shares a personal story about the moment I first heard this concept and honestly, I was angry. Defensive. Triggered. Until I realised something that changed everything… I was crea...

In this deeply honest episode, Charlie and Ash unpack what really happens when we get triggered and why the emotion we think we’re feeling (anger, frustration, defensiveness) is rarely the real one. Underneath it? Sadness. Care. Fear of not being enough. Together, they explore: Why anger often protects us from vulnerability How unprocessed emotions create all-day spirals What nervous system regula...

Have you made a goal or new years resolution and find yourself falling off the band wagon. You're not alone! We break down here the reasons why you keep getting in your own way and what you can do about it.

In this episode we talk into fear and how it can be keeping you from going after your dreams, goals or moving at all. We explore the concept that there is no such thing as failure and how you can continue moving forward without letting fear hold you back. We would love to hear what your key takeaways are. Don't forget to download our free ebook Success without Sacrifice here https://api.leadconnec...

On this episode we chat with Amy Shaw, conscious business visionary and spiritual mentor. We cover all things healing, personal transformation, business building, feminine and masculine energy and almost everything in-between. Amy is a powerhouse full of knowledge, energy and spiritual gifts. We are honoured to have her as part of our panel at our upcoming event this Sunday the 14th of December. G...

In today's episode we talk about feeling worthy or valued outside of being productive and people pleasing, or from other people or situations. What does this look like? How do we know when it goes from serving us to being unhealthy? and what can we do to turn it around? We hope you love the episode, feel free to share it with someone you love and leave a comment. You can also download our free...

In this episode we expose the patterns we see so commonly when we are trying to create change and how it really is an illusion and what you can do to overcome these patterns. If you loved this episode please give it a like, share it with someone you think will resonate and come over to our Instagram @_charlieandash. Grab your FREE Ebook - Success without Sacrifice here https://api.leadconnectorhq....

In this episode we speak into the journey of creating real change. How you can create sustainable change through making it a lifestyle choice. We share openly and vulnerably about our journey and what we feel has been the greatest keys to moving forward in creating a life your excited to show up for everyday. If you would like our FREE e-book, Success without Sacrifice download it here https://api...

In this episode we talk in the programming and beliefs that are formed in us from our childhood and play out throughout our lives, influencing what action ,or inaction we take, how we show up in out lives and what we achieve. This episode digs into how change is possible, when you choose it and why sometimes it can feel so challenging to choose something different. Enjoy! Want to download our FREE...

In this episode we share how we have both overcome building success that caused us to sacrifice our health, our closest relationships and most importantly ourselves. And the journey of creating success that truly feels aligned. We share how you can break free from creating someone else version of success and find what it is you actually want for your life. Download our FREE ebook, Success without...