Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Beauty is not only skin deep. Being attractive also comes from your confidence – the ability to let loose and be yourself. Learn how to have fun and be confident in your own skin. Today, join Kimmy Seltzer as she talks to  Angela Jia Kim  about what makes you more attractive. Angela is a former concert pianist and the Founder of  Savor Beauty + Spa . She is also the author of  Radical Radiance , a...

Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now? In these episodes, you'll hear intimate conversations between Kimmy and her clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since investing in coaching. Listen in to hear the secrets to their success and the biggest shifts they've experienced since working with Kimmy.   EPISODE 251...

Have you ever wondered how to create more open, inviting, sexy energy when dating? The key is closer to home than you might think! This week, Kimmy explores the benefits of having a "vacation mentality" when dating. Listen in to hear her valuable tips and advice on the benefits of approaching your dating life the same way you approach a fun vacation.   EPISODE 250 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast...

Do you believe that being vulnerable is TMI on a first date? How do you balance sharing enough of yourself to make an authentic connection without going overboard? Kimmy is here to help you navigate this essential piece of dating in one of our favorite segments, Coaching With Kimmy. Listen in to candid conversations between Kimmy and her clients looking to improve their love lives with practical a...

When you consciously or even unconsciously ruin things to make them end, this is called self-sabotage. They say people who self-sabotage are somewhat afraid of intimacy in various forms and can act in different ways that can hurt themselves or others around them.  Brandon Wilson  is a communications and executive consultant who helps leaders and organizations identify the barriers that stop them f...

Is your relationship in a bad place? What are the signs that your relationship is ending? Here to help you get to the bottom of a dying romance is  Matthew Fray . Matthew is a relationship coach, writer, and subbed by the New York Times as "the man who coaches husbands on how to avoid divorce." He joins host Kimmy Seltzer to share the things he learned in his own divorce journey to help others sav...

Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient,  Where Are They Now?  In these episodes, you'll hear intimate conversations with Kimmy and her clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since working with her. Listen in to hear what inspired them to invest in coaching, the secrets to their success and the biggest shifts since working with Kimmy...

We've all heard the phrase "living your best life," but what does that really mean? This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Tracy Pattin, host of the celebrated Wondery podcast Hollywood and Crime, and expert on living her best solo (not single!) life. Tracy and Kimmy discuss the empowering nature of finding comfort and confidence in being alone.   EPISODE 246 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is...

You have always been a high achiever. You know your worth and you've been recognized for the value you bring to the table in your professional life. But, when it comes to dating, you can't seem to figure out why you haven't been able to find the same success!  This week, Kimmy has a fascinating conversation with Executive Coach and Relationship Strategist Dr. Robin Buckely, a leading authority on...

Why does dating seem so easy for other people, but challenging for you? Do you find yourself feeling depleted from giving your energy to relationships or situationships that don't fulfill you? This week on the show, Kimmy live coaches Keyva who has developed a habit of attracting emotionally unavailable men. A self-admitted chameleon, she tends to match the energy of the men she's dating but she h...

We all have learned beliefs that shape how we see the world. Did you know you probably have hidden biases that are keeping you single? The beliefs and attitudes you hold are informed by your experiences -- stay tuned to hear why it's important to know the limits of your own perspective. Your thoughts and actions are directly impacted by how you see things, which contributes to your results when da...

Have you ever thought about surrendering to create love?  That doesn't mean compromising your values or letting someone else or external expectations dictate your future. Truly surrendering to love isn't about losing yourself -- it's about showing up as your authentic self and letting your highest self guide your next move, one step at a time. This week on the show, Kimmy has an inspiring conversa...

Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now? In these episodes, you'll hear intimate conversations with Kimmy and her former clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since working with Kimmy. Listen in to hear what inspired them to invest in coaching, the secrets to their success, and how they are different since workin...

Toxic and abusive relationships come in many shapes and sizes. Sometimes abuse is glaring, and sometimes it's more insidious and hidden. This week, Kimmy has a powerful conversation with Tiphany Kane, host of the Radical Audacity Podcast and survivor of a toxic and abusive relationship. Tiphany has dedicated her life's work to empowering women to elevate their voices and stand in their power. In t...

Welcome back to another episode of Coaching with Kimmy where Kimmy has conversations with clients who are navigating dating challenges and searching for practical advice they can use in their love lives right now. In this episode, you'll meet Dustin, a single guy in his early 40s who's looking to improve the quality of boring conversations on dates by showing his true, authentic self more easily i...

Do you consider yourself a courageous leader in love? This week, Kimmy has an uplifting conversation with Trent Clark, a celebrated sports and leadership coach and founder of Leadershipity. Kimmy and Trent define courageous leadership as someone who listens to and implements feedback, is willing to engage in difficult conversations, always has an eye towards innovation, and approaches challenges w...

As pandemic restrictions lift and daily life starts to feel closer to normal, you may find yourself feeling totally out of practice in social and dating situations. This week, Kimmy shares her Top 6 Tips to Up Your Dating Game! Now is the time to get practice flexing your social muscles again and put your best self out there. You can come up with every excuse in the world to postpone this work, bu...

On this episode of  Where Are They Now, Coaching with Kimmy ,   you'll hear from Kimmy's clients about how their love lives have improved since working with her! We love sharing these conversations to motivate you to celebrate and be inspired by the success of others. This week, you'll hear a conversation between Kimmy and her amazing client, Kit who discovered Kimmy through a flirt workshop. Kit...

Finding a healthy, fulfilling love relationship is only possible once you love yourself! You've heard it all before, but did you know that deep self awareness is key to achieving true self love? This week, Kimmy interviews Dr. Denise McDermott, a board-certified, practicing psychiatrist who joins the show for a conversation on how self awareness can unlock the best version of you when it comes to...

Does it feel like you're constantly meeting people who don't spark your interest?  And perhaps you also discover there are certain dating patterns that you keep falling into where you attract the same type of person over and over again. This week, you'll hear Kimmy live coach James, who's ready to find out what dating patterns could be holding him back from making genuine and deeper connections wi...

When you are dating, do you have a plan and intention with it?  If you're ready to find love, the most effective thing you can do is map out a strategic plan. When you have a clear dating strategy, you create more opportunities for success so that you date smarter not harder. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Damona Hoffman, a widely recognized celebrity dating coach and OKCupid's official...

When you set out to find love, it's important to develop a positive mindset around dating. Truly knowing what you want and having fun while you pursue it, will change your dating game and help you define who you are and what you want! This week, Kimmy has an inspiring conversation with Amit Sodha, a transformational coach who helps people develop positive mindsets to become the best versions of th...

Are you more of a serious, intellectual type of person?  Did you know that being fun and playful are the top attributes that people inherently look for when dating and ultimately landing a partner? A sense of fun is more important to many people than whether someone has a degree or are super intelligent. So not taking yourself so seriously may actually be a great dating advantage! This week, Kimmy...

If you've been through a divorce, you know it can turn your world completely upside down. Whether your divorce was contentious or not, you're tasked with the daunting step of forming a new identity, beyond your ex. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Daniel Herrold, co-founder of the fast-growing community Divorced Over 40 (DO40), that provides support for men and women in the aftermath of di...

This week, Kimmy dives deep on the relationship between fear and flirting. If you're preoccupied with a fear of rejection, your ability to be playful and flirt could be hindered. In this episode, Kimmy live coaches Janus, who wants to get back out there and find a healthy, fulfilling relationship. Janus shares her past experience in controlling relationships, which has contributed to her denying t...